Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

I had told my ex-wife that she has a chance to keep me down here but she rather me go back home to Detroit, Mi & in all reality I'm moving to Anderson, In to be with this girl that I've been talking to for over a month & she is alot better than my ex-wife & she won't control me or tell me who I can't be around &what I can or can't do & she won't even put a collar on me or even a leash or even keep me couped up in a house for days on in, I like to be outside enjoying the weather & not inside all day long except when it comes to having hot passionate sex with her.

2007-09-24 03:42:18 · 18 answers · asked by torture26 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is a little bit of information about our personal situation so that you can hopefully help me generate some ideas:

My fiance and I have known eachother since we were born (literally) and have been dating for 6 years.

We had to overcome a lot of obstacles to be together once and for all and we're so happy that our wedding day is finally near.

Any suggestions of a song that conveys that message; that we were "meant to be", that it was always him for me and vice versa and that we're extremely hapy to finally be together forever?

Thank you so much for the suggestions, I greatly appreciate it!

2007-09-24 03:40:43 · 30 answers · asked by sofia 5 in Weddings

2007-09-24 03:38:20 · 9 answers · asked by gabbwgville 2 in Singles & Dating

...it's just that they are polar opposties, and the fact that putting them in the same category makes it sound like one inevitably leads to the other, like it is just a natural thing.

2007-09-24 03:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Bill W 【ツ】 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the Common Law Marriage here in Colorado?

My buddy in Denver is 40 years old living on Trust Fund of $30 Millions from his grandfather....He been with his girlfriend for almost 12 years, if he left her, does she have the right to collect everything or not...he has a lawyer and says that she cannot touch any of the money cause its his and family trust fund...

2007-09-24 03:37:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I already asked this, but I'm looking for some different feedback.
The other day I'm studying for my FYS (freshman seminar) and reading a complicated essay in the common room area (for some reason I concentrate better out there than in the dorm) and a guy in my fys who lives on my floor sees me studying. He came up to me and said he hadn't done it yet, and asks if he can study with me. I said sure, so we worked on the article for a couple of hours in the common room area.

The next day, one of my guy friends, Cameron, said that he was "checking me out" and "obviously likes me" I don't believe him, but he keeps insisting on it.

Whenever he goes into his room (right across from the common area) he stops and waits for me to notice him, then comes by and talks to me, about anything (asking what time it is, how my day is going, etc)

Just an hour ago, I was studying out there again and he came out red eyed and told me he just broke up w/ his girlfriend.

Does this guy like me?

2007-09-24 03:36:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine are due in October 1st and we only have like 25% of them in!!! I feel like I am going to have to call the whole guest list if people don't get them in soon. I ask a few people and they said they were delaying because they didn't know if their boyfriend or spouse could get off of work or if they had to go away... ect... but don't people understand you have to have a head count to tell the cater!?
Anyone else have any issue with this?
Maybe I'll get lucky and a huge batch of them will come on Oct 2 and 3rd! LOL

2007-09-24 03:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Let us say you are going to marry a girl who is earning three times more than you. It is an arranged marriage, your parents are ready for it, the girls parents are ready for it too. Both you and your would be wife are equally well educated. Its just that you finished your education from a less reputed institute and she did it from an elite one and so comes the difference in salaries. Now it is generally accepted in society (with reference to India) that man should earn more or at least equal to what his wife does. So if I am the guy who is supposed to say yes to such a proposal, should I do so? Assume the girl has no issues with this, but will I have my respect after this marriage or will I get a complex? This is an otherwise good proposal, the difference in salary is the only problem. What do you think people? Will I be happy with such a girl?

2007-09-24 03:32:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

of her religion. If she says no to divorce after 5yrs have past then how do I get divorced. She says that she can contest it for years. I am not religious and so do not have to worry on theat score.

2007-09-24 03:32:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f of 3.5 years started a fight with me yesterday about the stupidest thing(long story). Anyways, one thing led to another and I asked him if he really loved me. He always told me he did, but then did things to make me feel like he didn't. He asked my why I wanted to know if he loved me. I told him it was a yes or no answer and he told me NO! I have given this man my heart and come to find out he lied to me and doesn't really love me. We live together and I am so mad, I just want to leave, but I really do love him! I just need to know if anyone else has been in this situation and did you continue or leave. I am already looking for places to go as I live in his home. I am just looking for some comfort. Please no mean attacks. I am already emotional. Thanks to all who respond!

2007-09-24 03:29:37 · 12 answers · asked by Independence Baby - 7/4/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im sudenly singIe, straight, attractive, and my girlfriends are all married and i dont want to impose on them now that i have a single lifestyle. So im looking for new single attractive, fun, straight girlfriends 35 and over to hangout with in the PA and Md area. Positve, openminded, fun and career minded is a plus. It appears all websites for girlfriends are for gay women.

2007-09-24 03:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by SKYY 1 in Friends

Let us say you are going to marry a girl who is earning three times more than you. It is an arranged marriage, your parents are ready for it, the girls parents are ready for it too. Both you and your would be wife are equally well educated. Its just that you finished your education from a less reputed institute and she did it from an elite one and so comes the difference in salaries. Now it is generally accepted in society (with reference to India) that man should earn more or at least equal to what his wife does. So if I am the guy who is supposed to say yes to such a proposal, should I do so? Assume the girl has no issues with this, but will I have my respect after this marriage or will I get a complex? This is an otherwise good proposal, the difference in salary is the only problem. What do you think people? Will I be happy with such a girl?

2007-09-24 03:25:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have known this guy for months and although there is obviously no romantic future for us as although I met him on a dating line, he isn't interested in any woman as he is too obsessed with his religion. He has told me he would help me with some things like finances, getting a better job, getting home from work when I don't have a ride (live in a bad area so I can't walk home at night and no I can't move), he has offered to help me find legal help for bancruptcy and everything but has done absolutely nothing at all. I don't expect anyone to just do stuff for me but if someone offers help, I expect them to keep their promise, especially when they call themselves christians. He keeps taking on more stuff to do and as a result has lost several big sales in his job due to his lack of concentration while he is out saving the world (he has a soft spot for sex offenders and drug addicts). On top of this he brings parolees into his home around his 2 young children.

2007-09-24 03:20:40 · 3 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

What problems, hardships, trials have you & your partner / wife, husband encountered in your realtionship? Did you hurt your partner or your partner hurt you in a way?
How did you both deal with it, how has it changed for relationship / feelings towards them?
Has it made you guys grow closer or drift apart?
How did you guys work through it?

It's just that me & my boyfriend are going througha hard pharse at the moment & would like some experiences on how couples have dealt & come through with theirs.

Thanks

2007-09-24 03:18:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am from Italy and my girlfriend is american. We've been dating for 3 months and she asked me an expensive engagement ring(around 3500 dollars). In Italy people tell me that it is crazy...do you think this is acceptable in the american culture?
P.S.: She is not giving me an engagement present back because she is short of money....

2007-09-24 03:17:24 · 48 answers · asked by merculinus 1 in Weddings

Say you have this friend (girl) and there's been some flirting now and again..then one day you kiss and make out but not full sex even though you (the man) wanted it of course (being a man)! Next day you feel awkward...usual! Well and here's the question for the men, if you don't contact her, does that mean that you see her as a 'one night stand'? Like you only wanted sex from her? Does it mean that you're not interested in her and that you were only 'friends' with her to get a little bit of action but didnt want her as a girlfriend? I mean surely you were attracted to her in the first place to get physical. All of this with no alcolhol by the way!! Would you be waiting for her to contact you /take the next step? Tell me what you think?

2007-09-24 03:16:20 · 2 answers · asked by Stefania 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone find this problematic? Should I end the friendship? How should I inerpret the fact that she doesnt want to disclose this to her hubby? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

2007-09-24 03:16:02 · 14 answers · asked by Jack W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And I havent had the morning after pill.. What do I do if im pregnant? Im 16 years old.

2007-09-24 03:13:56 · 58 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been told by many that when you get married, you become "one". I don't know if I like this idea. Is it possible to be married to someone, fully committed to them and in love with them, but still remain your own separate person with your own separate decisions, ideas, interests, friends?

2007-09-24 03:12:06 · 20 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i was with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, we were engaged and everything. everything was great between us, then he passed his driving test in may and things went downhill from there. he started acting funny with me and not coming in till late and would neva let me go out with him. he ended things with me a few weeks ago and im deverstated. his reasons were that he wasnt happy no more and things werent the same between us. but he never said anything to me about not being happy or anything. ive told him i still love him and always will and he said he still loves me but hes meeting other girls and its really getting me down. all i want is to have him back. HELP!!

2007-09-24 03:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married and so ready to get out of this relationship but my husband wont take a hint. I have told him over and over how I feel and still he won't leave. I want to be free to have a relationship with someone I met but cant because my husband is always stalking me and acusing me of something i haven't done. I have told him i dont love him anymore but he insists on trying to work it out and won't leave. I dont want to be ugly to him but he doesnt get the hint and because of our son i would like to separate on friendly terms. Someone please tell me what do i do? This man is driving me crazy.

2007-09-24 03:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by BETTY A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy had a little thing going this summer. it wasnt anything serious we just went on little dates and stuff. i thought he liked me and i was thinking that maybe it could turn into something more. but then the next time i talked to him he had a girlfriend! we talked for a while and he said that her really likes this girlfriend but that he still thought about me. the problem is i still have feelings for him even though i know he has a girlfriend and is clearly a jerk. i have to see him everyday at school too! how can i stop my feelings for him even though he talks to me all the time and i see him everyday??

2007-09-24 03:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and that..you will consider her to be the last woman in your life....

2007-09-24 03:06:16 · 10 answers · asked by The Sexytary 3 in Singles & Dating

Am i a tease ?!? Be Honest?
Well me (female) and my best freind (male) have always flirted around each other, and we always play around. One night we were at his house having dinner, and we were just like touching hands (under the table) and then i started to get more playful by stroking his inner thigh, but not touching his penis, and i thought he liked it, so then i started playing with his zipper, and kinda reaching in, but not touching it, and then i took my hand out when i felt it get hard. About 5 minutes later dinner was over, so we went to his room, and he picked me up and threw me on his bed. and he started to take his pants off untill i told him to stop beacuse thats not what i meant by it. Then he got pissed and called my a tease and made me leave.

AM I A TEASE?

2007-09-24 03:06:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when my wife kisses me she does not look at my eyes she looks around but she does not look into my eyes.
we have been married for 10 years. ladies does this mean anything or am i just being weird about this?

2007-09-24 03:03:34 · 11 answers · asked by azucena m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend now, doesn not answer like 90% of the times when i call, i know sometimes she is busy with work, or school, or the kids, but i know sometimes she isn't. Yet she expects me to answer the phone everytime she calls. What should i do? sometimes i want to bring it up but i dont want to feel like i'm whinining, other times i want to ignore her calls, but i'm just not revengeful like that and feel bad for playing these games, any suggestions?

2007-09-24 03:01:53 · 6 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

How has feminism helped women assert themselvs in marriage ?

Has feminism been good or bad for marriage ?

What has feminism taught married women ?

Can all women be labelled as feminists ?

2007-09-24 02:53:35 · 15 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-wife is pressing for our son to get braces, but the fact is... he doesn't need braces. He has a nice smile with two teeth slightly crooked.

I was told that braces are considered cosmetic and "personal preference" and I dont have to split the cost if I dont want to. That if she wants to get them, she is responsible for the cost. Any truth to this?

2007-09-24 02:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by redwing_nutso 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 02:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by redlucky7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 02:50:00 · 33 answers · asked by mz.anna_09 1 in Singles & Dating