how do i tell my mum.....?

Question

iv already had boyfriends..

im 17 and going to varsity next year and she's gotten most of my aunts to come and advice me on guys..its kinda funny to watch them but i realised sooner or later i have to tell my mum the truth..

i really love my current boyfrind of a year and i know i have to tell my mum but i dunno how to..

right now iv narrowed it down to 2 choices:
1.tell my mum this is my first boyfriend and its a recent thing
or
2.tell her iv been with him for a year and iv had past boyfriends..

either way i know shes gonna have a fit..

iv always been close with my mum and told her everything..

i really want advice especially if u a mum..please tell me what to do..

please and thank u

=)

Answer 1

Why are you worried about telling your mom that you have a boyfriend at 17? How does she not know that you have had other boyfriends? I am a mom to three kids. Tell her that you want her to meet someone and introduce her to your boyfriend and leave it at that. Tell her how long that you have known him in case she is worried about you being with a stranger. Nothing makes a parent more mad than finding out that you have been lying to them.No need to go into details about it now. Just say that you have had other boys that you have liked if you are asked and do not tell any more lies. Good luck.

Answer 2

please allow me to call you my daughter.i`m father,have open
mind.
first of all with your secret you break the trust between you and your mother this is most important thing,but still you have time to avoid it.
second:dear still you have long life you are now 17 give chance for your self until reach 20 or start study in university
give your self 2 years be self-sh for your self ,think for future
in these days you can not handle both you will fail in your
future in your study(my daughter lost 2 years from her future)
take care,don`t be in hurry,think what your priority in life
talk to your mother UN direct see her opinion don`t loss your
mother friendship,last massage the love can be any where
not first love,we are all had first love but mostly failed because that time still young like you,and others failed after
married.i hope my answer convince you ,

Answer 3

tell her the truth...you will feel so much better after you do. And if she has a fit...just think...she'll get over it.

Answer 4

You need to be honest. yOu are old enough to be honest and not play baby games.