Well right now I feel so..weird. All I can think about right now is him. He talks to me everyday, is super sweet. Nice, funny, caring. He tells me I'm beautiful.
He told me this:
Keli: I love you for so many reasons! how you make me smile all the time and the way your smile is beautiful even if you can't see it. Your kind and smart and funny. Your a great friend and i don't know what i would do without you. I think about you at the most random moments and wish you were here. You Are an Amazing person in so many ways, ways beyond words. *pokes*
He gives me butterflies, makes me smile and laugh.
But the problem is..he is taken. =/
What do I do?
2007-09-24 14:55:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that feeling is love. I just rejected a guy I liked so I'm so jealous of you. I froze up inside when he held out his arms- I backed away and shook my head. I felt so horrible about it after and now I can't get him out of my mind. I want to tell him what I meant about what I did but I'm scared that he's over me or has a girlfriend now, although it's only been three weeks. I imagine that he will take me back, but I know that he won't because guys just don't do that when you reject them do they? Okay, so this isn't really an answer to your question, but the first six letters are. lol
2007-09-24 15:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact same situation, except for that he isn't taken. Unfortunately, he probably just thinks of you has a really great friend- but don't take it too badly! Great friends can be better than boyfriends. If he gets hurt, or if he hurts his current gf and feels bad about it, it's probably you he'll run to. All you can really do is be there for him and make sure that he knows it. Be honest and faithful, and you'll get through alright! :)
2007-09-24 21:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Feather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he taken like married? If he is married, inasmuch as he may like you, circumstances will never allow him to fully show it and be with you when you want him around, like say Thanksgiving, you cannot call him whenever you want etc...it is a tough ballgame and it will hurt you a lot.
Secondly, if he is dating someone else, ask him about that other person and what she means to him and if he would leave her for you? if he gives excuses for her like,"I don't wannt to hurt her" Then hit the door, he is playing. If he is willing to leave her, excuse him a lil, give him time to work his stuff and let him come back to you when he is free. It may sound idealistic but if he doesn't leave her now for you, he may never leave her and you will just be the side dish or something like that.
2007-09-24 22:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by lavagal.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so nice to feel that way about someone. Dont think it is love until love is proven. Only time will tell if it is love. I remember feeling that way about every girl I dated back in high school, atleast for the first couple of weeks, then it got old till I met a new one.
2007-09-24 21:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by NeoPhysicist 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I thought it was GREAT until the very last part - HE'S TAKEN - That makes me think he's like all the other guys that give guys a bad name. If he'll do this to his girlfriend now with you, he'll do this to you with someone else. I know it's flattering and all but don't see him anymore unless you want your heart broken.
2007-09-24 22:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you, but yet he's with another girl? well, maybe he should take care of that first before telling you how he feels. he is a nice guy, but imagine how you would feel if you were his gf...?? that would hurt.
talk to him and let him know that its wrong for him to feel the way he does for you bcuz he has a gf. if he does wanna be with you then he'll get rid of her...not that i would suggest it. but you could move on and find another guy that will give you butterflies!
2007-09-24 22:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, run very fast.
A taken guy who says he likes you will get tired of you just like he is now tired of the girl he is with. He will leave you someday, just like he is seeming to be ready to leave her now.
If he is going to "cheat" on her by talking to you in this manner, he will cheat on you later. You may be getting all fluttery inside, but it will not last.
I am sorry to tell you all this horrible stuff, but I know from experience that this is almost always what happens. Save yourself the heartache. He ain't worth it.
2007-09-24 21:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by animal lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem before. Those butterflies are not a good sign, it's gas! And what's to follow is not any better. But after you get back from the bathroom you will feel MUCH better.
2007-09-24 21:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by noee54 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Taken?! I mean, you are really in love but...there's a lil' problem, if he leaves his girlfriend 4u, there's a big probability, that he leaves you for someone else. With all the pain of the world, I'd forget him, but if you don't wanna forget him you're taking a huge risk....
2007-09-24 22:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then what the hell is he saying this to you? Act like your the cheater. NOT REALLY but i mean...just say something like "If you love me that much than why are you with her?"
If he literally takes your breath away randomly while watching sex in the city or seinfeld then yes its love...
I literally have a hard time breathing sometimes when i think about my boyfriend....
2007-09-24 21:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by A wonder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋