i need help my bf and i are close but whenever i say I LOVE YOU he ignores me and then he never talks to me for 1 day what should i do? please help.
2007-09-21 16:16:12 · 37 answers · asked by hopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he could be really nervous or is scared to talk to you, maybe you are pressuring him, try telling him whats wrong
i wish a girl like u could say that to me
2007-09-21 16:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well girl if he does that don't you think theres a reason why he does that? Do you think he's probably doing something dishonest? Give it some time and talk to him.. Ask him what he really feels for you.. Maybe he just has cold feet about love, and isnt ready for the next step (love)
2007-09-21 16:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by alexia_78801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he feels that you are going a little to fast for him. I mean, "I love you" is a very strong word and can sometimes "scare" guys. Try not saying anything about love for a few weeks and then try it again. Just don't push him to answer, because it might lead him to giving you an answer that you really don't want to hear.
2007-09-21 16:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by animal luva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a talk with him. Grant it, just because you love someone he/she doesnt have to love you back and I think that is what it may be. He does not feel the same way u do. Talk to him and see whats what, there is no sense in holding onto something that is going nowhere.
good luck~
2007-09-21 16:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by trs_wife4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot would depend on how old you are. If you're 15, I'd just quit saying that for awhile, and enjoy what you have together - sounds like he's nervous about the "I love you" talk.
If you're 28, there's a different problem - he's apparently not ready for that, so if you are, you need to evaluate your relationship.
2007-09-21 16:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Judy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why. My boyfriend that I've had for 12 years living with him tells me I love you but I did not respond for many years I would just say yeah because I was hurt so many times and the words I love you were just words I like to show it.
2007-09-21 16:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Linda101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a long time for affection to turn into true love. He probably is scared to say it because he isn't sure if he really feels it.
I would hold off saying it for a while and build your relationship more before you try saying it again. If he really really likes you, he will probably say it, but you should date for a while so that way he knows he feels it for sure.
He'll say it when he knows he feels it.
2007-09-21 16:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you aren't as close to this guy as you think you are. For one thing, if you were closer to him, you'd be discussing this issue with him, rather than asking a bunch of strangers for advice. If he doesn't say it back and ignores you after you say it, you want more from this relationship than he does.
2007-09-21 16:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by cjcourt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay... You say you love him and he doesn't say it back. Here is my advice. Stop saying it. It is probably freaking him out. He knows how you feel about him so when he is ready he'll say it to you. You can't try to force him to say it. If you make him say it then he won't mean it. Would you prefer him to say I love you and not mean it? Just wait for him and if you can't break up with him. Jesus saves man!
2007-09-21 16:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by I love Jesus! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't responded to you when you say you love him, then that might mean he doesn't love you back. Ask him and ask him for the truth. And if he doesn't love you, then he's either seeing someone else or he's just not your right guy. I hope things go well for you.
2007-09-21 16:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Garcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready to commit himself to you. Or maybe he doesn't feel the same, he feels guilty not to say the words back at you and it's his defense mechanism not to talk to you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Or maybe I'm wrong.
Talking to him is the best solution. Ask him why he acts that way.
2007-09-21 16:24:15 · answer #11 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋