OKAY SO I GOT THIS SISTER IN LAW.. SHE IS SOMETHING ELSE. ONE MINUTE SHE COOL WITH ME AND THE NEXT SHE WANNA ACT ALL FUNNY AND GET ATTITUDES. IF SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN ANY OTHER HOE I WOULD HAVE BEEN KNOCKED HER *** OUT BUT THATS MY HUSBAND BABY SISTER. I GOT LOVE FOR HER. SHE CONSTANTLY TAKING MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS. HER AND HER BROTHER COULD COME TO ME FOR ANYTHING. IF I HAD IT I WOULDNT HESITATE. EXCEPT MY CAMCORDER. SO TODAY SHE ******* CROSSED THE LINE AND SHE MAKE ME WANNA SHOW HER *** WHATS UP. SHE THINK SHE ALL GANGSTA AND **** BUT SHE IS JUST A DAMN WANNABE AND I LAUGH AT HER ***. SHE CALLED ME A *****. HER EXACT WORDS WERE ***** DONT TRY TO ACT ALL HARD CUZ U AINT... LOL... SHE TEXTED ME COULDNT EVEN SAY IT TO MY FACE. FUNNY THING I LIVE WITH HER. I DONT KNOW. MY HUSBAND IS IN IRAQ AND HE SAID IF IT CAME DOWN TO IT TO FIGHT HER ***. BUT I CANT. IF I FOUGHT HER MY MOTHER IN LAW AND MY FATHER IN LAW WOULD NEVER FORGIVE ME. NEWAYS I WENT TO THE MOVIES TODAY TO GET AWAY FROM THE DRAMA AT THE HOUSE AND WHEN I CAME HOME THEY WERENT HERE AND THEY LOCKED ME OUT!! HAHA I STILL GOT IN... MY IN LAWS R IN WA DOING WORK. SHE IS 17 THINKING SHE GROWN. I COUD SHUT HER UP SO QUICK BUT THATS THE OLD NITA. I CHANGED FOR MY BABY. HE ONLY 6 MONTHS BUT I STILL WANNA DO RIGHT BY HIM. I DONT FEEL LIKE I NEED TO PROVE MYSELF TO NO ONE BUT I FEEL LIKE IF SHE KEEP DISRESPECTING ME IMMA HAVE TO BUSS HER DAMN LIP. YOU KNOW THE SCARY BITCHES.. THE ONES THAT TALK **** BUT DONT WALK IT. WELL MY FRIENDS GIVE ME ADVICE BECAUSE I AM SO LOST WITH HER. FUNNY THING IS I LOVE HER LIKE SHE IS MY OWN SISTER AND SHE DONT EVEN KNOW IT, I THINK SHE FEELS LIKE I AM TAKING HER PLACE WITH HER PARENTS AND I WOULD NEVER DO THAT!!
2007-09-21 15:36:37 · 5 answers · asked by Sunita W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay... you have this 17 year old drama queen copping a bi-polar attitude with you, complete with role-playing.
Ignore the silly git!
The last thing you should ever consider is letting her bait you into busting her one! You don't play into this childish drama! Be the adult.
Put a lock on your bedroom door... that is your sanctuary.
When she starts up with the stupid behavior, you tell her to get real, grow up and act like a real person or else you don't have time for her.... then make yourself scarce. Go to your room, go for a walk, go to the mall... just get scarce.
2007-09-21 17:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. she's 17? maybe she just needs a good old fashion a** busting. nothing's wrong with that and it might set her straight. who really knows what she's thinking or feeling. after all she's got those oh so important teen problems. maybe she thinks you stole her brother's love for her? i don't know. my suggestion is, espeacially if you are taking care of her, is to bust her butt and ground her a** from going anywhere or doing anything at all. i hate to say it but maybe that's what it will take is for you to prove to her once and for all that you can bust her. no you don't need to prove yourself, but it sure would be nice to get respected. and one more thing, maybe you could try to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel and ask her why she's being such a b**** toward you.
2007-09-22 00:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by angelwithadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her like a sister then why don't you just tell her that? She is still very young and possibly very jealous of you regarding her parents and her brother...
2007-09-22 00:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you living with her?......get your own life.....Thank your husband for his service....but you need to make your own home and get out of their's......
2007-09-22 01:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by willowz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you ask your queastion in english?
2007-09-21 23:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋