ok so last year this guy liked me & asked me out. i said no due to some bad things i'd heard about him. but i know he thinks i don't like him when i really do. now i really want him to be my boyfriend(he doesn't have a girlfriend), but there's no way i can ask him. helpppp!!!!! i don't what to do! i don't know if he even likes me anymore. there's no way in hell i'm gonna tell him that i like him. what should i do!?!?!
2007-09-24 10:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If u really want, him, you're gonna have to tell him that u like him. Just let him know that the real reason u said no was not that u didn't like him, just that u were silly enough to believe some rumors about him...if they r rumors...if they're true then think about how bad it is and if u want to b envolved in that.
2007-09-24 10:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a little situation similar to yours. Do you still talk to him? Do you email or IM him at all? I just flat out told him I liked him. Only through email because I didn't have the guts to tell him in person or phone.
Just strike up a converstion with him and see how he is around you. Maybe that'll build up some nerve to say that you like him or something.
2007-09-24 10:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. You don't have to say you are in love with him or anything. Since you turned him down once, it's your turn to make the move if you care about him. Either go for it or find someone else.
2007-09-24 10:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u dont tell him u like him u r RETARDED thats the best thing to do u should always tel the guy how u feel and he might feel the same but if u dont already know that ur a IDIOT and i told my ex how i felt and now were together it always works out TERRIFIC if u let the guy really know how u feel!
2007-09-24 10:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. once you said no you sealed the deal.There is no way he is going to ask you out again. Men don't like to be rejected. Men won't (unless they are stalker material) put themselves into another rejection situation.
2007-09-24 10:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on... You already messed up because you had your chance and you ruined it. If I were you I would start to talk to him as friends, then start to flirt, because there is always a chance of him liking you again.
2007-09-24 10:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him a little and see how he acts.
2007-09-24 10:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send signs and make him think that you should go out sometime and maybe he will catch them and ask you out again.
2007-09-24 10:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's hot say yes if he's not put it down gently. it's if u like him or u just wanna get to know him. so say yes if he's hot or just lay down gently. or just say yes anyways to get to know him.
2007-09-24 10:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by beautyluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him you like him, or lose him--take your pick.
2007-09-24 10:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nemo the geek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋