i really like this girl, im sure im gonna ask her out but i dont know how, aim or face 2 face? I get nervous sometimes when its face to face so i prefer aim, but give me your opinions on this i want to make it perfect.
2007-09-21 17:29:10 · 27 answers · asked by boo! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My answer? Face to face.
Just because we're in the technology age doesn't mean we have to do EVERYTHING through the computer. Do it the old fashion way and ask the girl out face to face. Getting asked out, dissed, angry and heated over an argument are all truthfully unnecessary through AIM. Like everybody else has so far mentioned, doing it face to face is on a more personal level. Personally, I wouldn't want a guy to ask me out through the computer .. it's not manly. I know it's tough asking a girl out in person but life isn't easy! Get your confidence all rounded up, march up to the girl, and ask her out! Good luck man!
2007-09-21 17:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Josie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask face to face, and do not get nervous, girls like confident and smart boys on date, and if u project a lot of confidence, maybe u can ask some more favours from the girl before the date is through.
2007-09-22 00:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face, asking someone out on AIM is lame.
If you talk to her on a regular basis just suggest hanging out and getting some food.
2007-09-22 00:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by phyreburnt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey mate,
You'll probably get rejected asking her out over AIM, it lacks the whole personal atmosphere. However if you are really neverous or think that you may freeze up if you ask her face to face, try asking her over the phone.
Best of luck
-Ryan
2007-09-22 00:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by ryan_stormboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face to face! Anybody can us a computer! BUT face to face is much personal. I'm mean I much rather look into the guy i likes eyes in see of he really wants to be with me. AIM seems to casual. In even though your scared she'll like it batter face to face! Trust me on that.
Good luck!
2007-09-22 00:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sara D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face to face. if a guy asked me out over aim, i would NOT go. I'd much rather a guy show the courage to ask me out face to face and be all awkward messy about it, than aim me!
remember, if it doesn't work out there's someone out there better for you....
2007-09-22 00:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Amber W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face! She will probably be nervous, too, but you need to build up the courage. You'll feel better about yourself and be less nervous the next time. Plus, you want to show her respect. Good luck!
2007-09-22 00:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel that you can do a good job of it face to face then I say do it on aim. You may have time that way to be clever and charming. Good luck!
2007-09-22 00:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a girl who would say AIM if she is a shyer girl because then it doesnt pressure her to say no or yes for any reason she will feel more comfortable on AIM even if she isnt shy probably.
2007-09-22 00:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face. Way more personal.
2007-09-22 00:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by CC 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋