Your stories may be very different then mine, but i just feel like sharing.
I wanted to end up with the guy who would tell all his friends he liked me and would want to be around me. I always thought i'd keep myself unavailable until i found a good bf or atleast a good lover and that didn't really happen. All my friends were getting peiced to guys they thought were guys they'd see themselves with; dating and such. I held back for a year, but everyone was so into it so i just let my guard down. It's not like i mad myslef available to everyone it was just one guy. I thought my friend's were doing fine and i was lacking some love in my life and i decided the long wait should be over. I opened my eyes one morrning and realized i got drunk and slept with somone i barely knew. I honestly didn't completely regret it because he does have sort of a good reputation for being the nice guy, but i feel so unfaithful to my life plans. Am i a mess?
2007-09-21 15:28:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We all mess up, don't beat youself up over this. In my 25 years on this planet, I completely alienated myself from my parents, dropped out of high school, moved out at 17 and in with a boyfriend who physically and mentall abused me for about 4 years. Got pregnant and had a little girl at age 18. Went through drug and alcohol addictions. Got arrested and spent 30 days in jail. And that isn't the half of it!!! There are many other things that are between me and God....my husband doesn't even know, and doesn't ask.
I am now married to the man of my dreams. My daughter is six and we also have an eight month old son. I haven't touched drugs or alcohol in 3 years. I own my own home. I am close to my parents. I got my GED and will soon be pursuing a college degree.
The point is, we all make mistakes. I made MANY MANY mistakes, things that I think about and they literally make me nauseous. Do I regret anything I did? Absolutely not! Everything I have went through has made me the person I am today! The point is, learn from your mistakes, grow from them, and vow not to make them again. No one's life is going to be exactly how they planned it. We're all going to mess up. The thing is learn from the experience, forgive yourself, move on, and keep heading towards your goals.
2007-09-21 15:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that every day, even though I have a wonderful bf who cares about me and loves me. I understand you, but I don't think you are a mess, because people make a lot of mistakes some they regret some they don't, it doesn't matter because it is already in the past and you can't change it, just move on and it doesn't matter if nothing happened as you planned because someday you are gonna the one and only wonderful person that you will forget about everything that you ever planned for.
much respect
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2007-09-21 15:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by LG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. But I read a lot of history and its really firm in my head that if I'd lived 60 or 100 years ago my life expectancy would have been cut way down. I just feel very fortunate to be living in an age where germ theory is accepted.
2016-05-20 06:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of a mess, but not a bad one. truthfully, I bet the "nice guy" is kind of a mess too, we all are. I won't tell you my story in it's entirity, but I was the nice guy, and I really don't know what went wrong, now, I don't know.... but I'm not that guy anymore. quite literally done with life., Really, I have only one great joy in life now, and thats my misery. you'll be fine. Just a little screwed up, everyone is. but you should know, there going to be somone to save you.
2007-09-21 15:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in normal situations, i would say yes, but trust me when i say, your not a bad person for it, everyone mess's up, and you may or may not have thats for you to deside, but judging by your life plans your a good person, and i dont see any reason to regret it, i hope you find that mr. forever, but while your searching for him, its okay if you step over the line a little and find a mr. right now, its not a sin, its just something that makes you motivated and helps you enjoy life a little.
hope i was of help.. good luck
2007-09-21 15:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. We all mess up sometimes in our life, you just have to learn from your mistakes and pick up and keep on going toward your "life goal" that you have, and know that there is Someone out there who will forgive you completely and not even remember the fact that you messed up. You can start over with your "life plan". : )
2007-09-21 15:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by katluver3781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did mess up,especially if you lost your virginity. You've been unfaithful to YOUR life's plans, now try to be faithful to the plans Jesus has for you. If you don't you may be repeating your own unfaithfulness again. Ask Him to guide your life tonight and show you how to be faithful to His plan for your life. Get ready for a miracle. lol
2007-09-21 15:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by JesusIsTheAnswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't beat yourself up for one nite you can return to your old way of thnking and keep moving you will be ok pick yourself up and move on good luck
2007-09-25 14:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% of people would say they weren't living the way they planned.
2007-09-21 15:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are....let it go.
2007-09-21 15:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋