Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

I'm berly turned 18 last month and I'm gonna have a month with my boyfriend 2morrow. I always had that thought in being a virgin until marriage. That was like a dream that i wanted to wait for, but temptation came in. My boyfriend and I had sex, for our 1st time and it really was hard to fight temptaion. It was cute because we were experiencing for our first time. Though I feel like I broke a promise to myself and God =(. Eventhough I know this guy is a good guy, even a keeper. Yes, your probably wondering, "well how can you say this if you only know this guy for 1 month?", well actually, this is the funny part. I actually know him since 9th grade high school, but we would rarely talked. He's always been known for a really good guy, not because I say it, but everybody that knows him says the same thing. I don't know what to think about what we did, can anybody give me a well reasonable answer?

2007-09-24 16:03:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me to draft it.........................
i need your kind help.help me please...................

Dear uncle ,

How are you ? I am really very sorry that I failed to mail me.
I was too much busy. how are my sister and bro ? and what about my aunt?
The condition of Nepal is not good. I don’t know what happen in the future. But I can ensure you one think the both 2 big political party will remember the present situation.
Why not you write something on newspaper! Please, write a book about you and about your life. Its my request. It will change your life.

Best ,
Ria

2007-09-24 16:01:26 · 1 answers · asked by Rimi 2 in Friends

well theres this guy i likes hes really shy so i figured i'd invite him to the next football game with me and my friends, that way its not a date, (im not obligated to stay with him the whole time because there are other ppl there) and its not going to be akward if we dont talk because all my friends will be there..

oh and i guess i could tell him to bring a couple friends..(or does that seem like im using him to get to one of his friends??)

thnx!

2007-09-24 15:59:23 · 13 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband calls me at work and says he wants to have a romantic evening with me and the kids will be gone for the entire night. I left work early and bought some new lingerie, candles, etc. I got home and got ready for him. He didn't show up until 1:00am!!!! I was infuriated. He didn't even call and he didn't answer his cell phone. I'm starting to wonder because this isn't the first time this has happened.

2007-09-24 15:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by SHELBY J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had a crush on this guy since spring and he knows about it. He recently got a girlfriend from another country over the summer but I continued to have some feelings for him. His friend who is also my friend tells me that his relationship with this girl might end soon. Should I keep my hopes up about this, or disregard it and move on?

2007-09-24 15:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by blingding 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 15:55:45 · 32 answers · asked by necie82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

THIS GIRL had her VS panties sticking out and she made no effort to cover herself up?

There's this girl in one of my psych classes who sits in front of me. She isn't even that young (maybe 22?) She's very cute, and she responds to me well whenever I talk to you. Today when I saw her underwear popped up (she is usually pretty attentive about whether or not her shirt has gone up too high), she made no effort to bring it back down. I even once took my leg and brushed my kneecap off her jeans that were riding a bit low while we were sitting down(she could probably faintly feel it) from behind like it was an accident and she didn't seem to care.

2007-09-24 15:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by Indian bachelor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-24 15:52:02 · 13 answers · asked by brenn 5 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 2 years and I'm trying to gather some ideals of a good honeymoon, since we haven't officially taken one. So share some places activities ect.......

2007-09-24 15:50:21 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how old were you when you lost your virginity?

2007-09-24 15:50:08 · 35 answers · asked by cheerbabe2192 1 in Singles & Dating

Like how you pictured it would be?

2007-09-24 15:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so theres this boy, hes my good friend, he used to like my best friend and then he liked me then liked her again but now he says he doesnt like anyone. Theres this school dance coming up in like 2 weeks and my question is, do you think he'll ask me? If you don't are there any tips on how to get him to see the good things about me?

2007-09-24 15:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by ✂ scissor me timbers ✂ 4 in Singles & Dating

a really good friend of mine, her dad is extremely strict and doesnt even let his daughter, my friend, out of the house other than shcool. her dad wdoesnt even let her talk to guys like us. but she still does. anyway, i have a feeling that her dad abuses her and i am not sure to what extent. i really am close to this friend and do not know what to do. and i dont think she wants to turn him in for abuse because she is afraid, what should i do?
i do not know if he actually hurts her, but she asks to stop talking about it when we bring it up around friends.
i am thinkin gof having a seruious talk with her tomoorrow, just the two of us.

2007-09-24 15:47:06 · 5 answers · asked by Confused guy 2 in Friends

we haven't hung out in 2 weeks. before that we'd hung out about every weekend since the beginning of august id say. i always was the one making the plans - or bringing up hanging out- because he never does. but whenever i did bring up hanging out he'd always be up for it. am i just being paranoid? if he really liked me he would initiate plans i feel like. but he's driven to a different state to visit me but its not far at all. but still. and we hung out alone. & he texts me during the week nd stuff. we talk for a minumum of 3 hours .. normally we have long texting conversations. what does this mean? why waste your time talking to me if you dont like me. AND today - he texts me saying he thought of me when a song came on [a song i hate] he knows that too, so jokingly brought it up, we talk .. then he just stops talking. wtf ? why bother texting someone if you're going to blow them off like that. he does this all the time - sometimes we'll be talking for 5 hours and he'll just stop. why?

2007-09-24 15:45:12 · 8 answers · asked by Marie S 1 in Singles & Dating

My nose has been itching lately, so i scratched it and now it hurts very badly. What should i do?

2007-09-24 15:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Be honest.

He's not a lazy dude. He has a job and is trying to get somewhere. Its just that he's not making much right now.

2007-09-24 15:43:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well he is a really attractive guy and he always takes me to my car and last thursday it was his birthday and he got really happy that I bought him a little gift he sits behind me and I help him in math because he is not really good

2007-09-24 15:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by shelly89 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl in my class that i realy like but somtims i feel that she dosent even know in there , though i saw her looking at me after school . idk ... should i go speak to her or what ?
or am i wasting my time , couse i am very , very , very shi ... like REALY REALY SHI . And i dont like being rejected , couse ill get realy mad ... and i dont whant that to happen . thank you very much =)

2007-09-24 15:39:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I (35 yrs old) have known this girl (34 yrs old) for over a year now. I have always been a great friend and we are both attracted to each other. We have been spending alot of time on the phone and see each other as often as possible. We have great sexual tension. She finally agreed to meet and play around which we did. She strongly believes in emotional attachment for love making so she let me do alot. She is scared to kiss me for some reason but I don't push too much. After we played around...which we did alot of...She left home. I tried to call last night and today but she wouldn't answer. I am being very sensitive to her needs, but also a little hurt because she didn't show emotions towards me. I am not a "nice guy" type all the time, and just plain old myself and a helping friend always. I sent a picture of a flower via text and left a little message for her to take her time and keep her space. What do I do now???

2007-09-24 15:39:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To know I am tired of his controlling dominating bs, what would you do?

2007-09-24 15:38:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know if a guy says he's gonna call, I'll have my phone with me all day and check it a few times. I know this is kinda a "chick" thing, but just wondering if you guys have ever waited all day for the girl to call?

2007-09-24 15:37:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-24 15:30:32 · 2 answers · asked by nobody n 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, there's this guy i've liked for like about a year and a half. alot of people i knew were telling me he had a crush on me. I was excited i thought he would ask me out. but he didn't. he does drugs and all but should i continue looking forward for a relationshio with him?

2007-09-24 15:29:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 weeks and we've done everything that kids should do in a relationship(like hold hands and hug), but I think I love him, and we've been slipping a little, but Im pretty sure I want to kiss him. And Im Catholic in a Catholic School! Should I fastforward or Pause?

2007-09-24 15:25:38 · 25 answers · asked by Bella Logan<3 2 in Singles & Dating

long story short. 100-120 degrees outside i like it cool i get hot quicker and if its cold out i dont use the heat. husband wears a scully cap sweats and jacket says it is cold out he runs the heater when he gets out ofshower we have gone back and forth on why i like it cool in the house and how he can wear so many clothes and run heater when its 100 degrees out? couldnt he be iron deficient am i normal or is he??

2007-09-24 15:23:37 · 20 answers · asked by laylajai74 5 in Marriage & Divorce

All throughout HS and college too I was always the "friend".. I get along exceptionally well with guys and spend most of my time as school with a group of guys. I'm not a tomboy and I'm not particularly assertive or anything. At most, I'm a little motherly and a subtle flirt.

but why am I always the "cool friend" and how can I change that perception?
How can I flirt and let someone know that i'm interetested in him w/o flat out telling him?
I'm not a little kid (I'm 28) I'm just exceptionally clueless

2007-09-24 15:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Judi 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm kind of shy but once you get to know me I am funny and charming. I just have trouble breaking the ice with people. I started two weeks ago and not one real friend. :(
Any tips on how to break the ice and talk to people?

THANKS

2007-09-24 15:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know, this is kinda a stupid question, but I've found the older I get, the more attracted I am to guys who actually have something going on "up there."

In high school and even college, I used to always go for the musicians or the athletes, but now - well give me an electrical engineer any day! Brains over braun is definitely where it's at!

Maybe it's just that my relationships with "braun" always ended up in the guy either cheating or at least being a total scumbag. OK, I'm not saying all musicians are scum, and I'm sure some engineers can be cheaters too, but the track record's there. And although love is far more important than money, but that's just another thing the brainy guys got going for them.

Of course, everyone's different. I'm sure somewhere out there is a chemist/engineer/lawyer who plays in a garage band. But - OK, I'm rambling now. I just want to let you "nerdy" high school guys know that it's all right. You got game!

2007-09-24 15:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by Bella 4 in Singles & Dating

i grew up in a baptist christian home and i was tought that dancing was always a thing of the world! my fieances parents are catholic and they are putting pressure to have a dance :( i think it would be fun but i wouldnt be comforable being that other pastors and friends i grew up with in church would look down on that ! i always want to stand up for the lord and my testomony but i dont know if thats really letting him down if there is no bad words or nasty music going on ...only love songs related to the wedding theme....when me and my love are alone we dance for fun and romance......what you think would it still be the wrong thing to do??

2007-09-24 15:14:38 · 28 answers · asked by N0EllE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband of 8 yrs. left me for a single woman he met online for sex. She is now his girlfriend. I have a Yahoo 360 page and a friend of mine posted a comment on it (consoling me about my marriage ending) and the new girlfriend posted a comment back on my friend's page. We figured she must of gone to my page. I have everything turned off except for my pictures and comments so she can't see my blogs or any other personal things. She needs to move on with her life and leave me alone. I'm thinking she is already insecure. I think she got instant bad karma when she hooked up with him..lol You never, ever mess with a married man. If they can lie to their wife, they can lie to you. My ex and I do not speak at all. We have no children together (thank gawd) He lives in an apartment across town about a mile from my house. But there is no contact between us. Why is this woman who stole my husband watching what I'm doing? She needs to get a life.

2007-09-24 15:14:28 · 36 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1 in Marriage & Divorce