we haven't hung out in 2 weeks. before that we'd hung out about every weekend since the beginning of august id say. i always was the one making the plans - or bringing up hanging out- because he never does. but whenever i did bring up hanging out he'd always be up for it. am i just being paranoid? if he really liked me he would initiate plans i feel like. but he's driven to a different state to visit me but its not far at all. but still. and we hung out alone. & he texts me during the week nd stuff. we talk for a minumum of 3 hours .. normally we have long texting conversations. what does this mean? why waste your time talking to me if you dont like me. AND today - he texts me saying he thought of me when a song came on [a song i hate] he knows that too, so jokingly brought it up, we talk .. then he just stops talking. wtf ? why bother texting someone if you're going to blow them off like that. he does this all the time - sometimes we'll be talking for 5 hours and he'll just stop. why?
2007-09-24 15:45:12 · 8 answers · asked by Marie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he has stuff to do. Texting is ridiculous. Long distance is ridiculous.
2007-09-24 15:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anibolism 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wish I had quick answers for you but I will say that long distance relationships are based more out of a fear of not being loved or alone than of actual love.
Guys are trick like girls and when they choose not to speak what they are thinking/feeling then people are left to guess. Ask him questions you want answers to and do not let him not answer them-if he refuses then let it go and move on-you will be OK and the pain will fade away-I promise
2007-09-24 15:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, sounds too familiar! with me i was so frustrated hat i always had to make the moves, i had to ask this idiot for a hug! like wow! so it could be that he likes you but is just a slow mover or just wants to be friends. what i did was completelyt ignore him, don't call him, don't respond to text, nothing! then in due time he will call you back wondering where you are, then he'll act all interested asking to chill and stuff, if he doesn't hten you have your asnwer. and if its' the same way when he calls back jsut ask him" are we talking just beasue we are friends, or are we talking to become more?" i know its kinda out there, but you have the right to know, you don't want wasted time on your hands.
2007-09-24 15:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Asha M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first guy...texting is so not personal no matter what you text to each other. Communication is everything and if you can speak up and ask those important questions there is something wrong there.
2007-09-24 15:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by will4mylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are friends already so you know that he won't think that you're uncool. If you want to know what he thinks, the only way is to tell him. Do it yourself. If he thinks you're uncool then obviously he isn't a nice guy & he isn't the right guy, but if he is nice then i'm sure it will work out for you. So I say, tell him & see what he thinks too.
2016-05-17 23:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya might try doing something that doesnt involve 'hanging out' duh!!!! or texting,....or any modern gadgetry,... hold hands walk long and deep away from civilization and meet nature in the form of insects,... nests,.. leaves and even simple ant trails.... let me know how it goes...
2007-09-24 15:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by doggie_dundee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young lady. . . he's seeing you when it's convenient, there is no reason to let him keep dragging you along. he's not interested, he's just using you. put an end to it.
2007-09-24 15:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just dragging on... not really interested...
2007-09-24 15:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Crabby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋