Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

Ok, lets try this again.

I just turned 14, and I am living in Florida with my Dad, Step mom, and perverted step brother. I moved here from GA because i've had a lot of trouble in the past, and because my Dad wanted me to.

My dad does not want to pay child support, that is why he wants me. My mom wants the child support, so she wants me.

My dad only lets me talk to my family in GA two times a week, and that is not enough. I REALLY miss them.

It is NOT about the money, because it's free.

Is this fair, and can I do anything?

2007-09-21 17:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by lightriderangel 2 in Family

my girlfriend is going to go to a girlfriends house for a camp out tomorrow night. It started out that there would be no guys just a "girls night".

I do trust my girlfriend but her friends on the other hand are trashy. One has been with about 8 guys (shes 15), the other was on pills, and the others are just blah. But my girlfriend is NOTHING like them.

But then they started inviting guys over. It started out with ones boyfriend and then the two guys which are bringing them alcohol then one that another girl likes. But they claim none of the guys are staying the night.

Is it wrong for me to have a hard time seeing my girlfriend go to such a get together. I mean its just hard for me to see who shes with and what could be happening but she claims i just need to trust her alot more which i do. but the situation is hard.

My morals say that its wrong to go a "camp out" which exposes you to alcohol and guys there without your boyfriend of half a year. PLEASE HELP! thanks

2007-09-21 17:49:21 · 22 answers · asked by redskins4life20 3 in Singles & Dating

i know a girl whom is around 300 pounds. My friends and I always discuss about how fun and exhilerating it would be to sleep with her, however this would also be embarrasing if people found out. I am wondering should I give it to her? Should I be ashamed? Big girls need lovin' too right?

2007-09-21 17:49:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom has been driving me and my friend to school for a few months. It's been free rides we've been giving my friend and she offers nothing back to us. We just drive her because she's having some family problems.
Today, I told her that my mom can't drive me or her to school anymore because she is too busy. She then got really pissed and started to diss me up in front of my friends. I was pissed at her. Just because my mom can't driver her to school for FREE and now she has to waste money buying bus tickets, she is being so mean to me. I feel like she is using me for free rides and she's not realli wanting to be my friend.
Now she's pissed at me and I'm pissed at her. What should I do next?

2007-09-21 17:48:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

mother is re-married, grandmother spoils the 15-year old. 15-year old doesn't want to go back to mother and step father and siblings because he doesn't like to do chores, doesn't want to be disciplined. troubled child, was suspended in middle school. now in high school.

2007-09-21 17:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Q&A Monster 2 in Family

i knew him whe i was in 2nd grade and he kind of follow me around, so i was wondering why?

2007-09-21 17:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by Blaire 2 in Friends

Okay so the year before I entered High School they decided that their would be be four different Homecoming for each grade. Freshman, Sophmore, Junior, and Senior, then they would all meet at the end. Well anways, at the ending hour all the classes joined and I watched my recent ex dance with three other girls and yes, I got jealous. but that was ;last Saturday and I soon forgot. Then there was another surprize dance with everyone in it. And he danced with like 7 other girls and I got friggin mad. so then at the end of the dance he made a comment about one of my best friend and I got really mad at him for doing it. then for some reason I threw a quater at his head, today after the surprize dance. Now I feel horrible about it but I am still mad at him. What can I say to make it better? He wont pick up the telephone when I've tried to call him so I think i need to say something in person on monday to him. What do you think? I did a really bad thing right? How can i make it better now?

2007-09-21 17:41:16 · 23 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

so i got a call 4 weeks ago from a friend whom i havent talkd to SINCE last year...tellin me he broke up w/ his girlfriend.
but if he didnt break up w/ his girlfriend-> he probably wouldnt have called me right?

but i feel bad cos if i wouldnt have broken up with him a couple years ago we'd still be together and he wouldnt have his heart broken.. again.

even though, for me right now, i just wanna be left alone. and im already goin thru some weight issues. but how could he understand that? cos hes been drivin me insane by calling and e-mailin me!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-21 17:41:14 · 18 answers · asked by twiggy_wannabe0 2 in Friends

My boyfriend demands that I stay the night at least once a week, I have in the past but, First off he smacks his mouth all night long, and grinds his teeth, he tosses and turns. and then he and I both state the next morning that we don't sleep well. I know this is stupid but he wanted me to ask this. He wants to see which one is in the wrong.

what to do

2007-09-21 17:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by SARAH S 2 in Family

We had a terrible break up - his choice, not mine. Now I am feeling like I am too old to start over again. Am I destined to be alone? I'm 5'2" about 110 and fairly attractive (my friends tell me I'm hot but they're my friends), I just don't remember how to date anymore! I thought we were happy and planned on marrying this guy - how do I get myself back into the game? I have never approached a guy in my life and guys I would consider date haven't been talking to me (maybe my standards are too high). I don't know how to start over.... Any suggestions??

2007-09-21 17:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by Col 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad's a lawyer and i love him. i know he treats ppl fair. he's just like that. he's not one of those stereotypical lawyers, he reminds me of the dad in To Kill A Mockingbird

but there is a group of ppl in school and they wont stop telling me that my dad's a "dick, asshole, retard, jerk, etc.etc."
and i can take that i guess. but they're going after a really really good friend of mine now. they tell her "she's an *** for hanging out w/ me and my family"
they wont stop no matter who i go to and i cant stop them.
idk why im even asking random ppl what i should do if i dont even know myself. i have one friend(not very close, but a friend) who thinks im taking this too hard, but they dont have to listen to ppl talking about how "effing retarded" their dad is.
am i overreacting?
idk,but i just want them to stop. i dont want to put up with their crap anymore. ive been dealing with this since 7th gr.
i dont wanna deal with it anymore
i might end up punching the leader soon
HELP!

2007-09-21 17:34:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it a turn on or turn off if a girl lives with parents, and what age do you think a single girl should move out?

2007-09-21 17:29:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I've had a boyfriend for sixth months now. He's a highschool junior, I'm a college freshman, we still live ten minutes away from each other. I love him... very, very much, but I'm worried that I'm not *in* love with him. It seems like I should be-- we have the same sense of humor, same taste in movies and music, both quiet, etc, etc. I don't have that "head over heels" feeling, but... he is undoubtedly my best friend. I have literally no other friends in town, so I'd be all alone. The thing that has me most worried though, is if I were to break up with him, it would really just tear him apart. He's a really delicate guy... I feel like I could never forgive myself for breaking his heart. It also feels like I'd have wasted sixth months of my time, because I did all these cute things for him, and I really *want* him to be the one. I know I'd miss him. Plus, I always feel positively giddy when I'm with him.

Help, please? Input?

2007-09-21 17:29:19 · 8 answers · asked by avacado pie 4 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl, im sure im gonna ask her out but i dont know how, aim or face 2 face? I get nervous sometimes when its face to face so i prefer aim, but give me your opinions on this i want to make it perfect.

2007-09-21 17:29:10 · 27 answers · asked by boo! 2 in Singles & Dating

Im an 18 year old male, and I used to masturbate quite frequently (usually 2 times a day). I recently just became sexually active and I cannot ejaculate while having sex with my girlfriend. It is extremely fustrating and i believe it has to do with my past frequent masturbation. Does anyone know how to correct this problem, so i can have adequate sex?

2007-09-21 17:28:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell the process after i go to the room where the bride is sitting ~~till the morning plz....

2007-09-21 17:27:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she works and i cant get her anything and neither is anybody else i want to do some thing speicial to show her how much i care

2007-09-21 17:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there are these girls that I realy like hanging out with these girls but they are realy nerdy and im not and I need to do something to let them know that they cannot be more than friends with me but i do not know how

2007-09-21 17:23:39 · 2 answers · asked by russianattackdog 2 in Singles & Dating

occupation?

2007-09-21 17:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lolita 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in my second year of college, while my 16-yr old brother is still in high school. My parents like to go out with their friends pretty much every weekend for a really long time. I think it's neglect. I just feel bad for my brother who has to deal with them. He has a tennis match tomorrow, which my parents never go to. Yet, they're willing to get up early and drive 2 hours away to Cincinnati to drink with their friends and stay over night, while leaving my brother to fend for himself. Is this ok? I've told them that they are neglecting him and such, but I just got yelled out for questioning their parenting skills basically. What should be done. Not to mention, this isn't the first time. They tend to not care about anything we do, I'm just glad I'm in college away from them.

2007-09-21 17:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by triciawin87 2 in Family

If you finally found out who was the woman your husband had an affair with would you Blast her name?
I finally found out everything about this woman and she also happens to be Married and has decided to make my life hell by calling me and asking me to meet with her becuase she feels the ugre to tell me everything that went on with My husband and her. I decided to meet with her next week but not to hear the details of the relationship just want to see her up close because I have been very currious as to what he saw in her. My husband and I are doing great. But this woman just wont let this thing go so I feel the need for revenge what should I do? should I invite her husband to the meeting since he has no idea till now about the affair. I just feel that an eye for and eys would be fair what my husband and this woman did turned my world upside down for a while and just when I am doing great now she is just relentless after me and feels she has to purge herslef. I need advise what should I do?

2007-09-21 17:19:17 · 38 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question my ex boyfreind has a g/f and we've been seperated for like 4months and went out for 1yr and a half the thing is why does he still look at my myspace?? He veiws it still because I have a tracker thing and I know its him why is he still looking at my stuff?

2007-09-21 17:15:26 · 2 answers · asked by Melanie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I send a question 3hrs ago but I just cannot find my qestion Can you help me

2007-09-21 17:15:21 · 3 answers · asked by lala 7 in Singles & Dating

help! i dont want him to go to jail!

2007-09-21 17:14:45 · 55 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm or was in this relationship that I thought was too good to be true. But ironically it was exactly that. We were in love(yes!, real love!) or at least I thought but anyways everything was awesome from the start we clicked like that and exchanged numbers, then the 5-6 hour phone call conversations came (you know how that is) and hated when we had to hang up because as soon as we were apart we were chatting away on the phone! i was going thru alot of things, well even now i still am, and she was that "paperweight" and kept me sane and i did the same for her. we did argue from time to time but that's normal for a couple. we would make up and have great "make-up" sex. lol i'm being real though so bear with me. so one day she was showering and her cell phone was ringing. i heard it in the bedroom and checked it out. it was a blocked call so i decided to pick it up. wish i hadn't because I'm hurting so bad right now. so i said "hello" and the voice which clearly was a guy's voice.

2007-09-21 17:12:09 · 20 answers · asked by FCS 2 in Singles & Dating

ok theres a guy and welll i REALLY like him and all but.........
today my friend went up to him and asked if he did but he didnt say yes but he didnt mean no and my friend said he got bright red i dont need advice but i just wanna see what ppl think....if he likes me or not!?

2007-09-21 17:11:10 · 16 answers · asked by emily n 1 in Friends

would you want to have a boy give you a really good picture of a rose or just a rose? do girls like that?

2007-09-21 17:06:19 · 68 answers · asked by Johnny3682 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 17:04:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was at school and a girl walks up to me. I know that she is a friend of the girl that I like. She then procedes to ask me out for this girl that I like, the girl that I like is acctually standing right behind, I think of her as "out of my league" but she didn't try to stop the girl asking me, I don't know if it was serious or some practical joke.

2007-09-21 17:02:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my gf asked if i thought her best friend was attractive and i said yes.(real stupid of me). we have been together for 8 months and i thought it was obvious that i loved her and she didnt have to worry about me chasing skirts but i geuss not. she is pissed at me and has not picked up my phone calls for 2 days. i just wanted to know if she is just dramatic or do girls act like that in general.

also some make-up ideas will be greatly appriciated

2007-09-21 17:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by jeff c 2 in Singles & Dating