I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 months now and we are very turned on by each other. We have done everything with one aonther but have sex. She told me that she is not ready and told me that i would have to be the one to make the first move, how will i know when she is ready to have sex with me when i have to make the first move?
2007-09-24 07:25:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When she's laying naked on the bed with her legs behind her head..
Then you will know for sure she's ready. Anything less than that, you will have to talk to her.
2007-09-24 07:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would help to know your ages. In the meantime, 2 months is not a very long time, especially if you are looking at being together long - term. If you aren't in this for the long-term, then don't make the first move at all and just enjoy her company. If you are in this for long-term, then wait and just let things happen naturally. She'll get comfortable and so will you without you having to talk about it. Believe me - at that point - you'll know she's ready if you really take the time to know her.
2007-09-24 07:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Count your lucky stars that you have a nice girl to love.
She'll be ready when she's ready - and the more you push her, the less ready she will be.
That means, back off. Wait a while - a longer 'while' than you want to wait - believe me. Waiting is better. Don't push her. and whatever you do, don't use sex as a means of "proving her love to you" or some other manipulative thing.
Trust me - wait. Not easy? Heck no it's not easy! But do it anyway.
Otherwise you're just another horny kid who has no idea what really loving and respecting someone is all about.
2007-09-24 07:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well she's just nervous for now she'll let you know how she feels If she's scared to go all the way just be patient when your in the moment and she doesnt say stop then she's ready but if she says stop then she aint and it depends on how old she is to.
2007-09-24 07:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by KERRI AKA KNIGHT RIDER GIRL RWF4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and make the first move. If she told you that you'll have to do it for it to happen, then she's ready. She's just hesistant to commit because she's nervous about it. Plow ahead young man (pun indended)!
2007-09-24 07:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends ont he girl and her age.When she doesn't stop you from trying to make a move,you'll know.You should also talk to her about this.Tell her you don't want to make a mistake or upset her,and for her to tell you when she's ready.
2007-09-24 07:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you are intimate try making a move, if she continues and doesnt push you back, keep going. If she does push back, do what you normally do. Just keep trying everytime and she'll eventually come around
2007-09-24 07:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by boredatwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her age and prior experience. She may need a another couple months before she feels comfortable. Be patient with her.
2007-09-24 07:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of sickning to say, a girl has her way of letting a guy know.
2007-09-24 07:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she doesn't stop you or say no, then she's ready. It sounds simple because it is
2007-09-24 07:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by marm212 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋