Me and my girlfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago. We hurt eachother emotionally for about a month, badly, and repeatedly. When she saw what it was like with me gone, she wanted me back, and Im still insanely in love with her. So we took about 2 weeks and didnt really talk or anything, then at the end of the 2 weeks she said she didnt want to date anymore... So we were talking it over at her place, then things got awkward, and things started moving really fast. We did the kind of "things" that only 2 people who are in love can do with justification. Now after we finished, she still said that we couldnt be together. I was completely crushed, absolutely demolished. She wants to be friends, but its not like shes giving me any indication that it will never work out again.
Do you think I could ever have another chance? The passion in the room on that night that I spoke of before was like nothing else. I just want to know if I should move on.
Thank you.
2007-09-24 09:42:23 · 5 answers · asked by b0vin3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Was that one night worth the emotional hell you two put each other through for a month? If both of you don't make a commitment to take a hard look at your issues and work together to see whether they're resolvable without letting the passion get in the way, that's what you're in for over and over again until you finally get sick of it. And since she doesn't seem to want to do that, you're probably better off moving on.
2007-09-24 09:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by MM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say, I feel your pain, and Ive been where your at before. And I truly believe its time for you to move on. What happened on the one night of passion was nothing more than that, heated passion. This happend only because she was feeling a bit friskey shall I say, and when you mix that in with the fact that alot of emotions were involved it set the stage for one hot night, my honest guess is it wont be repeated. This girl sounds like she knows what she wants and its not you! Sorry for being blunt, but us girls are hard to figure out, one day we love you one day we are turned on by you and by next week its over! confusing people we girls are, but its time to move one and think of yourself, good luck!
2007-09-24 16:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man this question takes me back to my 1st lost love. for advice cause i know its hard and u feel like there will never be no one else for u just hang in there be strong and sooner or later the "one" will come. time heals so just wait it out. on the other hand if your coming off desperate to be with her just flip it on her act like you don't care and you don't need her and shell wonder why you are acting this way let her do all the worrying. be strong buddy there are plenty of women to go around!!
2007-09-24 16:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by I JUST KNOW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sounds of it she doesnt like you has much as you would like her 2. she sounds like she is done. she has been playing games with you. this is not right. you need to let her go. if she comes back someday good for you. but for your own good id say just try to move on. try dating other girls. i know its easier said then done, but is no good to keep dwelling on something u cant have.
2007-09-24 16:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should move on because she has already said she does not want to date anymore which means she is done .So let her alone and move on to someone who is more suited to you . good luck .
2007-09-24 16:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋