Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

Theres a group of 8 of us who have been best friends for over 10 years, all their partners/husbands are good friends too. One of my friends who is married with 2 kids has seemed to go off the rails. She had a boob job (that her husband paid for) and since then she goes out most weekends and cheats on her husband, everyone knows about it apart from him. We've all said something to her and that she should stop, but she reverses it and says if we say anything then we'd be responsible for their marriage breakup and their kids not having their dad around. She also gets quite nasty and says that she would make our lives hell (and we believe it) if we told. The partners (who are his friends) want to say something too but cant because it would cause huge arguments between the friends. I would say something myself, but because i know the others are quite scared of her, they wouldnt stand by me, so it would be me who ends up falling out with everyone. Her husband is a great husband.

2007-09-24 01:17:51 · 18 answers · asked by KJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 01:13:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need to say that this is a hypothetical situation- we don't actually have kids now but we've been talking a lot about kids and marriage and this came up.

My boyfriend and I have been having a debate on who is better to take care of our kids if we die - friends who we could be very close to and would know our kids well and live near us, or my sister, who lives in Colorado and would likely not see the kids as often.

I think that it's more important to have kids be with their family so they can see grandparents and cousins and all that. My boyfriend thinks it's better for the kids to have familiarity with their environment and stay with the family friends because it would be too traumatic to move across country and they could go to the same school and be with someone they know well.

What does everyone think? And when you were a child, if you were in a situation like this, who would you rather have gone to stay with, a close family friend or an aunt or uncle who live far away?

2007-09-24 01:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by abrennan01 3 in Family

I am getting married. A friend of mine (I'm not exactly that close with) thinks she is going to come out in my wedding. The problem is the girls I have coming out and myself are thin. My friend is obese that her dr even suggested a gastric bypass which she rejected. How do I not have her come out in my wedding without hurting her feelings. I just don't feel like she's the right fit for my wedding.

2007-09-24 00:46:15 · 28 answers · asked by ★Banäna . Nightmärẹ★™ 7 in Weddings

i learned things about him while we dated that could get him fired. we have mutual friends but now he is telling me that i better stay away from everyone that he knows and i better not say anything to anybody. i'm keeping quiet, but i don't like being threatened and i'm scared. what should i do? he is a policeman

2007-09-24 00:42:36 · 24 answers · asked by philly 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a young widow so I don't really consider myself single. To me I was never divorced. Some day I would like to have another boyfriend/husband but I am not quite sure how to go about meeting someone. After being with this one man basically all of my adult life to this point I don't know where to begin. I have not had the opportunity to meet people in a long time. Now I am able to. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks.

2007-09-24 00:41:46 · 2 answers · asked by redwidow 5 in Singles & Dating

right ive liked this girl since school but i didnt say anything then , we started chatting on the internet n i told her how i felt about her n she told me after a while that she liked me when i found this out i was soo happy but like the moron i am i didnt do anything about it because im a very shy person ,
we stopped talking for a while because som1 told me she had a boyfriend which i later found out wasnt true ,
we started talking a couple of months ago n i told her that i still liked her she sed she liked me but now she saying lets just be friends i still love her and always have what shud i do

we both act shy around eachother i think she likes me but because i didnt do anything last time when we liked eachother i think she is scared that i will not do anything about it again

i think she is seeing someone over the internet who shes never met and i am scared that she will go meet him and he uses a private bebo account with no pictures and he lives miles away :( i love her

2007-09-24 00:41:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Talking about the penis of course. The porn industry would have us believe that every woman wants some huge multi foot monster but I've heard that around the 8" mark is perfect. Is this true? I've read that guys that are too big cause more pain than pleasure and guys that are too small don't cause anything. So what's the official answer? Do we have a porno reputation that we have to live up to or do us average guys actually have a chance?

2007-09-24 00:38:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been hearing lately that men that don't like to give oral are gay...come on, that can't be true...can it??? My husband has done that to me only like 5 times in our whole relationship!

2007-09-24 00:35:51 · 38 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a guy.. He send me a message on my account.. And he said that he's interested with me. N want to build a relationship with me..

He said ,"i would never want to hurt ur feeling not will i break ur sincere heart...
i would want to be given a chance to nurture and water ur heart with shower of love....
i want a chance from u to love and be loved till the endless of time ....
it sounds just like a fairy tale ...
but if we let our heart to be pure... a fantasy can be reality...."

"i promise not to break your heart ....
i promise to love u with my heart and soul ....
i promise to make you happy ...
i promise to care for you .....
are u ready to go on this relationship with me?
i want the answer form ur heart pls..
thats why i wanted to build a relationship straight away b4 someone else swept u away."

So what must i do?? He touched my heart..
Pls help me?
But i afraid he is a liar..
I really need an answer..

2007-09-24 00:26:19 · 43 answers · asked by Lovato 2 in Singles & Dating

in laws have come back from a holiday and have announced they have bought a plce over there are selling up and going in the next few months.
they are both on long term medication and in their 70`s .
they have not shown the family any paper work or discussed any worries the family my have for them
what would you say and think about it ?

2007-09-24 00:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

got married just 2 month ago

2007-09-24 00:06:48 · 9 answers · asked by bhawna 1 in Marriage & Divorce