how can i get my boyfriend back?

Question

i was with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, we were engaged and everything. everything was great between us, then he passed his driving test in may and things went downhill from there. he started acting funny with me and not coming in till late and would neva let me go out with him. he ended things with me a few weeks ago and im deverstated. his reasons were that he wasnt happy no more and things werent the same between us. but he never said anything to me about not being happy or anything. ive told him i still love him and always will and he said he still loves me but hes meeting other girls and its really getting me down. all i want is to have him back. HELP!!

Answer 1

I hate to say this but he could possibly of been using you for your ride and once he got his license he figured he didn't need you anymore? While it will be hard to accept this you need to move on and find someone else who will respect you and care more about you than themselves. I wish you all the best.

Answer 2

Honey, let me break this down to you in plain english- He doesnt want you anymore! Im gonna be blunt and honest, I have 5 brothers and a husband, I know how guys are. You are just making it harder on yourself, its time to let this guy go, and its past time for you to get ahold of yourself and move on! He sounds very imature, and not ready for a relationship, my guess is that hes out their, pumping and dumping every girl he can. And I only use that term cause this is what young imature boys do, and this is what he is! You need a man not a little boy. He knows you love him, and thats to bad cause this only feeds his ego, and believe me, all you are doing by chasing him is just that, feeding this little boys ego, and I,ll bet hes bragging to all his friends about you behind your back. Come on, be strong! move on with your life, It is what it is-he doesnt want you! Its kinda like a child with a old toy, child has played with his toy and its not brand new any more, so child needs to get a new toy, do you kinda get my point? You are the old toy! Grow up and face reality, untill you do this you are just hurting yourself.

Answer 3

He dumped you. Why would you want him back? When relationships end it can be a difficult time and it's hard to realize that someone you cared for a great deal no longer cares for you but it's a fact of lifel. Move on and you'll be much happier in the long run.

Answer 4

It sounds like to me that he has moved on to someone elnse. My best advice is to get over this man and find someone that will treat you right. You do not need to be with someone who is seeing other girls get a guy who only wants you then you will truly be happy. A man who cannot remain faithful will never make you happy.

Answer 5

when a person isn't that interested in us, and we try to force them to get back together, it's a set up for another big let down.

sometimes two people do care for each other, but the relationship doesn't work out for whatever reason.

keep the good memories, make a clean break and move on.

take care of YOU

Answer 6

Don't force an unwilling fellow. You should not have given to him all that he wanted in the beginning itself. Now, he has seen it all. There is nothing new for him now in you. He would go on exploring new things in other girls. Leave him alone now. Let him go to hell. The way that fellow behaves now shows that your choice was wrong. Go for another really good fellow.

Answer 7

i am sorry babe. i think this relationship as run its cause. when he tell you he is meeting other girls says it all. am sorry i cant be more helpful. but there are more guys out there just for you. good luck.

Answer 8

if i were him, if u were to invite a sexy female friend over and me and have a threesome....i think the odds of me stayin would be pretttttyyyy hiiiggghh.

Answer 9

if he doesnt really want it, then you are at a loss...