is sex a big thing for you??why???can you stand for a long time with out sex??why?? does it have to be part of a relationship(boyfriens/girlfriend) for it to stay longer??
i'm just curious..
how important it is to you???
and is it true that after you have sex wioth your girl you start to hate her or i mean you start to fall out of love?
can you stand a realationship with sex?
when do you really fall in love and how will we know when your serious and truly inlove...
2007-09-21 21:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by jhade0821 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To some guys it is important but to others not so much. Personally at this point, I don't think a relationship without sex is something I would entertain, but for younger guys who haven't had it much I think it easier to deal with not having sex be such a big part of the relationship. Plenty of people though, have very healthy relationships without having sex.
One thing you should remember is that these days there are a lot more people having it than are not. This makes girl who hasn't had it much more desirable. If you haven't done it don't be pressured by guys (or especially girls,friends, who will tell that you should "just do it") You will regret it later. Be special to that special someone who will come into your life and you will both appreciate it (and each other) more later.
Don't be like everyone else, be better.
Good luck.
2007-09-21 21:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is a must. truthfully, if she won't have sex with me (within a month or so), i will not date her. i've gone on a few dates with girls sometimes (including just recently), and if it seemed like they didn't want to have sex soon, i dropped them and didnt call them again.
if a have a gf, we should be having sex at least 3 times a week. more like 5-10, but at least 3 at the bare minimum. and the sex should be reasonably good.
sex isn't the only thing that matters, but it's important and, to me, a necessary part of a relationship. i'm in my early 20's...i need to have sex! no sexless relationships at my age.
after i first have sex with her, i don't necessarily lose interest in her at all. why would i? assuming i wanted more than that to begin with.
i've never been in love, so i can't answer the last part.
2007-09-22 04:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by a c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
younger the 18, sex is a dangerous way to base a relationship which is what most young boys want... sex... most guys don't start maturing up till about 25 years old... up too that point the world revovles around their cranks.
why? because we are hormone pumped, mindless animals... well.. most of us anyway...
2007-09-22 04:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what age your in. If your over 18. than yeah it's important. But if i was a girl i wouldn't be sleeping with every man like a ho
2007-09-22 04:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by hahaiwon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of questions but all i can say is that sex is a very healthy and needed part of a relationship
2007-09-22 04:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i can stand a relationship w/out sex. but at least make me feel you gonna give it to me in time. that you just taking it really slow.
2007-09-22 05:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by tom_sawyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a tough one, okay im just gonna say that, having sex isnt a crime, its just something to show how strong ur love is to ur girl or ur man...and i know some of people do those for the sake of there relationship, because wen they finish wat they want they just finish it off just like that..........well its just a thought........
2007-09-24 21:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by young savage 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever had sex in your life ,or you have done it with someone who did`nt how to send you to heaven
2007-09-22 08:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by heartbreak kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too damn long of explanation but yes, its important.
2007-09-22 04:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question isjust plain silly,how old are you anyway.
2007-09-22 04:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by me m 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋