Should i talk to him im worried?
I know this guy for a while 3 years now 4. He is weird around me now he never says he just stares and sometimes he says hi and with a reall quick wave and never looks at my face just a fast look and looks down.Today my freind had to talk to him and I was there with her he was comeing so I just waved and he waved back fast and talked to my freind he didnt even look at my face or do anything or talk and acted like i wasnt even there he looked kinda nervous .Im like omg talk to me jeese in my headwhat did i ever do to you .Then the other day we were running and i guess he saw me running bye as in walking and he ran off he was sitting when i was walking by. Ten Icame by him again he was with his freind and hes freind said why would you wear those shoes to pe (i was wearing new shoes to peand he asked cause we were running like on dirt.)and then the guy whos been acting weird around me says yeah why would u wear those shoes to pe in a jokeing way...etc pretty pathetic.
some extra detail last year i was a complete tomboy this year im like girly with more girlier clothes that bring out my figure and i wear makeup and look nice not to be stuckup but i get compliments cause people know me as boyish so yeah and this guy found out i liked him last year and he also said we have so much in common last year and we would talk alot last year.
so why is he acting like this?
2007-09-21 16:55:52 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-21 17:02:01 · update #1
he found out i liked him last year but my freind said i dont like him anymore
2007-09-21 17:04:27 · update #2
Boys can be very shy at times,I know I was when I was younger.
2007-09-21 17:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means ,talk to him. A lot of guys are shy until they get to know you better and not all grow out of it and don't die as lonely old men either.
He is probably acting weird because you both changed during the last year and since you went to more feminine things,he may feel uncomfortable with your changes or he isn't quite sure how to act with you now.
Keep talking to him like nothing changed,he just might be afraid you don't want to be seen with him by your other friends or he's not worthy of your friendship anymore.
2007-09-21 17:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh.. yeah. I didn't ask out a girl until I got out of high school. Guys get shy. That's how most of my life went. Women do NOT have to be shy(unless theyre gross). If I weren't taken, and a woman came up to me and asked me out, I would 95% of the time accept. 5% is for major deformities(three ears, two heads, etc.). I could handle stuff like 9 fingers or wheel chair or something... and even then, three ears is iffy. If it's small and she's hot anyways, then it wouldn't be a problem. Actually let's make it 98%.
2007-09-21 17:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by stickfiguresk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that some guys are shy but if he wasn't before than he probably isn't now. He might be trying to deal with the feelings that he has for you. I think that if you can somehow get him alone he might open up to you. If that isn't the answer than I guess you'll have to wait. Since he sees you as more of a girl than last year he probably realized that he likes you. Hope that helps.
2007-09-21 17:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are shy but we change with time, meeting more girls and realizing that it sucks when a person can't express what's on his mind afraid that he will be embarrassed because he doesn't feel that he is in the same league as the girl he likes so i suggest that u interact with him a little and find out if he cares if not i think he is plain dumb
2007-09-21 17:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by elias m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's shy. That's why all the not looking and not talking to you, He must like you. A clue is that he can talk to other girls but not to you. There is no pressure in talking to your friend because he's not interested in her. You on the other hand are hard for him as he's trying not to screw up around you. I was like that in school. I did exactly what he's doing, I could talk girls that I had no feelings for but I could hardly look at the ones I liked. So Yes guy's who are shy have a hard time around girls they like.
2007-09-21 17:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can think of two reasons that might be why he's not really talking to you.
1) He's shy. I know a lot of shy guys
2) Because he found out you liked him, and he doesn't like you back, and he's scared that if he gets too friendly with you, that crush will become somthing more.
2007-09-21 17:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by allie2299 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He no longer likely reject her... Shy person are the main comfortable. He probably would be annoying interior the start up yet no longer a asshole..you realize.. i do no longer think of we nonetheless have the questioning of the guy would desire to make the 1st step... at present is merely meet one yet another and etc... stable luck!
2016-10-09 15:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by yau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy. I knew a guy (25 years old) who was so shy he wouldn't look at anyone in the face when he talked to them. (He was really good looking and in great shape by the way.) I made a point of making him look at me when he talked to me... he eventually got over it and is now married and happy.
2007-09-21 17:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sydmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep guys are shy, and he probably noticed you developing into a young woman.
Have you ever thought of just walking up to him and talking to him? My guess is that he thinks that your pretty and is nervous about talking to you about how he feels.
2007-09-21 17:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he talked to you more when you were a tomboy, because he felt more comfortable with it, he felt like you were one of the the guys. Now that you have transformed he is now uncomfortable around you, either you make him have butterflies or hes just afraid of girls, check him out thpugh sounds as if he likes you
2007-09-21 17:05:22 · answer #11 · answered by jhods400 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋