we have been going out for 5 months. He says I am the best girlfriend he's ever had. He spends time with me all the time, tells his friends and family about me. They like me, it seems like. It seems he really wants to have a baby. When we have sex, he often say he wants to get me pregnant. Sex is awesome. He came inside of me unprotected a few times and it seems that he really wants to get me pregnant. One time when I confronted that if I really get pregnant, what he wants to do, he wants to have the baby with me and maybe get married. What does this mean? Does he really like me or does he just want baby? I am very happy with me and I know he cares for me but this really wonders me does he like me that much or doesn't he care and he just want baby? Please help!
we are both in mid thirties and both got divorced more than a year ago and first serious relationship after divorce. We spend everyday together.
I want baby too badly but I don't wa
2007-09-24 20:02:33 · 6 answers · asked by whattodo898 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want baby too badly but I don't want to marry someone just because I got pregnant. I care for him and love him.
2007-09-24 20:04:30 · update #1
Red flag warning!
He wants to get you pregnant in spite of your desire to do things a bit differently with your life.
He may be a fun person, but he sounds controlling and frighteningly immature. If he is doing this much, how far will his selfish desires take him?
I suggest having a talk with his ex. Really! You may learn some reasons from a different perspective on just why they divorced, especially if he talks trash about her.
I have dealt with his kind, and worse. If he can't respect you enough to wear a condom until you are ready to have a baby, there will be a future of frustration and heartache for you and your future child(ren.)
2007-09-24 20:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five months is too soon to be talking about/trying to have a baby. If this is your first serious relationship for the both of you after divorce, both of you could be on the rebound and not thinking straight. Someone needs to have some sense here. Babies need two loving parents in a stable relationship. Right now it's too early to tell if this will work out or not.
2007-09-24 20:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A baby deserves a mommy and a daddy who are devoted enough to each other to get married. Get married before you get pregnant. If you cant do it before that means you arent ready for a baby (relationship wise)
If he wont marry you that means he isnt ready for a commitment. He wont be commited to the baby, and he will leave when things get tough. The baby will be a two year old soon.
2007-09-24 20:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by niffer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants a baby and marry you, why not get married first then have the baby, that way you will both be committed to each other and your children
2007-09-24 20:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by lardass 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is either very possessive of you or he really loves kids too much.....No matter what, in order to be absolutely doubtless that he wants and loves you for YOU alone and not just to have a kid, get married first before you get pregnant......
Also, you must be ready to marry him?
With doubtless love and devotion, it will promotes a more blissful family. Wish you happiness!
2007-09-24 20:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Micka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to marry you first, and then you'll think about a baby. if he really loves you, he will understand, and WANT to marry you.
2007-09-24 20:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by A derka der 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋