Okay so the year before I entered High School they decided that their would be be four different Homecoming for each grade. Freshman, Sophmore, Junior, and Senior, then they would all meet at the end. Well anways, at the ending hour all the classes joined and I watched my recent ex dance with three other girls and yes, I got jealous. but that was ;last Saturday and I soon forgot. Then there was another surprize dance with everyone in it. And he danced with like 7 other girls and I got friggin mad. so then at the end of the dance he made a comment about one of my best friend and I got really mad at him for doing it. then for some reason I threw a quater at his head, today after the surprize dance. Now I feel horrible about it but I am still mad at him. What can I say to make it better? He wont pick up the telephone when I've tried to call him so I think i need to say something in person on monday to him. What do you think? I did a really bad thing right? How can i make it better now?
2007-09-21 17:41:16 · 23 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SRY for asking like the same question twice bu i need lots of opinions!
2007-09-21 17:41:43 · update #1
Leave him alone, he's avoiding you to get over you.
He probably couldn't care less about the quarter, even if he did bleed.
Let a dead dog lie.
Best of luck.
2007-09-21 17:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the worst thing you did was throw a quarter at his head - and he is your ex - move on - life is too short sweety. Trust me, I am 45 years old - married for 26 years - someone I met after high school - and it will not make a bit of difference in the long haul of your young life.
Remember, don't sweat the small stuff - it is all small stuff.
He should be lucky you only threw a quarter - especially after making a comment about your best friend. He is toying with you by not answering your calls. He is relishing in this - take back your power and don't let him take it from you.
You are in charge of your feelings - if you have no expectation, you cannot be disappointed.
Hang Tight!
2007-09-21 17:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for throwing the quarter.
Don't do anything so immature again. You could have hit someone in the eye and caused a serious injury.
He is your ex. So what he danced with other girls.
I wouldn't pick up the phone, either. Approach him in person and say I'm sorry I threw the quarter. He can accept or not - that's his choice - you have to be the responsible one and apologize. Simply walk away.
It's not the end of the world. It was just a moment of adolescent immature jealousy. You got nothing out of it but guilt. Apologize, walk away, move on. That's it.
2007-09-21 17:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he is mad. So stop calling him it makes you look pathetic. On Monday go to school and pretend this never happened. Ignore his behavior even if it kills you inside. You already gave him the satisfaction of knowing that he can get under your skin and that gives him POWER over you. It is not too late to save face and get your power back. If he speaks to you admit that your behavior was silly, immature then apologize and move on. Don't expect anything back form him from then on. If your friends ask you say the same thing you told him and drop the conversation.
2007-09-21 17:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset to, i mean im sure it didnt hurt that much, but you dont do that to sombody you care about, and certainly not for somthing so trivial. Its a school dance, thats what you do there, dance :) I would suggest you apologize (or try to) and then go from there. Because at the same time, we all make mistakes and should be willing to forgive the mistakes of others.
2007-09-21 17:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't even care about the quarter you threw at his head... He was dancing with a lot of other girls that were probably into him. You just looked immature to those people. You could apologize to him and tell him that you over reacted, but that's about it. You're clearly still into him but you don't want to admit it for whatever reason... Good luck.
2007-09-21 17:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He is your ex leave it alone. You didn't put out an eye did you? You shouldn't have been watching him anyway. Ex means ex, Let it go. unless you are still hung up on him. The best you can do for yourself is nothing. If he wants to talk to you he will. Look at yourself, and find what you really want to do, because You are not on his christmas list anymore.
2007-09-21 17:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were really immature about the way you handled it but I could understand that you were jealous yet please understand YOU AND HIM ARE ALREADY BROKEN UP and he can dance with whoever he wants to.
he probably did dance with those girls knowing you would get jealous.
You fell for his trap and made yourself look like a jerk...don't you feel foolish?
all you can do now is say sorry and give him TIME AND SPACE to forgive you....if he doesn't, you can't do anything about but MOVE ON.
2007-09-21 17:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by blu_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect and love yourself and get on with your life. He is not interested in you, why are you chasing him. He is busy dancing with all your friends. He is a no good rolling stone. Stay away fromhim and stop being cheap and calling him etc etc. Get a life. Keep your minds busy with more important issues.
2007-09-21 17:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew! With a begining entry like that I thought you killed his dog and stuffed it or something horrid like that! Trust me your beating yourself up too much on this one. Just say sorry about the quarter thing and then it's in his hands to take a chill pill. If he has his panties in a knot, just let him pitch a fit and move on. Just apologize and everything will be cool. :)
2007-09-21 17:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Carrots and bunnies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋