we're good friends and he calls me more than he calls her just to talk..when he comes over to my place we always end up sleeping together..he is the one who initiates..i cant resist him because he's very charming and he says nice things to me..i also thought that he might still have feelings for me..im still not over him
2007-09-24 17:46:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being the other woman and find your own man. You know he is only using you............
2007-09-24 23:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Widgi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow him to use you. Stay away from him and you won't hear those nice things that he is telling you just to get some. You wouldn't want to be in his girlfriends shoes so you should stop sleeping with him. Do you really want a man back that cheats? Think real hard.
2007-09-24 17:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just taking advantage of you & you're allowing it to happen! IF he has a g/f, that's who he belongs with. I sure wouldn't play seconds for anyone like that. Please have more respect for yourself than that. Next time, just tell him you're sorry, you're just on your way out, AND BY THE WAY, stay at her house w/her, not yours. He broke off w/you don't forget, why should he still have the priviledges he once had but choose to give them up for someone else. The heck w/him. Put him in your past & leave him there. You deserve better than that. Who wants "left overs"...He's just using you big time. Don't let him do it. Respect yourself more than that.
2007-09-24 17:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gina, can I come to your house? Never mind the fact that I'm married; I'm very charming and can say the nicest things to you!
What? You're insulted that I'd treat you like a s l u t ? Then why are you acting like one with him? Boot him outa your life, you nitwit! He's scum!
2007-09-24 17:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is: Because you let him. Because you have no self-esteem and no spine and he knows he can get some, where as with the girlfriend he has to work for it, like be nice to her, take her out, etc. With you, all he has to do is show up.
2007-09-24 17:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants to get the best of both worlds. he's clearly using you.
think of it this way: it might have also happened that while you were still together, he might have also done what he's doing now with you with his ex / exes or any other girls around.
this is not a kind of man who knows how to respect women and their feelings. do u wanna help him screw up his relationship with his gf? i'd bet you don't.
so please do yourself a favor, stay away from him. stop courting with trouble.
2007-09-24 17:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by ••Tara•• 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you betta get over him like now... coz if you dont, then he might end up hurtn you or even the gurl hes with now!!
u shulnt be talking to him alot coZ hes probly like just usen you.
some boys are like that..
they use other gurls wen there own gfZ aint really in the mood, or sometimes aint talking or stuff like that
2007-09-24 18:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by mzz_pwttie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some respect for yourself and get as far away from him as possible.
Seriously. Block his number and tell him he is not welcome. it's not fair to you or the new girlfriend.
The only way you are going to move on is if you actually MOVE ON. Live your life without him in it. It's not healthy the set up you are allowing.
2007-09-24 17:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is: why are you still LETTING him sleep with you? Not being over him is not a good reason...
2007-09-24 17:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend go through this.
BECAUSE HE IS AN ASSHOLE. He wants to have the comfort of his gf and the comfort of your body. STOP GIVING IT TO HIM. You are not his whore. You deserve someone to treat you right.
Sorry for being so blunt, but it is the truth.
2007-09-24 17:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by LifeLove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well darlin Im ashamed to say but I was in your ex's shoes before and umm...maybe you should stop sleeping with him until YOUR his girlfriend.
*keside is right
2007-09-24 17:51:43 · answer #11 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋