2007-09-24 07:13:53 · 28 answers · asked by Sonia I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife and I had a threesome with another woman a few years ago. She and I still like to reminisce about it sometimes because it's a pleasant memory of a very adventurous evening. If we had it to do over again, we'd most definitely do it. You know how good you imagine a threesome would be? Well, the reality is even better!
Note to azol -- My wife and I are currently in the process of trying to make exactly that happen. I can't wait!
2007-09-24 07:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It can be. It depends on what the couple is looking for and why they are doing it. Neither one of them should ever do it just because their partner wants to. That always leads to jealousy and huge problems. If both of them want to do it and they know they'll have fun then yeah, it can be great for the marriage.
2007-09-24 14:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, neither do you, and no one ever will tell you that. If relationships are Respect, Admiration Passion and Trust, the trust goes with the passion getting passed around. And for sure you, nor can anyone have respect and admiration for this type of activity. Everyone are just boinking buddies, and sweets, that's not what marriage is about.. About any counselor will tell you the best way to erode a marriage is to participate in this kind of activity.... tooooo many emotions, tooooo much resentment, and that means the solid trust needed in a marriage is over.
2007-09-24 14:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
that depends on the couple. if you have an open line of communciation and are honest with each other and both agree you want to try it, then maybe it could be. be prepared to set some basic rules on who can do what to whom, then go have some fun and enjoy the sex for sex sake and remember exactly who it is you really love and want to spend your life with. good luck and let me know how it turns out.
2007-09-25 08:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by willie_mosconi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each their own. But in the long run...... NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT is asking for trouble. Everyone likes spice. But sometimes it can have a way of backfiring in your face. If you are ready to accept the consequences then go for it. But if you aren't then I wouldn't even go there! I had a friend who let that go on in their relationship. She started questioning her sexuality and after a year left her husband. They have 3 children in that nasty triangle. Granted she may have discovered her wants and needs later in life but inviting it into their marriage only hurt them both in the end.
2007-09-24 14:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by dazednconfused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the couple....statistically it will do more harm than good, but if you can get past all the jealousy and communication barriers i guess it could work. I think that it would be difficult personally but it is different for different people, some people say it works for them so you just have to decide if you think that it could work for you and to possibly prepare for a disastrous outcome.
2007-09-24 14:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I've not had one since we are married but before hand we had one with her bf she is no longer friends with her due to it. Another occasion after we had sex she had sex with my best friend in front of me. She said she wasn't sure at first but he had already slid into her and was going at it when I told her I didn't care she was fine. We had been drinking and was kinda for him cause it had been awhile and it showed but she really enjoyed herself and the three of us are all still good friends.
2007-09-24 22:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threesome is one type of sexual perversion.
So, you can convinced yourself as much as you want that it can save your marriage. As long as you know what it is.
If you know that you can still live with yourself and look at your partner the same way as before then, good on you.
I don't think that I could even bring myself to speak to my partner should he even dare make such a suggestion to me!!!
That would be a deal breaker.
Now, if it's between consenting adults who want to play with fire, that's their business and I think they should take their respnsibility and not pretend when they do decide to take such a step.
Good luck!
2007-09-24 14:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess it just depends on the type of marraige you have, and how jealous you both are. If you dont think you'd have a problem and he says he wouldnt, then go for it. But beware... it could change things for the worst.
2007-09-24 14:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yeah. You'll have a bunch of dumb answers from a bunch of closet prudes, here, but the fact is a good threesome can inject a lot of life into a relationship. Highly reccomended.
2007-09-24 14:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by terry m 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋