Ex husband's new girlfriend is watching me on my Yahoo 360 page?

Question

My ex husband of 8 yrs. left me for a single woman he met online for sex. She is now his girlfriend. I have a Yahoo 360 page and a friend of mine posted a comment on it (consoling me about my marriage ending) and the new girlfriend posted a comment back on my friend's page. We figured she must of gone to my page. I have everything turned off except for my pictures and comments so she can't see my blogs or any other personal things. She needs to move on with her life and leave me alone. I'm thinking she is already insecure. I think she got instant bad karma when she hooked up with him..lol You never, ever mess with a married man. If they can lie to their wife, they can lie to you. My ex and I do not speak at all. We have no children together (thank gawd) He lives in an apartment across town about a mile from my house. But there is no contact between us. Why is this woman who stole my husband watching what I'm doing? She needs to get a life.

Answer 1

That doesn't sound like she is watching you,your 360 is up for anyone to look at and so she looked. I understand how you feel about her and why it would make you feel good if she was checking up on you. It makes you feel good when the girfriend of your ex is jealous of you. As a wife myself who's husband cheated on me, when i found out that the whore who slept with my husband was jealous of me it made my day.

Answer 2

She is very insecure! She know knows what you felt like back in the day. he's probably cheating on her now too. SHe suspects it's with you but can't prove anything. I know it's not exactly the politically correct thing to do but you and your friend could really have some fun with this. Make like you and him are talking meeting for drinks, at his work for lunch, corner store on the way home from work..... ;)
Stragically post peices of info to each other, just not enough for her to put the puzzle together (he he he) You know she's watching so say something like "oh my gosh (your girlfriends name) he called me and said he misses me! (let her imigination wander) Then later have your friend write something like So what happened when you met up, does his gf know? ..LOL I know I'm bad but shame on her for messing with a married man. BTW shame on him equally! Oh and any of those little quirks of his only you and her would know about, yeah, go ahead and toss those in later.
~Beware of the woman scorned!
***Good luck! >^.^<

Answer 3

You answered your own question. She knows how she got him from you, and you guys were together a LONG time. Maybe he's got regrets and perhaps made comments comparing her to you or something. Either way, it's as you said, her own insecurity, and I totally agree with the karma thing. The good news is, he's HER problem now, and may the force be with her! LOL

Answer 4

Who cares why she is doing it? If you don't like it change your Yahoo identity, it's not that difficult. Of course she is insecure, so what? The more you make an issue of it the more your comment "she needs to get a life" pertains to you. I wouldn't turn anything off on my 360...let her look you're no longer married to "her man" what do YOU have to hide?

Answer 5

My concern would be if you are so over him and your friends know this, why are you worried about her insecurities? You are so right on about karma, he will figure that one out soon enough if this woman is so jealous over someone who is not even in the picture, just wait until he finds someone new for her to actually be concerned about. Just sit back, have a good laugh at his and her expense and move on, forget about both of them.

Answer 6

She's just insecure because you were with him first. It doesn't matter if you aren't with him now, you used to be with him at some point in time. She will always be insecure, you can't start a relationship without finishing one first. Trust will always be an issue because in the back of her mind she thinks, no...she KNOWS, if he can do that to one woman, he can surely do it to another. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He'll do it to her too. Scandalous!! She can't get a life because she's too consumed in yours and what you're doing.

Answer 7

Goodness me I know exactly how you feel, but the roles are reversed! My husbands ex-wife does the same to us! I find it quite spooky considering it's been almost 9 years since they've been together. What kind of weirdo would do such a thing? Our theory is that she does not have much of a life of her own. I'm not sure there is anything you can do, as she must be quite fascinated with you ;) You must be a wonderful person for someone to be so intrigued with your life. Please take good care...

Answer 8

like u said she probably feels insecure about herself and wants to know what she is being compared to...i mean after 8 yrs ur ex is used to things being done a certain way...but i do agree she should get a life and stop trying to stalk on especially online like seriously who does that

Answer 9

because hes talking about you and missing you and realizing he prolly screwed up for a piece of worthless trash, if they hooked up for just sex to start im sure she was insecure, especially when he starts comparing and mentioning little things she shouldnt do....yanno after the lust is gone you get annoyed at whatever you dont like. thats starting for them so shes checking on you to make sure hes not coming back "home" for something better.

Answer 10

You hit the nail on the head, she got him the wrong way and she is afraid he is going to do it to her too, and for some reason she thinks he's going to try and go back to you. Let her live in her miserable insecurity, and be happy with your life.