Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

2007-09-21 17:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i talk to him im worried?
I know this guy for a while 3 years now 4. He is weird around me now he never says he just stares and sometimes he says hi and with a reall quick wave and never looks at my face just a fast look and looks down.Today my freind had to talk to him and I was there with her he was comeing so I just waved and he waved back fast and talked to my freind he didnt even look at my face or do anything or talk and acted like i wasnt even there he looked kinda nervous .Im like omg talk to me jeese in my headwhat did i ever do to you .Then the other day we were running and i guess he saw me running bye as in walking and he ran off he was sitting when i was walking by. Ten Icame by him again he was with his freind and hes freind said why would you wear those shoes to pe (i was wearing new shoes to peand he asked cause we were running like on dirt.)and then the guy whos been acting weird around me says yeah why would u wear those shoes to pe in a jokeing way...etc pretty pathetic.


some extra detail last year i was a complete tomboy this year im like girly with more girlier clothes that bring out my figure and i wear makeup and look nice not to be stuckup but i get compliments cause people know me as boyish so yeah and this guy found out i liked him last year and he also said we have so much in common last year and we would talk alot last year.

so why is he acting like this?

2007-09-21 16:55:52 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tried to be civil and alow her to start a relationship with my kids but asked her not to have contact with me. Even thou she conctently feels the need to try to control the situation with my ex and my self and kids. Its not her family..right? I told him today that i need a break from the situation, becuase its not going well. It was then turned into "im not alowing him to have the kids because i dont like her". Im confused and sick of hitting my head against the wall. Please offer your advise!

2007-09-21 16:55:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friends and i that know this 17 year old girl (who we are all friends with) have been kinda concerned about her actions lately. She is sort of out of control. she just hooks up with random guys, has sex with them after knowing them for 20mins then wonders why they dont call her back. she even says that she just wants a boyfriend so that she can have someone that will have sex with her on a regular basis. Ive tried saying stuff but she doesnt care. she knows she is a whore and is ok with it and even goes as far to say that i dont have as much confidence as her because i dont show off my body like that and that im not as pretty as her because i dont have sex with guys that im not in a relationship with. Ive been trying to think of a way to talk to her. Can anyone help?

2007-09-21 16:52:44 · 3 answers · asked by Mintminty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

that you love her and say i love you to her? we both like each other and we both have said, we care about each other alot. were really good friends. i haven't asked her out yet, because it would be a long distant relationship. my question is, do i not say i love her until we are actually going out??

2007-09-21 16:51:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know the saying "nothing in life is for free," well does that saying hold true to you or do you have it in you to do for a woman because you want to without anything in return. for me if a guy is doing me right and he deserves that kind of love from me i have no problem doing anything for him without a thought of him giving me anything in return simply because im a true believer in me doing a good deed for someone will make its way back around to me eventually in some kind of way. you may think im crazy for thinking that but sometimes i got to go with my heart. i like doing things for people. i cant help it!

2007-09-21 16:49:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel so lonely and have no one to talk to....

2007-09-21 16:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are rumors going around saying that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I'm afraid to bring it up in front of him because I don't want to believe it is true. What should I do?

2007-09-21 16:47:50 · 17 answers · asked by Angie C. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 16:46:18 · 3 answers · asked by HSM2 always ture love u 1 in Friends

one of my friends likes this guy named john and one of my other friends got asked out by him wat do i do to make her fill better.

2007-09-21 16:44:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Should i talk to him im worried?
I know this guy for a while 3 years now 4. He is weird around me now he never says he just stares and sometimes he says hi and with a reall quick wave and never looks at my face just a fast look and looks down.Today my freind had to talk to him and I was there with her he was comeing so I just waved and he waved back fast and talked to my freind he didnt even look at my face or do anything or talk and acted like i wasnt even there he looked kinda nervous .Im like omg talk to me jeese in my headwhat did i ever do to you .Then the other day we were running and i guess he saw me running bye as in walking and he ran off he was sitting when i was walking by. Ten Icame by him again he was with his freind and hes freind said why would you wear those shoes to pe (i was wearing new shoes to peand he asked cause we were running like on dirt.)and then the guy whos been acting weird around me says yeah why would u wear those shoes to pe in a jokeing way...etc pretty pathetic.


some extra detail last year i was a complete tomboy this year im like girly with more girlier clothes that bring out my figure and i wear makeup and look nice not to be stuckup but i get compliments cause people know me as boyish so yeah and this guy found out i liked him last year and he also said we have so much in common last year and we would talk alot last year.

so why is he acting like this?

2007-09-21 16:43:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you ask a girl you do know like friends to homecoming, or would you ask a girl you didn't know but you like her to homecoming?

2007-09-21 16:39:09 · 6 answers · asked by thewillprince 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 16:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really hate to ask this question but I just like to seek earnest opinions. I must admit I am a very paranoid person and it seems that what had happened back in 2002 to my 2nd ex-gf (and the last) might be happening now :

I have been seeing a gal since last November and for prior to July this year, she has been tremendously patient and tolerant with me despite my negative speculation towards her in the area of guys issue etc. Each and every time she will care to explain to me they mean nothing to her.

For the past 6 weeks she has been extremely busy weeks after weeks such as going for company family outing, going back hometown, attending church camp and thereafter trying to clear her work within 2 weeks with night overtimes so that she could go for 2 weeks holiday in Australia which started on 14th September.

Despite her hectic schedule (which is so rare since I know her), she still keep in touch with me (as both of us are from different country) via text messages.

2007-09-21 16:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 friends that i dont like and i cant say that to them.....
what do i do?

2007-09-21 16:33:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-21 16:33:20 · 14 answers · asked by "THE DEVIL" 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been trying for a few months to start a busisness. We have been living with seperate relitives because my mom can't stand him and his mom's place is to small. Unfortunately he hasn't been working steadily but does earn a bit here and there. We are trying to get back on our feet and together. He is looking for steady employment. We have 3 kids and have been married almost 10 years. Ok so here's my question If your family started telling you that you needed to go after child support to force his hand in getting a steady job what would you think they are saying? I ask because this is what my family is doing to me and when they say that knowing how they feel about him it makes me think like they're trying to tell me to divorce him with out saying it straight out. I'm so hurt by them right now so please don't be judgemental. I love him so much and can't imagine life with out him.

2007-09-21 16:33:08 · 10 answers · asked by renee70466 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband & i had bitter fites in the early marriage days ( an year ago) on trust issues. he was being friendly with people he used to have feelings for, but dint marry/ have an affair as they would not fit into his family( she was of different caste/ nationality). I wasnt comfortable with it, though he was open and frank in telling me all abt it, and also requesting me to forget past. I dint mind his past but was not comfortable with his friendship with them, as i thought he afterall dint chose them bcoz his parents dint want him to ( 2 such girls). Later on, after these fites, we finally came to the agreement that i shudnt worry if its just casual social contact, but he wont cross that line become kind of like close friends. Since them, I hardly am angry , and theres nothing that triggeres any anger in me, marriage has improved a lot. But he simply cant forget the fact that i was quarrelsome in the beginning. Now I can understand that a lot, but somehow it was my weakness,

2007-09-21 16:32:59 · 3 answers · asked by Minerva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I raise grey hounds for a living. The other night I came home and fould my wife mounted by Leslie who won the Westminster Dog show in 2004. My wife was moaning like never before. Appearently this is not the first time this has happened. To make matters worse we get $12,000 stud fees and he was scheduled for a session tomorrow. Now that he has done my wife I can't get anything from him tomorrow. What should I do?

2007-09-21 16:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i move sooooo much lol i cant sit still like i get uncomfortable real fast and then can not stop moving then i just go to sleep lol any one else do that it drived my ex crazy when we would try and cuddle hope who ever i marrie can put up with it lol

2007-09-21 16:29:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister always feels hot, like im freezing and she will be saying " oh my god its hot" she wants to buy an additional A/C..should i let her, and which type? Or does anyone have anohter solution?!

2007-09-21 16:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by OverShiNe 2 in Family

I didnt attend a wedding reception i told her i would go to because i had to do something for my parents. A must do. Anyway during the reception she started having feelings for this other guy that she told me before was hilarious. Now we are on a break and she told me she wanted to know for sure before we get back together. What does it mean?

2007-09-21 16:27:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was never a big Christian, it, it makes you think about life, this kid, was a motocrossor had a lot going for him, was gonna be big...so he gone.....what happens now? You know, next life?

2007-09-21 16:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by thinking444 2 in Family

My husband treats me like a child-yelling at me in front of the kids.He throws stuff at me-shoe,couch,rocking chair-never spends time with me or the kids. I hate it/him?! I actually looked up how much he would have to pay in child support-looked it up mths ago. We argued tonight about me only paying a bill $80 instead of $100 that he told me too and said that I always never listen to him. I just wanted to have $20 in the bank(broke). So I left him a note for when he comes home saying....... " Don't p*ss me off or else you'll be-alone- have no car - have to travel 5hrs away to see your kids - have no house cause I'd take half - and have to pay me $700+ a mth for child support and possibly alamony so be nice :) " And yes the smily is there too. Am I being mean. Should I forget about it. I'm just sometimes tired of being stepped on by my own husband:(

2007-09-21 16:23:09 · 21 answers · asked by Marge 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 16:22:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey do u go 4 that guy who iz extremely dumb or acts that way cuz he thinks its funny? do u go 4 dat class clown who trys 2 make jokes of every1 in the class jus 2 git a laugh? do u go 4 the athletes? does it turn u off if som guy does somthin really embarrasing... wat do u females want

2007-09-21 16:20:27 · 38 answers · asked by iRebel17 1 in Singles & Dating

I love her. I don't know what to do. Should I respect her wishes or do I do whatever I can to get her to stay. We live together in our new place, so if she moves out I have to move as well because I won't be able to afford it. I have helped raise her two yr old son for a year so there is more than just the two of us. Please help. Feel free to ask questions if you need more information.

2007-09-21 16:19:44 · 17 answers · asked by Ryno 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Heya everyone,

Here's a lil question tho...my parents always have to say somethin bad about black boys or black ppl and i really don't like it...most of times i'm telling them their racist but they say they ain't ....im really confused!! they buggin me out when they talk about it.

2007-09-21 16:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i need help my bf and i are close but whenever i say I LOVE YOU he ignores me and then he never talks to me for 1 day what should i do? please help.

2007-09-21 16:16:12 · 37 answers · asked by hopie 1 in Singles & Dating

Their are things happening that can't explained. Please help?

2007-09-21 16:13:51 · 3 answers · asked by tiana2404 3 in Other - Family & Relationships