Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

2007-09-24 09:56:38 · 4 answers · asked by cristal w 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is under alot of stress these days because she's got alot to do around the house and is busy and stuff.. We're moving in a couple of moths, the nanny just quit so she has no one to help her with my baby brother, my sister is going through her awkward pre-pubescent phase and is driving her nuts, and my dad works alot.. We're a very happy family, but we're just going through a rough time.. There's only so much i can do to help: im a senior in highschool and I have a lot of work to do.. but i try to help out as much as I can.. The problem is, she's been in a bad mood lately and she takes it out on me.. I've talked to her about it bt it doesn seem to help

2007-09-24 09:55:52 · 12 answers · asked by hedZy ♀ The Dancing Banana 4 in Family

I have lived in this place for... this will be my second year. I'm a very outgoing person and I haven't been acting glum around school. I know I have give it a fair shot. I am so unhappy though. I miss my friends. I have friends here. I have given it time. How can I convince my parents that I should move back? Don't tell me that I should just give this new place time or that I should just roll with the punches. I miss feeling excepted and having close friends.
Any suggestions? Would a letter to my parents help? I've already expressed that I wanted to move back by talking to them but I think they thought I was just in a bad mood.

2007-09-24 09:53:41 · 3 answers · asked by seussicalmaniac 2 in Family

to let u go out with a guy that cuts himself which is y she doesnt want me 2 i need to convince her to let me =[

2007-09-24 09:52:22 · 2 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and me are very happily married, and very committed to each other and our children.Our wedding day was really special, but we've been talking about having a re-commitment ceremony on our 10th wedding
anniversary. We never got the chance to go on a honeymoon, because of time, money and his family visiting. I need opinions here:

1: Should we have a formal re-commitment ceremony (in church with all of the trimmings ), buy new rings, and go on a short trip just him and me without the kids (no longer then 4 days at a bed and breakfast )?

2: Should we have the formal ceremony, and take the kids with us on a 4 day trip?

3: Should we go on a 7-10 day FIRST honeymoon, without the kids, and buy new wedding rings?

4: Should we go on the 7-10 day FIRST honeymoon with the kids,and NOT buy new rings?

2007-09-24 09:52:05 · 17 answers · asked by navywife_2001 3 in Weddings

i want to call up a girl, but i just don't want her parents to think we're dating and stuff. I'm not her friend, i want to ask her to a dance

2007-09-24 09:51:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know that for girls it harder to get one.....how do u know if u actually got one......?

2007-09-24 09:48:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know when a girl likes u? And why im i so afraid of asking a girl out?

2007-09-24 09:47:06 · 10 answers · asked by Matt M 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 3 months. He's overall an amazing person. Lately I haven't seen him like i used to(which was everyday) I havent seen him in a month(he only lives 15min walk away, and says it's cause he's lazy and doesn't feel like walking) I try to tell him how it's affecting me all the time. He used to be understanding & try to make things better. Now he just says he's sorry but does nothing to make it work, & sumtimes just gets aggravated. I've been so upset. It's such a big change going from seeing him everyday to barely ever. I love him so much, but i'm starting to feel like my kindness is being taken advantage of.
What should I do and say to get things back to normal ?

2007-09-24 09:47:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i do move or stay I will make more money and a better job offer please help me with my decision.

2007-09-24 09:46:59 · 8 answers · asked by firecracker 1 in Family

2007-09-24 09:46:56 · 4 answers · asked by blpercell 1 in Singles & Dating

My first meet to her was after spring break at school of 06-07. I feel that I am fell to love to her. But I am deaf and I don't know what am I going to do??? My other firend told me that he like me as firend and I .... Love her.... But I cannot tell or should I.... I feel it is idoit to give a note to her. But I don't give yet. But I don't see her so much and I feel that I am loss as lose friend... Can you help me....?

2007-09-24 09:45:49 · 2 answers · asked by Zpider 20-0 5 in Singles & Dating

I stupidly wrote some very deep, personal things about myself, my feelings about my life, dumb mistakes I've made in my past and accidentally forgot to delete it out, after I was free writing. I didn't write anything incriminating, that could get me fired, but I did mention that I slept with someone else's husband, and that I was feeling suicidal about it also one of the guys that read it, saw the little part about how I don't like his sexual comments and that if I wanted to, I could sue, "if I wanted to". After they read it, they told this other girl to read it and she read it and thought I was insane and God knows what else. I don't want to be nasty with anyone or get mad and say anything that could get me fired (even though, they are doing the same to me) but people are saying things like "be careful what you say around here "next thing you know, people will be trying to sue or sleep with your man, etc. I feel bad enough about what I've done and they are making me uncomfortable.

2007-09-24 09:45:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girlfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago. We hurt eachother emotionally for about a month, badly, and repeatedly. When she saw what it was like with me gone, she wanted me back, and Im still insanely in love with her. So we took about 2 weeks and didnt really talk or anything, then at the end of the 2 weeks she said she didnt want to date anymore... So we were talking it over at her place, then things got awkward, and things started moving really fast. We did the kind of "things" that only 2 people who are in love can do with justification. Now after we finished, she still said that we couldnt be together. I was completely crushed, absolutely demolished. She wants to be friends, but its not like shes giving me any indication that it will never work out again.

Do you think I could ever have another chance? The passion in the room on that night that I spoke of before was like nothing else. I just want to know if I should move on.

Thank you.

2007-09-24 09:42:23 · 5 answers · asked by b0vin3 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were enjoying a nice evening together last night, carving a pumpkin and sipping on some wine, and the phone rang...

it was my wife's older sister. She wanted to borrow 100 dollars in order to pay off a ticket and that if she did not pay if there would be a warrant out for her arrest. She is already on probation and if she goes back to jail she'll have to do 2 years.

she has no job, no car or anything that a responsible 27 year old woman should have.

should I rescue her and give her the money?.. or should I be firm and say no.

I know that if I give her this money.... I will never see it again

My gut wants to tell her to get a job at mcdonalds and walk to work...

but, having to see the look on my wife's face when she has to tell her sister no... will just kill me.. and I dont want her to go to jail...


any insight would be appreciated.. thanks in advance

2007-09-24 09:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by death_by_stereo 3 in Family

He always makes fun of the fact that I like Jethro tull or that I don't wear abercrombie and fitch like he does. He thinks that he's all that. I try to stand up for myself, but I never know what to say. Please help me.

2007-09-24 09:41:37 · 9 answers · asked by laurie 2 in Family

...and possibly has been since the age of 4? Where to begin? Who to talk to? etc.

2007-09-24 09:39:55 · 13 answers · asked by Azure Ciel 2 in Family

i moved back into my old apartment. its cool because my old roomate is still there and a new buddy of his that i get along with is there too.

But there is another roommate that lives in the master bedroom that both of them don't like very much, because of run-ins with him in the past about random things and the fact he can be a jerk about things not going his way. whatever.

Being the new roommate for about 2 weeks now. Ive heard both sides of dislike from each party.

One problem i have with the other roommate is that he smokes weed every single day in his room (not joking), and we(me and the guy i get along with) can smell it though the air ducts. Funny thing is when anyone calls him a pothead he gets mad and denies it.

we dont have any other prospects for new roomates and we dont want to lose him because he pays rent.

what would you do?

p.s. Only my old roommate that lives there now is on the lease.

2007-09-24 09:35:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why can't we let go and quit the drama....?

2007-09-24 09:35:49 · 22 answers · asked by Sar 3 in Singles & Dating

You barly can handle one women, what do you need three or four for --- give me a break.

2007-09-24 09:35:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes if I really fancy a guy I've been texting, I'll just stop texting him for a few days- so I don't seem too clingy. What effect does this have on most guys? Does it make them want you more? Or make them think you don't like them anymore? Or maybe they don't play the same games lol. What do you think?

2007-09-24 09:34:32 · 6 answers · asked by Cocobanner 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 09:34:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS AND LOVE EACH OTHER A LOT. WE ARE 16 YEARS OLD. I SMOKES WEED AND I DON'T LIKE IT AT ALL AND I AM VERY AGAINST IT. RECENTLY HE HAD STOPPED FOR 3 MONTHS AND HAD A PROMISE TO NOT DO SMOKE. THEN WE GOT INTO AN ARGUMENT THE OTHER NIGHT AND HE BROKE UP WITH ME AND SMOKED YESTERDAY. I FOUND OUT TODAY AND I AM SO DISAPPOINTED. I AM AGAINST IT BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND HE KEEPS TELLING ME TO LOVE HIM FOR WHO HE IS

PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-24 09:33:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone ever had a good Friendship with a Guy, and then it turned into that you was seeing each other then things were complicated and you grown apart ?

Yep , Happened to me!
and few weeks ago .. he asked me to Give him another go because he wanted to make amends for treating me like ****.
and now few weeks passed i Think he kind of like not intrested anymore..

Im very much confused! and don't know what to do..he says he likes me!... I do like him, ... Thing is... he is a Playa... but I see a different side to him to what other people see! Plus he works in Same company as me! ..

I don't know what to do
I know hes a Lovely guy at heart really but he don't like showing that !

Shall I try and Talk to him ? ,,, I don't know... !!!

Advise please?

Thanks.

2007-09-24 09:32:46 · 2 answers · asked by kezzahlouise 1 in Singles & Dating

Although in all other aspects my boyfriend is caring and considerate he is really selfish in the bedroom. I do anything he wants me to to him and let him do whatever he wants to me but he never seems overly concerned about my pleasure. I fake it pretty much 99% of the time. I know i need to tell him but I'm scared it will really hurt him. What can i do??!!

2007-09-24 09:32:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was recently laid off, and made a huge mistake in our checking acct. we are $634 overdrawn. I go back to work next week but we are broke as can be and I have a 6mo. old daughter. Don't have any family or friends that can help either.Need some advice please.

2007-09-24 09:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by Blair 2 in Family

what it looks like :)) This will be my Third bridal wedding I will be in its fun how many of you like being in wedding parties on the Groom or brides side?? &How many have you been in ??

2007-09-24 09:31:07 · 13 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Weddings

My wedding will consist of all of my relatives flying in from another state. I want to invite all my immediate relatives, aunts, uncles, and first cousins. Many of my first cousins are children under 10 years old. That is fine with me since they are my close family members. Is it okay though to invite those children but not to invite children that belong to friends of ours that live in town? Or should I just invite all children? If I did, that would be like 20 kids at my wedding? Is that inappropriate?

2007-09-24 09:30:54 · 23 answers · asked by katie 3 in Weddings

2007-09-24 09:30:54 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

It happened to me last night. Two Men showed up to house after hearing from sources that I had my 1994 Lexus ES300 for sale. One man gets in his truck and drives off leaving the other man with me. He was well dressed and looked appealing to buy my car and wanted to test drive it. He explained that he just went through a divorce and his wife got most of everything. After hearing the sob story of his life I gave him the keys so he could drive around the block and see how he likes the car and that is the last time I seen him. CRAZY WORLD"

2007-09-24 09:29:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce