my gf asked if i thought her best friend was attractive and i said yes.(real stupid of me). we have been together for 8 months and i thought it was obvious that i loved her and she didnt have to worry about me chasing skirts but i geuss not. she is pissed at me and has not picked up my phone calls for 2 days. i just wanted to know if she is just dramatic or do girls act like that in general.
also some make-up ideas will be greatly appriciated
2007-09-21 17:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by jeff c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry about it. Most women are emotionally wacky. Take their feelings with a grain of salt.
2007-09-21 17:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes this is quite dramatic! If she asked then she took the chance of you saying "yes". Now if you just approached your gf, and said "hey I think you best friend is attractive" then I could understand a little bit better on why she may be upset, my opinion though!
I am no relationship expert but try this...
Take her a single red rose and knock on her door, and tell her how much you love her, and only her. Girls find this very sweet and romantic, and both of you need to talk this out, and come to a mutual understanding about further acts of this behavior.
It is a normal thing for men and women both to look at the opposite sex, either like or dis-like what they seen. You were not in the wrong
2007-09-22 00:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by SARAH S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her something with a note attached saying something along the lines of, yes her friend is beautiful and so are a lot of other women, butnone of them have your eyes, your smile, your beautiful body. None of them make me laugh like you do or has a voice like yours.
Show her that there may be gorgeous women out there but none of them are her and thats who you love, like whatever. Just dont f*ck it up any more than you already have.
And heres a word to the wise, theres a time to be truthful and a time to LIE.
What would you say to "Do I look fat?
You'd be in the dog house for a week.
Yes some of us are crazy. Variety is the SPICE of life.
And Micheal, I'm sorry to tell you that NONE of us have our heads on straight, specially at that time of the month. Yeah and b*tch like the one who birthed you.
2007-09-22 00:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Silly girls... we sometimes ask what we don't want to know. We sometimes would like to think you only see a blob of blurry flesh when you look at another... Silly, yes, but insecurities in SOME girls cause them to ask silly questions.. and the answers YES burn us up.
My husband said something about me playing 2nd fiddle to my (flawless supermodel man eater vixen gorgeous amazon rockstar long legged popular witty funny beautiful) younger sister. I wanted to punch HIM in the stomach, but I try to be a pacifist esp. when it comes to domestic violence.
He said a dumb thing. You answered her , yes, but in her mind, you said a dumb thing. You must convince her that she is incredibly beautiful and her friend... unfortunately, you are going to have to suddenly notice and name a handful of flaws. ("OOh, too bad, never noticed those monkey ears on the girl.. and did you see those humonGOUS feet? Ew.")
That is if you really want to make up. Forget her real name for a few weeks and shower her with pet names like "Gorgeous," "Beautiful..." you know, blow up her ego like the Goodyear Blimp, buddy.
2007-09-22 00:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um if she didnt want to know your answer she should of never asked that of you, She was wrong and now she is feeling stupid cuz she knows what she did when she asked you.....
2007-09-22 00:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by switchmistress 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is a little insecure. She asked you the question... did she want you to lie to her?? If she did not want to know then she should not have asked.
2007-09-22 00:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be interested in a ***** who acts like that? The world is full of women with their heads on straight.
2007-09-22 00:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave her alone she'll get over it and call you back
2007-09-22 00:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋