I just watched the pick up artist on VH1.
I see these guys getting girls, but It looks like the most they could get was a one night stand or something.
I don't want that but I don't really have a choice do I (Im 19 and virgin)
And all the lying, making up all these fake stories, god I'm not the kind of guy who can bring myself to lie to a girl, I'm a horrible liar.
Where the hell can I find some tips for guys who want a real relationship with love BEFORE sex
I'm not saying I want to marry the first girl I date. but then again I can NEVER get a girl and Im always afraid I would marry the first girl who ever lets me.
ARGHHHH I can't stand it, I know I want a girlfriend and sex WITH love I want that serious relationship
but at the same time I know I would never want it to end
but at the same time I don't want to be some loser who marries the first girl he ever dates
but at the same time I don't want to break up with a girl who WOULD be my soulmate
but at the same time
ARGHH IM SO CONFUSED
2007-09-24 19:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't lie t get women,, im watching that too...mystery is just giving them examples to have them catch on on what to do in the real world once they dont have him anymroe :)
2007-09-24 19:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dollface;) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for an actual relationship, do not lie. Usually the girl who have one night stands do it all the time. So really, they aren't worth the trouble and time unless you're not looking for something serious.
As for the marriage thing, you shouldn't even worry about that. If it's meant to be, then it'll happen. I'm still with the only guy I've ever even kissed (I'm only 18). Sounds loser-ish, but we have a baby together. I don't feel like I'm missing out on some big chunk of life because I'm not promiscuous or out dating several guys. People always ask me if I would be okay just having him for the rest of my life and not experiencing anyone else. My answer: of course, I don't feel like I need anyone else.
Everyone has different preferences. If you're looking for a real relationship, you have to find someone you can get serious with. It could start off as a friend thing, then work it's way up. Don't date just any girl. And whatever you do, DO NOT LIE.
2007-09-25 02:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Genna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In relationships honesty is the best policy. Most of the time it's so obvious when a guy is lying and trust me that IS a turn off. If you're looking for a serious relationship try to avoid bars and maybe try joining some activities in your area where women might be participating in. As cliched as it sounds just go with the flow. You may find a woman that you love but break up with after a few months, it's not the end of the world and it's completely normal.
2007-09-25 02:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man i'm gonna be straight guy to guy here. What you want is not just rare for a guy but also a girl. If you'll be patient you have a shot at finding a girl who wants the same. Girls that fall for all that bullshit aren't worth the dirt they're made from but they're everywhere these days. Girls these days are just crazy.
Its the Girls Gone Wild generation and its destroying the chances of a guy like you finding a relationship like that. Good luck but don't expect that finding that will be easy. You gotta know you want that and hold out.
2007-09-25 02:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by davemustang262001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you sound just like i used to. You dont need to go out and lie to girls to get them to sleep with you. Dont even think about that. Just get out there and meet a really sweet nice girl. GEt to know her and take it slow if you want a lasting relationship. Dont get rushed into anything.
2007-09-25 02:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by DCfromMTZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lot easier to sit here and answer these kinds of questions with a 6-pack... and no not beer.
Looks will win you a date, usually with a pretty girl... then they make you get fat -.- they make no sense, but its a game and you must play to win.
Best of luck!!
2007-09-25 02:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If at the end of the game you want to be the MVP then LIE.
If it is the sportmanship award you want then tell the truth.
2007-09-25 02:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by StillMarchingOn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying is the best way to get a woman for as what ive observed, women mostly believe in lies rather than truth.
2007-09-25 02:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Joscoro F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Where the hell can I find some tips for guys who want a real relationship with love BEFORE sex" ..... "ARGHH IM SO CONFUSED"
Confused = gay
2007-09-25 02:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by ajriggs26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lying is usually a good tool to use to get women
2007-09-25 02:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by HeavenlyBliss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋