To know I am tired of his controlling dominating bs, what would you do?
2007-09-24 15:38:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave...as simple as that, I mean if the mom is happy the kids are happy ...so your not happy ...leave.
2007-09-24 15:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
As with anything, actions speak louder than words. Whinning, crying, nagging, etc, only makes him feel more powerful, because he's tugging at your heart strings. The moment you leave his sorry butt, it'll get his attention, and if by chance he doesn't care or even notice you're gone, it'll be a blessing in disguise in the long run.
2007-09-24 22:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its perfectly normal. When you truely love someone, you basically take in alot of BS and crap from your spouses. I can't wait to find another better Ms. Happiness, when I do! I leaving my wife forever! Hope this helps. :o(
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2007-09-24 23:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that I don't like how he is so controlling. If he says he isn't going to change get rid of him now.
2007-09-24 22:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by laura 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and let him know how you truly feel and give some ultimatums. Good luck!
2007-09-24 22:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by b n real 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him nicely when it would be convenient with him to talk about the matter.
Be careful that it does not interfere with his prime time.
Just remember your position in the pecking order & things should be OK......
2007-09-24 22:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him you are going to go out somewhere, don't ask his permission, then go do it and see how he reacts... if he won't be reasonable but you still don't want to leave him, keep doing it until he folds... chances are he will get used to it and you will get stronger, more independent
2007-09-25 00:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM ASAP. I CANT HANDLE A MAN WHO THINKS HE CAN CONTROL ME AND GET AWAY WITH HE. HE NEEDS TO KNOW WHERE YOU BOTH STAND IN THE RELATIONSHIP. NO ONE SHOULD HAVE MORE CONTROL THEN THE OTHER
2007-09-24 22:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by LIZ G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go out with a friend regardless of what he says. take a step!!!!!! or stay at home but ignore his *** anyroom he walks into you walk out of for a couple of days and dont tell him your ignoring him. go to sleep early if you have to and hey dont worry no relationship is perfect we all been there done that..
2007-09-24 22:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by LiLi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
One more vote for leave.
2007-09-24 23:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by since you asked 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him & let him know that you are very serious.
Communication is the Key!!!
2007-09-24 22:49:19 · answer #11 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋