all i get is ear ache, i only go out 4 nights a week now as i drink in the house for the other three. i used to go out 7 nights a week but have cut back to make her happy, but there seems no pleaseing some people!! i havent slept with a prostitute or taken drugs for 3 months & shes still going on at me the way shes going shes going to loose me.
2007-09-24 07:49:49 · 56 answers · asked by wolves69 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
firstly let me say that I feel for you as you came on here to ask a perfectly sincere question and all you got in response was abuse and lectured by loads of folks who wouldn't know a good time if it jumped up and bit them on the ***..I take my hat off to you for trying with great en devour to give a little leeway to pacify an over bearing partner who thinks only me me me..have you ever put it to her that if she were to greet you on arrival home from the pub in a sexy outfit that you wouldn't have the need to use prostitutes and to lay off the nagging so as to leave your head clear and find o need for drugs...I find her behaviour both appalling and selfish...why should you stay in occasionally just to be a verbal punch bag for an unstable woman..its people like her that give the rest of them a bad name...if things don't approve you should come up to Scotland where you will meet lots of like minded people that wont treat you like a leper..good luck with this one she doesn't deserve a good man like you
2007-09-24 13:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
It sounds as though she is fed up with YOU as well as you being fed up with her.
Do you really feel you are a contender for the Best Husband In the World competition?!
Hun, you going to lose her anyhow whether you decide to go or not!
Sleeping with prositutes?! What the hell?! You are a married man for God's sake and taking drugs?
I take it you don't work as you have all this time to go out and that and waste money on crap like these women and drugs and drink.
Why not grow a backbone and become a man? You acting so immature but if that the way you like your life then why get married in first place?!
End it with her and if you rather go dying of a drug overdose or alcohol poisoning or any STI's you catch then you can do it alone!
End it with her and allow her to get her life back ... why she hasn't left you before now I beg to know!
Lx
2007-09-24 07:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the biggest slim ball i have ever run across.In the first place she should leave you.You think that you can have a wife and still play around.What did you get married for?I Bet that you wanted a slave or just wanted a sure thing bed partner.Your a real jerk and you dont deserve a wife.Go back on the streets to your yo"s and your wino buddies and live your sleezy life!She wont loose anything if you leave!I would love to talk to the women that married your sorry ***!
2007-09-24 08:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Duke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree, she will eventually lose a husband that goes out 4 nights a week, drinks the rest of the week, has slept with prositutes and has taken drugs. Do you not feel that even though your extra activities have been cut down that she is entiltled to not trust you. Trust is earned.
2007-09-24 07:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step up and be a husband or leave. No woman wants a jerk that has slept with a prostitute. If you wanted to live the single life then you should have never gotten married.
2007-09-24 08:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is your priority in your life? Your wife? Your friends? Your drinking? Marriage is about spending time together- not about how much time you can spend away. Is it possible your wife is not as important to you as your drinking buddies. I don't know any successfull marriages that allow the other couple to go out 4 nights a week away from thier partner. Good luck, I hope you get some good marriage counselling!
2007-09-24 07:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by loztdog 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THINK SHES 2 GOOD 4 U.....Why do u treat her like that? If ur not happy GO may be she'd be better off with u n have a life,With out having 2 put up with u drinking...
No offence bt i think its abit obvious u dont want 2 be with her otherwise u wouldnt act like that..
Do u have 2 drink ebery nite?
Why not go out with her 4 a meal instead of drinking
2007-09-24 07:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by spinklet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...............here we have your side of the story there are always two!
You drink seven nights a week? How much? Does it have a bearing on the way you have been treating her over the years? Maybe ask yourself some honest questions and give yourself honest answers and then if you can sit down and talk to her properly....if then there is no resolution.....maybe better for both of you to be apart.
2007-09-24 09:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and leaver her, she'd be much better without you.
You're a former druggy, and have previously cheated on her, you're going out to get drunk the majority of the weeks and staying in to get drunk the rest (can we say alcoholic.) If I were in her shows I wouldn't trust you as far as a pig could fly.
Maybe instead of just hearing her yell you should try to listen to what she's saying.
2007-09-24 08:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u leave her you will probably sleep with many prostitutes and increase your drug habits, if that is what would make u happy go for it but bear in mind that you will be lonely and may take drugs to escape. Just do what makes u happy but think deeply if you will be happier.
2007-09-24 08:35:27 · answer #10 · answered by mybeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋