Family & Relationships - 24 September 2007

2007-09-24 15:08:42 · 21 answers · asked by notamonkey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this boy at my school that i really like. i think he likes me back but i dont know how to tell. i am really crushing on him. i have liked him since last year. i am in the eighth grade.
pleasae help me!! i dont want to spend all of my time obsessing over him if he dosent feel the same way.

2007-09-24 15:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

once or twice a month is not cool right what should you do

2007-09-24 15:05:03 · 36 answers · asked by bmcconcrete 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy in my grade and i've liked him for like 2 years. this may seem kind of stupid. but i get so nervous when i look at him or around him i cant even smile at him i just immediatly look away. i talked to him 2 years ago but now dont have the nerve even to look at him without him looking at me wierd.i really want to get to know him better but dont know how to without running off or acting wierd.is there any way i can talk to him normal.

2007-09-24 14:58:54 · 3 answers · asked by katie1221 2 in Singles & Dating

Can I put a restrain order on someone who is doing a lot of damages to my property but I cant prove it is him?
He painted /scratched my car.
He cut my daughter’s bike tires.
He cut one of our family friends car tires with a knife and 2 of my neighbors sow the car that looks like his car.
He parked last week his car in the middle of the night in front of my house and turned up the music loud so my husband had to go out and talk to him.
He is passing to our street every night driving slow and looking for her.
Once he stopped his car because my daughter was outside talking to some friends and he start talking to her.
He is leaving notes to my daughter when her window is open.
Today he jumped over the fans in the Scholl where my daughter is a student .
It is been a year since she does not want to see him .
Every single action is more aggressive then the last one.
What I could do .
Thank you

2007-09-24 14:57:46 · 13 answers · asked by mamamia8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you file for divorce on the grounds of adultry, what does that really mean for your spouse? I mean do they have to pay a fine or get a stern talking to by the judge? What? Is the purpose of filing on grounds of adultry just to bring it to light that your spouse cheated?

2007-09-24 14:57:39 · 25 answers · asked by cris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well right now I feel so..weird. All I can think about right now is him. He talks to me everyday, is super sweet. Nice, funny, caring. He tells me I'm beautiful.
He told me this:

Keli: I love you for so many reasons! how you make me smile all the time and the way your smile is beautiful even if you can't see it. Your kind and smart and funny. Your a great friend and i don't know what i would do without you. I think about you at the most random moments and wish you were here. You Are an Amazing person in so many ways, ways beyond words. *pokes*

He gives me butterflies, makes me smile and laugh.
But the problem is..he is taken. =/
What do I do?

2007-09-24 14:55:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had been dating and in a relationship for almost 2 mo. Ever since my boyfriend and I had finally had sex a week ago, since I was a virgin, now he acts very distant, even though he claims he hasn't noticed any odd behavior from him. I had been seeing him a lot for the past 4-5 days, I thought we might need some time from eachother to breathe. He kept asking to when he can call me, I turned him down, thinking I was gonna be too busy. I gave in tonight trying to call him but he won't answer his phone as I tried calling 4 times or respond to any of my text messages. We love each other, but I worry he might love being with his friends more than with me. He doesn't show too much affection or try to romance me, even though I do and show so many sincere and loving gestures. A mutual friend of ours had just told a friend of mine that I had called my boyfriend all day, a few hours after I had already tried to call my bf. What does all this mean? Is he trying to prove something? Or is it over

2007-09-24 14:54:01 · 3 answers · asked by Lil purple 1 in Singles & Dating

all through my marriage my ex husband abused me & my 2 children. He is very contolling. it's been 6 yrs that i finally left him. my daughter always complains to me that he goes to her house everyday & makes himself at home. he takes off his pants as soon as he walks in her house. she lives with her husband..they are both sycsofranic..i don't know the spelling. he takes advantage of both. she always says she'll take him to court but never does. i try to help but its a lost cause. i have my own life. she is 36 & always has been under his control. he's not well in his mind. i love my daughter.. my son stays away..he never helps me nor his sister. infact he's for his dad. my son is married& never visits me nor my daughter. my daughter goes with her dad to visit her brother. she doesn't like to ride with her dad but she misses her brother.. plz help!! at least i tried to help her & will always be here for her. i'd like to see him pay for all that he's done. its up to her

2007-09-24 14:53:35 · 19 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys get annoyed when their girlfriend wants to spend time with them?

2007-09-24 14:52:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having a horrible time dealing with it. My mom just told me she was going to give him the papers yesterday...its just I think she is going through her midlife crisis, and I know that sounds mean, i just think she is making a mistake and I feel AWFUL for my dad. Its not like either one has cheated or anything...they just kinda grew apart and my dad still loves her so much. How do I deal?

2007-09-24 14:51:05 · 19 answers · asked by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-24 14:48:21 · 25 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been told that I'm very attractive and sexy but I can be kinda quiet and shy at times, can being quiet and shy keep a man from approaching me? Once I get to know a person, I come out of my shell. But I'm not always quiet and shy.

2007-09-24 14:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa V 1 in Singles & Dating

He ended things last night because hes confused on how he feels right now and wants to be friends. (I know there is no one else trust me I know him) I agreed to being friends and hes not saying we will never work just not now. After some thinking i dont know if I can handle the friend thing. Should I try it? I am just still very much in love with him

2007-09-24 14:47:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do people change? Or their expectations get more demanding or mid-life crises crop in for the men? Why?

2007-09-24 14:47:06 · 22 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 10 years and I broke up 11 months ago. I tried to keep things quiet, thinking we'd be reconciling, but he went straight to our mutual friends and blabbed out his side of the story. Now these mutual friends, who have been my friends from grade school, have decided they're all mad at me and the way I left. They don't call me anymore. They don't see how I'm doing. When I had my baby (I was pregnant when I left my husband), they came to see the baby, but that was about it. I left due to emotional abuse. My husband says that he understands he was not a great husband and he knows he was in the wrong, but he won't tell anyone else this. The friends have all been upset with me because apparently the way I left was really wrong. They completely dismiss the fact that my husband abused me and side with him because I packed up my son and went to a Women's shelter.

I recognize these are not true friends, but Lordy does it ever hurt. Can anyone relate?

2007-09-24 14:45:25 · 17 answers · asked by Shannon H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

On behalf of an awfuly traumatic experience some months ago...This bad experience was an "asswhole" I dated who never gave a damn about me, who took advantage of my drunkness a couple of times, who was an alcoholic, and to whom I would have devoted my entire life.
With my new date, who I deeply love, I don't feel like kissing all the time. I am not as passionate as I was before.

I have been taking this new relationship really slowly. I parted with my ex 10 months ago.. And I have already asked this guy to give me time on my own, but now I do feel like being with him!

Any Tips, opinions?

2007-09-24 14:45:19 · 2 answers · asked by Calíope!* 3 in Singles & Dating

guys please help me out, heres the story...
i like this gurl chloe and on the weekend she got mad at something and she tried to take it out on me and i cussed her out because i was mad too and today at school she was talking to my friend and said "i was buzzed on the weekend when i was talking to shariq(that's me), I think he's mad at me". Then I seen her in the halls and she kept looking at me but i was ignoring her. Then I went to class and usually i tell her friend to move so i can talk to chloe but today i told her to stay because i was going to talk to her friend. So I started talking to her friend and I mentioned this stripper for fun because I was joking around and i was like oh shes pretty and everything, and chloe was like "yeah shes probably a walkin STD" and she said it in a pissed off way and i didnt pay attention to her and kept on talking to her friend and she seemed like she was jealous and i really like her so do you guys think shes jealous of the gurl? please help

2007-09-24 14:44:03 · 1 answers · asked by ***KREEM YUNG*** 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys: What are you real oppinions of thongs???? Hot or Not?

2007-09-24 14:43:29 · 8 answers · asked by Bee 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend been together for a while now we practically do everything together my concern is that evrey week he has to mention his ex girlfriend and they still keep in touch in ways that I cant find out but he does tell me about her and when he talked to her... does he still like her how would I find out he says he loves me hes talking about marriage also.. but shes (hes ex) is always behind the picture...

2007-09-24 14:42:16 · 1 answers · asked by ~*~Jess~*~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which one do you enjoy the most? There is enjoyment to be had in both, but if you had to choose just one. Feel free to explain why.

2007-09-24 14:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thinking about giving it a try. I'd like to hear pros and cons to it! Serious answers only please, and the best one is guaranteed 10 points! Thank you!

2007-09-24 14:41:25 · 2 answers · asked by nutz2203 2 in Singles & Dating

keep eyes open?
keep looking
ask the person you relly like out
keep asking everbody questions till you know you have found the perfect one?

2007-09-24 14:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by mzz_pwttie 1 in Singles & Dating

If a father dies, how long does it take for wife and kids to start recieving social security benefits? Is it an indefinite waiting process like waiting for a social security disability hearing?

2007-09-24 14:38:09 · 12 answers · asked by slowboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just had a big talk with my wife. I told her I love her but not in love with her. I told her everything but divorce. How do I tell her I want a divorce?

2007-09-24 14:36:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

today in one of my classes my friend told me this boy i like kept staring at me nd i even made him laugh and so i stayed after school he plays football and my friends go he keeps looking at u i really like h im...does he like me ???? BEST ANSWER 12 POINTS 10POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER AND 2 POINTS FOR ANSWERING K THNKS <3

2007-09-24 14:34:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do they mean by it? Are they trying to say something sexual, or just "we should talk sometime and become friends" or "we should go on a date"? It's so confusing. I'm afraid to call because I don't know what they expect.

2007-09-24 14:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds strange, but would you get married ( for religious reasons) knowing that you and your new spouse had to live in seperates homes for about a year.... because of family and financial issues ??
assuming though that you still spent time with each other, like you did while dating

2007-09-24 14:31:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am spossed to find a symbol that symobolizes three out of all these characteristics of a girl.
Here are all the different characteristics:

1. Athletic
2. Proud
3. Cocky
4. Judgmental
5. Tough
6. Jelious
7. Tough
8. Defensive
9. aggressive
10. proud
11. Respectful
12. responsible
13. sensative(on the inside, toward her baby brother)
14. CAring(same)

So what is a symbol or picture that represents three or the 14 different adjectives or characteristics above?

2007-09-24 14:30:49 · 2 answers · asked by Softball maniak 1 in Family

2007-09-24 14:24:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating