My husband calls me at work and says he wants to have a romantic evening with me and the kids will be gone for the entire night. I left work early and bought some new lingerie, candles, etc. I got home and got ready for him. He didn't show up until 1:00am!!!! I was infuriated. He didn't even call and he didn't answer his cell phone. I'm starting to wonder because this isn't the first time this has happened.
2007-09-24 15:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by SHELBY J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As a 'victim' myself recently of an unfaithful spouse, it does appear somethng unsavioury is going on.
Whether its an extramarital affair i wouldnt conclude just based on that. But something is going on. Maybe just out at bar with boys getting drunk....maybe just goes to strip bar, or maybe he is spending quality time with someone else.
Check his cell phone log to see who he is calling, or called the same evening he was supposed to be with you. Also check the TXT messages.
Thats how i found out.
2007-09-24 16:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kaboom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made that call because he knew you would be home all night waiting for him...That means he knew where you were and that you weren't going anywhere...in the meantime, he got to hang out with the other chick...Either that or he called the wrong woman (you) when he meant to call his mistress. Stop putting up with it.
2007-09-24 23:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nasty! he needs to EXPLAIN clearly in detail what happened, until you are satisfied with the answer.
that is cruel and hurtful. I would be checking up on him if i were you. get a friends' husband or someone he doesn't know to follow him and report back to you where he goes at lunch, or after work.
check his mobile phone bill, and call log, check his emails.
you need to know!!
2007-09-24 23:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by sass24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not blame you, sounds odd to me too. Try and talk to him and let him know how it made you feel and how you would appreciate it if he not do that anymore. When you have your talk concerning this,maintain as much Respect as you can. That will soften his heart, and help him to be more understanding than anything,help him to see his errors.
Best wishes. God Bless.
2007-09-24 23:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever's going on, something sure smells fishy to me. (No pun intended) I would rip him a new one so wide you could drive a Mac truck through it. He's gotten your hopes up, dashed them, AND disrespected you all in one shot.
2007-09-24 23:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he tells you this so you will be at home and he knows he will be out and you wont be looking for him play along next time then go out and look for him and see what you can find
2007-09-24 23:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check his libido, if he cannot perform his usual thing then he must have his performance before he goes home with someone else, that means he have someone else on the side. good luck!!
2007-09-24 23:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably called the wrong person. and the dinner was intended for his other woman.
2007-09-24 23:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Binibini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are kidding right? surely if this wasn't the first time this has happened you didn't fall for it again.....
2007-09-24 23:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep i would be pissed to if he didn't call and cancel or let you know he would be late.. i would look into what hes up too.
2007-09-24 23:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋