I'm no gold digger, but i realize that this person would do anything for me and has gone out of their way for me already. I appreciate it and I think that they are a great person. I like to hang out with them, but I'm just not that attracted to them.
By no means are they unattractive though!
I just dont know what to do. Should I stick around and will the feelings come or should I just leave it alone now... I dont want to lead them on in anyway!
I dont know how to proceed!
2007-09-24 07:35:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone! I appreciate all of your advice!
2007-09-24 08:10:04 · update #1
Attraction is a funny thing..........
Don't, (under any circumstances), lead them on!
Try being honest and upfront, you like them, but not on a romantic level in any way.
If you're honest, you can remain friends, (always a good thing), but if you're not upfront about your intentions, you can have one pissed off dude.
Tell him the truth, see how he chooses to deal with it
Luck
2007-09-24 07:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before growing to love someone you have to at the least like this person. It's very important that you know what you want in a relationship, and that you don't settle for anything less. I understand this person gives you everything you want but the real question is, does he give you what you need? Until you can answer this question, you will never know the answer to your own question. Love is a beautiful thing, and it's something we all need. Good luck,
2007-09-24 14:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by la mai' tuya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody can LEARN to love, much less force themselves to so don't make a big deal out of this and tell ur friend that you like him as just that, A FRIEND. Your friend might get a bit hurt but in the end it's better for the both of you
2007-09-24 14:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by b3nzin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are a friend.
2007-09-24 23:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by robert p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋