Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

my photographer wants to take them at least a month before but i think it would be nicer to do them on that day. what do you think

2007-09-24 10:52:18 · 17 answers · asked by LoveBug 2 in Weddings

I want to help her in any way I can but I am being dragged down by her depression (marriage break up). I don't know how to deal with it.

2007-09-24 10:51:11 · 24 answers · asked by helen p 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are divorced and I live with my dad and stepmom.My 5 yr old sister lives with my mom and stepdad..My mom is very mentally and verbally abusive to me so I dont want to go over on weekends but I really want to see my sister..what do I do when I hate my stepdad and dont want to be around my mom but want to see my sister?

2007-09-24 10:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for a year to a guy I have been with for 4 years I am 23 he is 28 and we have 2 kids we are happy for the most part but somthing is missing and we both know it he is very controling and it drives me insane my problem is I am a nurse and one of my coworkers a doctor has asked me out he has showed intrest in me for a while and knows I am in a rocky marriage I am extremly attracted to him and he is such a gentlemen although it seems so tempting I have never done anything I dont know if I need to break upmy home and go with what seems so great or try to make what I already have work?!?

2007-09-24 10:49:47 · 35 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just broke up with me, and I’m suspecting that he cheated on me. I have lived with him for a year and about 4 months. However before that, I lived alone in the townhome for about 2 years. Now I am financially drained (had some emergency expenses). I have so much stuff to move, and to be honest I don’t know where to start. I’m moving in with my sister (for financial reasons, and I’m thinking it will be for about a year), and it’s going to be such a big change to live in one room when I have had a two bedroom town home that I was used to. I’m thinking of selling most of my things. I’m taking my cat that has never been around other dogs or cats (my sister has a puppy and three cats, one of which is very crazy). I’m just feeling so overwhelmed with loosing someone I love and having to move and start my life over. Any advice?

2007-09-24 10:47:09 · 8 answers · asked by Lenka 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't understand them!

2007-09-24 10:46:30 · 14 answers · asked by Ali 2 in Singles & Dating

wat can be mine and my bf song

2007-09-24 10:44:43 · 5 answers · asked by ♥me♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have to plan my wedding and I need it to be original... I have one year to plan it... if you were me, when and how would you get merried?

2007-09-24 10:43:45 · 15 answers · asked by Nadia 1 in Weddings

i've recently gotten engaged. i'm 18. my fiancee is in her 30's. does this mean that our relationship is wrong because of our age difference? i love her, and she loves me, and thats all that matters to us. i want to know if it's wrong for us to be together. i am of legal age though to make love to my fiancee if i choose to. ( just reminding yall) thats my question.

2007-09-24 10:41:09 · 14 answers · asked by TWIN 1 in Weddings

i've recently gotten engaged. i'm 18. my fiancee is in her 30's. does this mean that our relationship is wrong because of our age difference? i love her, and she loves me, and thats all that matters to us. i want to know if it's wrong for us to be together. i am of legal age though to make love to my fiancee if i choose to. ( just reminding yall) thats my question.

2007-09-24 10:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by TWIN 1 in Weddings

i've recently gotten engaged. i'm 18. my fiancee is in her 30's. does this mean that our relationship is wrong because of our age difference? i love her, and she loves me, and thats all that matters to us. i want to know if it's wrong for us to be together. i am of legal age though to make love to my fiancee if i choose to. ( just reminding yall) thats my question.

2007-09-24 10:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by TWIN 1 in Weddings

I'd appreciate some feedback from males, whats the deal? Do yall not wanna seem all feminine? (sorry if spelled wrong)

2007-09-24 10:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

somebody in the Internet, he don't know her in she lives in other country. We live together with our litter boy. I ask him and he say that is nothing wrong with that.

2007-09-24 10:35:52 · 16 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

please give a reason....

2007-09-24 10:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by Juan R 1 in Singles & Dating

am 16 I live with my mom, my younger bro. and my Grandmother and her husband. My little brother is my moms favorite and he knows it, and uses it to get me in trouble. He is a hitting, kicking, pulling, spitting, swiping, annoying, loud, brattiest 4 year old you will ever meet. Yes he is only 4 but still evil. My Grandparents are emotionally and verbally abusive. But mostly my grandmother. Don’t tell me to talk to my Dad I have and he cant do anything, He lives about 800 miles away.
I am home schooled, so a school councilor is not an option. Don’t tell me to talk to my mom or grandparents, they are the kind of people who are NEVER wrong.
It has been like this for as long as I can remember. Only my older sister was the favorite until she moved out. You know first child is the favorite, last child ( and first boy ) is the favorite. Middle child is just there to serve. I have been a slave-girl to my sister since I could walk. & to my little brother since he came along.
What should I do

2007-09-24 10:34:53 · 3 answers · asked by Sara C 2 in Family

Ok, getting married next October and we have a budget now for our wedding. My fiance and I are going to assume that my mother isn't going to help us pay for it (mainly bc she's getting divorced and works just enough to pay for bills and then some), but my gparents (on both sides) are going to help pay for some (mainly bc they've got money coming out their ears, lol). How do I go about asking who's going to help pay and what for? Should I let them bring it up? We aren't formally engaged, but he's going to propose this year. We decided to go ahead and start planning, so we're not so stressed and he'll propose this year. Any ideas/suggestions/help on how to go about asking that question is helpful!! Thanks a million!!

2007-09-24 10:26:45 · 19 answers · asked by Cassy B 2 in Weddings

2007-09-24 10:25:17 · 20 answers · asked by Bonni G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ex) a girl was telling my friend and i who she likes and she said i dont have to worry about you telling anyone because you never talk! I hate that. I already know that, she doesnt have to remind me and make me feel bad! another girl, my friend..said "this is jenny, the quiet one" she was the very least person i would expect to hear that from! ugh!
I really, really would like to stop being so quiet and shy. i know its true, but i want to end this. i do not like it when people call me that. there's more to me that just being "quiet". I am more outgoing outside of school than during school. I also dont really talk unless someone asks me a question i feel i need to, etc. I dont talk to my friends a whole lot either. Its hard for me to show who i am at school, i dont know why though. I guess i just dont feel comfortable. what are some things i can do to stop being so quiet/shy? what type of things should i talk to people about? how can i join a conversation? etc.?

2007-09-24 10:21:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Alot of the times I speak to my friend Taylor on the phone and it is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo boring that I have to make up things to get off the phone what are some things we could talk about

2007-09-24 10:19:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is married to a commercial pilot and has two boys, ages 13 and 7. They are wealthy. She is 38 yrs old and has never worked outside of home. After 17 yrs of marriage she decided she doesn't want to be a wife or mother anymore. She started bartending at a local pub and met some shady people who do drugs. Now she moved into an apartment with one of the bad influences (female). My whole family (who is very close knit) is extremely upset and flabbergasted. I can't talk to her now because I am so disappointed. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?

2007-09-24 10:15:59 · 37 answers · asked by x dee x 4 in Family

A couple I know had an open marriage for 3 years now, and they loved it!
They said they were committed to one another and are allowed to love other with the understanding that they had to get each others permission first and at anytime if one of them said STOP it was over!
Most of all their kids could never find out! well that went south when 2 of their 3 kids walked on mom and her boyfriend. It was VERY BAD, the mother tried to stop both her teen boys but they sent him to the hospital and she also went!
Now Child Welfare is involved and has removed the kids from their home. The parents who work one for Purchasing company, the other for a small business development lost their jobs as well as their "Special Friends" both of whom moved without forward address!

Their kids are so scared and now wont allow their mother to even "KISS" them when the family visitation comes around.
What can this family do to move past this?

Both party's regret these actions and wont do it again!

2007-09-24 10:15:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just wanna see and the wacy zany and unique ideas others have/had!

My totally awesome unique crazy idea is......everyone in the bridal parties to be drssed up in drit bike gear.....with bikes!
Hubby will be waiting at the alter on his bike...I'll be in some what a gown/dirtbike gear...will ride up to him....stop and sit on my bike...do the vows...and then hop on his bike...and ride away into the sunset...then quick changes in to reg. clothes and party like a rock star!! Perfect wedding out in the country with the people that matter most!! AWESOME!

More details in the works but that's all for now!

Let me know what you think...and your wedding themes and ideas!!

2007-09-24 10:15:13 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki R 2 in Weddings

The first women ive known for 3 months ,kissing and touching...no sex.The second woman, my old girlfriend who i thought I would never see again. We just saw each other 3 days ago and now im in love all over again..

2007-09-24 10:09:10 · 5 answers · asked by underblend 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gym teacher asked me out in class she is 19 female and I like her. Im 15 and male by the way lol. Every time I see her she is wareing the same short skirt she allways has on.
I do like her but she asked me out in the class but she had to go to chat to another female Gym teacher.
What shall I do say yes or no.
I do like her very much so but it was only a dream until today.
I really wanted it to keep it that way.
But it's my chance to get it right with someone I really like fo once.
Shat shall I do I dont want to get into trouple or get her into trouple I like her to much for that?

2007-09-24 10:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Of course, they all pretend that it's different, and it's not the age, but if they have a choice, they will choose the youngest, why?

2007-09-24 10:05:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When he was 12 to 16 years old he did it wih guys and liked girls but never did it with a girl. I dated him for 4 years from age 23 to 27 and he told me only last week! He had grown up in group homes and institutions and said he was experimenting cuz he was messed up. I thought he lost his virginity to me but he really lost it to 5 gay guys and i'm crushed! what do i do now? he needs me as a friend at least because he may become suicidal. but i don't see myself marrying him--i want a real virgin! how am i supposed to trust anyone now?

2007-09-24 10:04:55 · 4 answers · asked by DustyRose 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so last year this guy liked me & asked me out. i said no due to some bad things i'd heard about him. but i know he thinks i don't like him when i really do. now i really want him to be my boyfriend(he doesn't have a girlfriend), but there's no way i can ask him. helpppp!!!!! i don't what to do! i don't know if he even likes me anymore. there's no way in hell i'm gonna tell him that i like him. what should i do!?!?!

2007-09-24 10:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some songs that will remind us about each other. Friendship songs Please reply!

2007-09-24 09:57:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years how is it that one day we are talking about moving in together, that he loves me so much and he wants to make me his wife, and start a family with me and about a week later he breaks up with me?? I am still confused as to why he broke up with me. He didnt give me any reason besides he just doesnt want to be in a relationship right now, he wants to get his finances straight first so he can better provide for me. (sound like a load of crap) But isnt being a couple you should be trying to help each other to achive those kinda a goals??

2007-09-24 09:57:29 · 29 answers · asked by amanda h 3 in Singles & Dating

I told my boyfriend I have photos on a site since 2 weeks but he didn't open to see them . He said he has no time for that .But I know he used to sit on Internet in the past . Also , I bought him by 135 $ on his Birthday , then he bought me by just 35 $ and I know that he is more rich than me . He is not in love and is just using me for sex , right ?

2007-09-24 09:56:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating