how old were u and ur spouse? when did you get married/how long have u been together?
if you've been married more than once how old were u and the person when u had ur first marriage/wedding
2007-09-24 20:05:54 · 16 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have u ever dated someone u wanted to marry but they had different thoughts on it?
my bf and i use to say when i turn 21 and he'd be 22(because he's like u can't do anything fun til 21,but i dont drink so i don't care) But now he's saying 30 cause it's the rest of his life and all that but don't u think if u found the one and u know u want to be with them forever just to go and do it and make it legal so people can see that u both love each other and want to be together forever
2007-09-24 20:14:33 · update #1
i know marriage is a big thing and congrats to all those people who have been together for a long time like 10+yrs...
2007-09-24 20:16:37 · update #2
10 years isn't a long time at least your boyfriend is being honest with you about waiting to get married. Would you be upset if he cheated on you when you marry. Sure you would so he wants to wait just for that reason. Me,I have been married 3 times. First time i was 18 he was 20 second time i was 22 and he was 18 third time i was 27 and he was 21. We have been married for 28 years now.
2007-09-24 20:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 24 and he was 26. We've been together for 37 years.
We thought we knew each other when we became engaged, but that was a lotta bull. You don't really know a person until you've been through the stress of childbirth, losing and finding a job, paying bills, dealing with in-laws, keeping a house clean, cooking, and a million other experiences that married couples go through.
There better be a lot of love, patience, understanding, and God in your life if marriage is going to work............
2007-09-25 03:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nitasaythis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st marriage
Me: 19
Him: 25
He left me for a 16 year old after 3 and a half years
2nd Marriage
Me: 25
Him: 29
He had an affair while away on a work conference, denied it for months and months and I found out from his work mate.
3rd Marriage
Me: 31
Him: 26
Hope this will be the one that lasts, got married on the 1st September, been together for 3 years before getting married.
2007-09-25 04:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been 2gether for 9 years and married for 8. We married at 22 and had alot of difficulty becuz we were so young. It is better 2 wait longer nowadays becuz raising a family is not easy. More and more young people r holding off. This gives them more financial stability and allows them time to be themselves. So don't stress and take things one day at a time.
2007-09-25 04:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by jayman31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my hubby when I was 13, and he was 17. He is my best friends' brother. We didn't really 'meet' properly until i was 21, and he was 24 (turning 25). That's how old we were when we lost our virginity. We got married when I was 23, he was 26. We have been married for just over two years, been together for just over four years.
2007-09-25 03:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by A derka der 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 23 and my husband, 38. We were together 2 years before we hitched, and we have been together 5 years total. This is both our first marriage.
2007-09-25 03:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were both 22, been together wonderfully for 13 years plus a boat load of kids!
2007-09-25 03:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by JC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 28, and he was 38. We knew each other a year, then dated for two before we got married - 18 years ago!
2007-09-25 09:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 26 when I got married...once and only once...my ex was almost 26. I was 46 when I left the marriage.
2007-09-25 16:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st Me: 23 Him: 28 11 years & 4 children later, he needed a barbie/trophy wife in her early 20's.
2nd Me: 35 Him 45 - looking at 9 years - am very blessed in marriage and children (combined 6 children)
if its meant to be it will happen - dont ever try to force it. good luck to you.
2007-09-25 18:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋