well theres this guy i likes hes really shy so i figured i'd invite him to the next football game with me and my friends, that way its not a date, (im not obligated to stay with him the whole time because there are other ppl there) and its not going to be akward if we dont talk because all my friends will be there..
oh and i guess i could tell him to bring a couple friends..(or does that seem like im using him to get to one of his friends??)
thnx!
2007-09-24 15:59:23 · 13 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he'll wonder why your asking him to have him and his friends come hang out with you and your friends. It'll only seem like your using him to get to one of his friends if you ask him to bring a specific friend.
My suggestion is just ask him if he wants to go see the football game with you and you only. It doesn't have to be seen as a date, just 2 friends doing something. Coming on strong would be running up to him and asking him to be your boyfriend.
[quote](im not obligated to stay with him the whole time because there are other ppl there) and its not going to be akward if we dont talk because all my friends will be there..[/quote]
Well, it might not be awkward for you but what about him? Do you think he'd ever go out with you after spending a night with you and your friends where you basically ignored him and talked with your friends only?
2007-09-24 16:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Dr. Angel here:
Totally! I might just use it myself! ;-)
Ask him if he'd like to bring a few close friends, ask if he'd like to hang out after the game with some friends...see a movie as a group. Groups can never go wrong. That way you're still with the person, just getting to know them better until they realize what they want the next move to be. Of course he'd wanna bring a friend or two, when you're talking to your friends, he's gonna be there all alone! So definetly ask him to bring some friends so that way you're BOTH satified.
GBU ~Dr. Angel
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GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-24 16:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask him to bring friends.
I'd just say that you and some friends are going to the football game, would he like to come with? If he's interested in you, he'll probably jump at the chance. If he's not so into you, he might try to make an excuse. Then you'll know whether to pursue or move on.
2007-09-24 16:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guy is undesirable information. Texting somebody is a unfavorable way of conversing, and by utilising telling you he needs to do all those issues ability he would not care something approximately you, aside from intercourse. i might in no way answer him returned! in case you do, you're only encouraging him to maintain doing that -- to you, or to different ladies.
2016-10-19 21:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl Go for it! you guys should all go out to dinner after the game too, or maby if things arnt awkward maby just you and him can go out after the game.
But to anwser the question - Your idea is great. It wont be akwar, and you guys can still get to know each other.
2007-09-24 16:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by *~*Gettin' Hyphee*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have been asking these kinds of questions for centuries. It is fun to see girls trying to figure out how to ask a guy out. But is GREAT to it happening. Go for it.
2007-09-24 16:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think it will seem like your using him to get to his friends at all. just make sure you say "hey you wanna chill with me at the game". then he'll get the idea your interested in him. and then say "bring some friends if want". and make sure you flirt with him so he gets the catch. plus inviting him to the game will bring you guys closer.
2007-09-24 16:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out point blank. . . .i'd be willing to bet that if he's a shy guy, then he'd be more than happy to know that you'd like to go out with him, just as much as you'd like to go out with him. so ask him out!!!!!
2007-09-24 16:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little but thats a good idea i never tho of doing that lol
2007-09-24 16:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by bamloverbam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if you like him them you should focus on him but...if your asking him to come to the game thinking well if it doesnt work i can just leave him there..DOnt ...i mean thats kinda rude....his shy so ...just dont make it hard on him ......... and just have fun..yeah
2007-09-24 16:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by ONBroadway2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋