got married just 2 month ago
2007-09-24 00:06:48 · 9 answers · asked by bhawna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he himself told me that he was physical with that girl even after our marriage for first time, now he wants t end up everything with that girl, but she is after his life,she calls up daily & he do talk to her professionally in front of me as she is his colleague, please help.
2007-09-24 00:16:29 · update #1
i didn't knew about this earlier , came to know about their relationship after our marriage
2007-09-24 00:49:34 · update #2
I have no clue why you married someone who cheated on you before you got married AND now still cheating and still wanting him in your life. Please seek some professional help because this is not the way a marriage should be.
2007-09-24 00:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Patty G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why bother with him anymore if he seems to be interested in another woman? You said he was with her, after you both were married, thats cheating right? It sounds like all that he is going to do is break your heart more in the future, and probably end up leaving you with her anyway, so I wouldn't waste my time with him anymore. Either try marriage counseling, or just get a divorce.
2007-09-24 07:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how do you feel about this man who was so eager to betray you just after getting married?
If it were me i wouldnt be quite so keen to forgive and forget, but hey, thats just me.
Tell him if he wants her gone, GET HER GONE, once and for all.
Oh and get another colleague at work to deal with her - or even better, pack up his briefcase and find a new job.
2007-09-24 07:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only hope is to put out like a fiend. Obviously he's getting something from her he ain't getting from you. Either give it up or kiss him goodbye.
2007-09-24 14:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by terry m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't - let him chase you. 2 months in he shouldn't be chasing other women (should never but certainly not this soon)
Let him work for it and then make sure he earns every bit of pleasure!
2007-09-24 07:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I'm going to say is I'm in 1,000% agreement with Katya M.
2007-09-24 07:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him out with the garbage.
2007-09-24 16:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question for you: why did you get married if he was interested in someone else???
2007-09-24 07:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Katya M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ITS TO LATE SHE GOT HIM HE IS GOING TO LEAVE YOU I SUGGEST YOU EAMIL ME AND LETS CHAT
2007-09-24 07:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋