Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

My wife and I have been having some arguments lately about a fetish of mine and I'm scared that she's thinking about leaving me.

I can't say why but since I was a little boy I have been EXTREMELY attracted to cartoon characters and mascots. I can't help it, everytime I see one I get this rush of sexual energy and can't control myself. If I see Daphne from Scooby Doo, I'm overwhelmed with lustful thoughts.

It's not like I'm cheating. She shot down my idea for buying a van and painting it to look like The Mystery Machine. All I'm asking her to do is either wear a mascot head while having intercourse or at least let me watch the Cartoon Network. Do you think she's being unfair? Why can't she accept me for who I am?

2007-09-24 08:11:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 08:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my fiance without a doubt he's wonderful but sometimes i catch myself thinking of my ex and he even calls me every now and then but nothing more....am i wrong for communicating with him we did'nt break up on bad terms????????blkbeautygrl07

2007-09-24 08:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by blkbeautygrl07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She has told me that she has had lesbian affairs in the past. I know she still does, she admited to me that her and her best friend are more than just friends. She claims she loves me more than anything, but every now and then she gets a craving for a woman's soft touch. I guess I understand to a certain amount, if I was a woman I would definately be gay and her friend is a 10++. However, I am at conflict with the whole situation. I am a open minded person but was raised not to accept this sort of behaivior. I love my wife vut is it time to move on?

We don't have children.

2007-09-24 08:05:44 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 6'4, 168 pounds. I like to play football and go to the gym. I have brown hair and brown eyes. Im 16.

Im just wondering am I hot? lol

2007-09-24 08:04:15 · 19 answers · asked by Cool_Guy 2 in Singles & Dating

re?? I mean can they tell or feel the difference of your vagina???

2007-09-24 08:04:00 · 25 answers · asked by Quality_Chik_29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not the sneaky type of person so I find it hard to find ways to spy on my spouse. He spends lots of time away from the house for "work" purposes and he is in a profession that does allow him this excuse. When I question him he either gets angry or he gives me elaborate stories. When I ask him the same questions about the times that he has been away he often can't remember what he says and gets frutrated, gives me a different story and gets angry. I have been w/ this man for 23 yrs and have tried to divorce him a couple of times and he will not let me go. How can I catch him and beat him at his own game?

2007-09-24 08:01:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

iv already had boyfriends..

im 17 and going to varsity next year and she's gotten most of my aunts to come and advice me on guys..its kinda funny to watch them but i realised sooner or later i have to tell my mum the truth..

i really love my current boyfrind of a year and i know i have to tell my mum but i dunno how to..

right now iv narrowed it down to 2 choices:
1.tell my mum this is my first boyfriend and its a recent thing
or
2.tell her iv been with him for a year and iv had past boyfriends..

either way i know shes gonna have a fit..

iv always been close with my mum and told her everything..

i really want advice especially if u a mum..please tell me what to do..

please and thank u

=)

2007-09-24 07:59:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years, for cheating on me once, not moving onto the next step in 7 years and lying. I put up with all of it for a while, then I got so fed up in the end that I went out and met someone.

I was so sad, but wasn’t expecting to meet anyone great. This new guy turned out to be amazing. He’s really good looking, hard working, very sweet to me; we weren’t dating seriously, but we started having feelings for each other and seeing each other a lot.

The problem is my ex can’t let go. We keep talking to each other and meeting and stuff like that, I’ve been feeling really sad when I’m not with this other guy and also feel really bad for breaking up with my ex because he says he wants to change and to give him another chance. He keeps coming over unannounced and calling me. So I became very confused.

Now both my ex and the new guy found out about what has been going on. The new guy is now really pissed at me and won’t really give me another chance, and my ex still lingers trying to get me back. I’ve never cheated before, but I feel like I am. I want to do the right thing for everybody involved including me.

What do I do?

2007-09-24 07:51:28 · 60 answers · asked by DolceVita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

all i get is ear ache, i only go out 4 nights a week now as i drink in the house for the other three. i used to go out 7 nights a week but have cut back to make her happy, but there seems no pleaseing some people!! i havent slept with a prostitute or taken drugs for 3 months & shes still going on at me the way shes going shes going to loose me.

2007-09-24 07:49:49 · 56 answers · asked by wolves69 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can you just answer these questions to test you love.
1-]. For who long you have been togeather ?
2-]. Had you ever wash his/her socks or underwear ?
3-]. I he/she ask you to cook her favorite food, will you ?
4-]. What would you prefor a frindly hug or a french kiss ?
5-]. You will prefer to diner together or watch a movie ?
6-]. If he/she say you to go to a place you hate, will you ?
7-]. Do you love his/her mother as same as your own ?
8-]. If he/she wana go on a world tour alone, will you let him/her ?

2007-09-24 07:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by little girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance, Melvin, says I should let them come anyway, but, I , well, we have registered at Macy's, and any fool would know to get something from the list. I just can't bear to think of the disgrace it would be to let someone so petty attend our nuptiuals. I am thinking of hiring security agents to keep those not bearing gifts away.
Oh, I love the thought of getting married, it has been a long journey, since I was a little girl in Great Neck, Long Island, and it took soooooo long, you wouldn't believe, how long it took to finally get a Doctor to ask me to marry him.
Now, I want china. Fine china, not some sandwich maker from wal-mart. Do you feel me, because I just can't deal with the idea of these tramps coming and eating the smoked salmon, and not bringing at the very least some nice crystal pieces.

2007-09-24 07:46:18 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

does this happen to anyone else sometimes? sometimes you just meet a lot of people at a social event or something. thats lots of names and faces to remember. some people youll remember a name and a face, some youll remember a face but forget the name. say you meet lots of people that day and dont see them for a few days or something. then you see someone that says hi to you from the event and you know, its normal you might remember them from the face but forget the name. i get that, that happens sometimes. but is this weird: some people you dont remember you met them cuz you hadnt seen them around a lot and there were so many faces to remember that you dont know who they are or you might say like "oh arent you (throwing a name out there)?" is this weird? does this happen sometimes to you guys? i ask people about this and everyone's said theyre more likely to forget names than faces. this doesnt happen all the time, i know i dont have a disorder, it happens sometimes

2007-09-24 07:35:34 · 1 answers · asked by cfab 1 in Friends

I'm no gold digger, but i realize that this person would do anything for me and has gone out of their way for me already. I appreciate it and I think that they are a great person. I like to hang out with them, but I'm just not that attracted to them.

By no means are they unattractive though!

I just dont know what to do. Should I stick around and will the feelings come or should I just leave it alone now... I dont want to lead them on in anyway!

I dont know how to proceed!

2007-09-24 07:35:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love the humour, that he is a great listener, etc...

I don't care for him being aggressive

2007-09-24 07:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

to stop talking on the phone to your ex-gf?

I've been dating my bf for over a year, and he still talks to his ex (whom he dated for 3 years) a couple times a week. He told me she's still one of his good friends, and that he doesn't want me to tell him who he can and cannot talk to.

How would you react?

Is it unreasonable for me to want him to stop talking to her?

2007-09-24 07:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

The type of woman I am attracted to is someone who is strong, knows what she wants, down to earth, intelligent, good sense of humor, personality, affectionate, a good girl with a devilish side. lol! Our personalities should compliment each other, I pretty much get along with everybody, but I can be bull headed at times to. I can be bull headed because sometime I am a little set in my ways, when I feel like I am right, then I am right, don’t matter how much evidence you bring to show I am wrong, in my mind I am still right, lol; but I can agree to disagree. Her appearance don’t matter, with me its all about how comfortable I am with you, but I am more partial to the professional woman.

2007-09-24 07:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does or did it help?
If you want to say, what was the reason for getting the counseling?

2007-09-24 07:26:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now and we are very turned on by each other. We have done everything with one aonther but have sex. She told me that she is not ready and told me that i would have to be the one to make the first move, how will i know when she is ready to have sex with me when i have to make the first move?

2007-09-24 07:25:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, me and my boyfriend have known each other for nearly 3 years but recently got into a relationship, but when he hugs me or kisses me , i just feel a little bit uncomfortable and i'm 13
Many Thanks

2007-09-24 07:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance's brother and his wife live 3000 miles away and I've only met her twice. I am not particularly close with her, and have already asked my 4 sisters, my daughter and my best friend. My fiance has no qualms with his sister in law not being in the wedding, but his brother and his wife have informed us that it is bad ettiquette and rude not to have asked her to be in the wedding.

2007-09-24 07:16:45 · 24 answers · asked by Katie T 1 in Weddings

Up until about the last 6 months or so, my daughter and I had a great relationship. She is 11, about to be 12 in a couple months. She started middle school this Fall. All through her childhood, we were two peas in a pod - hanging out, doing dad/daughter stuff all the time, having a blast, etc. but now it's like she has absolutely no use for me. She's not excited by me, doesn't want to go canoeing, skating, putt-putt, any of that anymore. She still does stuff with her mom, but acts like she just does not at all want to do anything with me. What is happening?

2007-09-24 07:15:24 · 24 answers · asked by Pat Smear 4 in Family

2007-09-24 07:13:53 · 28 answers · asked by Sonia I 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Put whatever comes to your mind.

2007-09-24 07:12:33 · 22 answers · asked by Sorry deleted 4 in Friends

I am currently living in a very depressing roommate situation, and not sure what to do. I am 30 years old and to save money I actually got an apartment with my "best" friend, a guy who has been my "best" friend since we were 18. Well, since we have been living together for 2 months, it has been bad. He is one of the most disrespectful and SELFISH people that I know. Each weekend he comes home drunk at like 4:00 a.m, bangs on my door to wake me up, then turns the stereo up real loud (so I can hear it loudly in my room). I get pissed, then the next day he "apologizes." Same fake apology each time.This past weekend was the worse. I was with a girl I am seeing, he came back drunk with a friend, did the same BS, but this time I got pissed off, told him to turn off the stereo and he told me that "he doesnt care what I think and that I can move out whenever I want." What should I do? Would a TRUE friend treat me like this? How depressing.

2007-09-24 07:07:40 · 6 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Friends

I mean I'm near positive she wouldn't tell me wife about it.

2007-09-24 07:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm at work, after a long pause he said " I miss my wife, I miss you Angie". I got all choked up and my eyes got misty and I just hung up softly without saying anything. I didn't want him to hear any tremor in my voice. I was too caught off guard. He may not know how much I've longed to hear those soothing words. He knows I want a divorce b/c of his drug problem. MY problem is (ofcourse I love him) that this drug problem will be the only reason our marriage ends and my children won't see their dad that they love. No need to proclaim my craziness for thinking of staying, I know I can't but sometimes I wonder if b/c this is just one dimension of him and he's a loving father and helps me (housework wise) if I shouldn't give him another chance after 7 yrs. He doesn't deal or bring it home, jbut he lied about it and lost my trust Is it as simple as "drop him cold turkey for my children" or "give him another chance for the sake of the children". I'm going to court for divorce forms

2007-09-24 07:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I cheated and I got caught. My husband and I are trying to work things out. My eldest son however wont even speak to neither of us. He wants my husband to leave me! When my husband didnt my son said he didnt have any self respect. He packed up all his things and got an APT by his school. He took out extra loan money to do this. Then I later found out he removed himself from our cell phone plan, got his own car insurance and health insurance. He hasnt spoken with me since August. I called the school to get his new adress and phone number and the Bast#@ds said they couldnt give it to me since I was not paying for his school and he didnt sign any consent forms. Im his fricken mother how can they not do that! I have no idea where he is living or his phonenumber. I only have his email adress and he never responds. He will talk with his sisters but he has not told them his phone number or where he lives or atleast they wont tell me. How can I get my son to talk to me again?

2007-09-24 07:04:36 · 23 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with a guy 6 years now and he's not ready for marriage. He says when he's ready he'd marry me. He's younger than I am. He just turned 30.

2007-09-24 06:59:37 · 24 answers · asked by just2letuknow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are getting married Saturday, September 29th 2007 and I have not thought about what we are going to do as far as in a untidy candle. We are getting married in a baseball stadium and getting married at the home plate.. What other ideas are there instead of the whole candle thing.. ( I just think it would or might blow out?) HELP PLEASE!!!! ( I can always trust in you guys!!!!! )

2007-09-24 06:58:34 · 22 answers · asked by *Saved by God's grace* 2 in Weddings