I am currently living in a very depressing roommate situation, and not sure what to do. I am 30 years old and to save money I actually got an apartment with my "best" friend, a guy who has been my "best" friend since we were 18. Well, since we have been living together for 2 months, it has been bad. He is one of the most disrespectful and SELFISH people that I know. Each weekend he comes home drunk at like 4:00 a.m, bangs on my door to wake me up, then turns the stereo up real loud (so I can hear it loudly in my room). I get pissed, then the next day he "apologizes." Same fake apology each time.This past weekend was the worse. I was with a girl I am seeing, he came back drunk with a friend, did the same BS, but this time I got pissed off, told him to turn off the stereo and he told me that "he doesnt care what I think and that I can move out whenever I want." What should I do? Would a TRUE friend treat me like this? How depressing.
2007-09-24 07:07:40 · 6 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no he is disrespectfull and I would move out and find myself a place that i alone could afford and not have any roommates . I had some of the most disrespectfull roommates at one time in my life so I know what you are going through. good luck and I hope I helped.
2007-09-24 07:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well heres the deal that appartment is now legally half yours so you move out!? tell him to stuff it wear the sun don't shine cos the law is the law wether he was their first or not. If it helps i lived in an apartment last year which consisted of students doing the same things but with added eggs and water melons and this year theres some idiot that doesn't sleep and playes music till 7.30am and sometimes his gf will sing along to some songs as well great! This time i'm phoning the land lady and then the police. Your 'freind' is obviously just a right **** and doesn't respect you at all i guess the only soultion is that you will have to move out or you are faced with getting a lawyer and doing it the legal way which is only going to cost alot of money as well....you can always phone your citizens advice beruo for more help.
2007-09-24 14:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a new place to live. He is weird and any sensible person would be apologising if they came home and cranked the stereo and were told off for the behaviour.
Also, get out before (1) the neighbours start complaining then (2) the cops have to get involved with it.
2007-09-24 14:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def start looking for a new place before you completely ruin the friendship. It's not always a good idea to move in with friends they can have quirks you never even knew about and it can become a nightmare. People say what the really have on their mind when they're drunk so if he's so inconsiderate as to want you to move out then do it. He'll be sorry later and hopefully you can rebuild your friendship....good luck
2007-09-24 14:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by FeeFi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find a new place to live. Too bad about the friendship, unfortunately I don't like it's chances for survival.
2007-09-24 14:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to keep him as a friend you are going to have to move out. he sounds like he has a problem with drinking and it might take him awhile to come to that conclusion and do anything to change his behavior. he will most likely continue to make you miserable. so move out as quick as you can and then see if you even care enuff to try and salvage the friendship.
2007-09-24 14:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋