i've recently gotten engaged. i'm 18. my fiancee is in her 30's. does this mean that our relationship is wrong because of our age difference? i love her, and she loves me, and thats all that matters to us. i want to know if it's wrong for us to be together. i am of legal age though to make love to my fiancee if i choose to. ( just reminding yall) thats my question.
2007-09-24 10:40:48 · 11 answers · asked by TWIN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Nothing wrong with that. As long as you're mature enough to understand the relationship and you don't feel rushed or pushed into things, then no.
The only thing I wonder is why you have to ask? Is there something you're not comfortable with? If it's what people will think, then don't-- what matters is how YOU two feel.
Good luck and congratulations.
2007-09-28 00:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by LJG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the tables were turned as far as age goes, the guys in the locker room would be giving you high fives! Since it's not I am sure you are having the world look at the two of you with strange expressions. Who cares, so long as it's right for the two of you and it's totally legal, no one else matters!
Good Luck!
2007-09-24 17:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cory C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should have watched doctor Phil the other day .... he covered this exact subject. Recently gotten engaged....so you were going out with her where you were 17? or did you turn 18 go somewhere see here and immediately got engaged...I mean really. You just started your life she is in the middle of hers. Are you going to want children? does she....does she have any already and how do they feel about the relationship and the fact that you are closer to their age then their mothers....how does your family feel about it....what was her situation before she met you....is she divorced(if she is newly divorced its because she is flattered someone younger loves her) think really hard about what you want from your life...what kind of job are you going to have .... are you going to college...oh well you probably don't care what anyone thinks and are going to do what you want....but just think she and your mom can go to the same rest home and you can visit them both in the same time
2007-09-24 18:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by t 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with it; your age difference is not practical, but it's not "wrong." It's whatever works for the two of you. If she is realistic about marrying someone much younger who might want to have kids and family one day when she is too old to have them - it is her choice to do so. Just because most people wouldn't do it doesn't make it "wrong."
2007-09-24 18:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say "right" for now.....but that will stay right if no one will change after years of living together...we can easily say age doent matter but sometimes they'll matter coz theres alot of things to be considered besides love...you know what i mean? mature people want to act mature and get along easily with mature like their age..but that your choice! Good Luck
2007-09-24 19:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by MOMMY_G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont see a problem with it cause im 18 and my fiancee is 20 and its truly up to you and what you think its not what other people think cause they are not who you are dateing
2007-09-24 19:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by redhead 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with it. I hope you have alot in common, there's 11 years difference between my husband and myself. and we've been married 16 years and have 3 children. i couldn't be happier, he's my true soul mate. your only as old as ya feel. good luck and best wishes.
2007-09-24 18:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gladys C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other then it is RIGHT and ignore all the negative responses!
2007-09-24 19:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing wrong though many find it odd but hey what ever makes you happy
2007-09-24 17:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if it feels right to you it should be fine
2007-09-24 17:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Answerfinder1360 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋