Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and then have been officially together for abit more then a month. I'm only 16 and he is 19 but i think i love him, i have said i love you to one other guy who i did care alot about but this is different, i like him more then i have ever liked anyone before and miss him whenever im not with or talking to him.
We were talking about our feelings and stuff when we had been dating for about 2 weeks and i think he almost said it but then i was like it takes me alot to say it. Should i say it now because i think i do!!!
Here are the ways i was thinking of saying it...
Whispering it in his ear whilst hugging
Before or after sex
In a note left in his car
Through email
Over the phone
By sending him a love song, if so any ideas
Which of those do you think would be the best??? Any other ideas? or adivce?
THANKS xo
2007-09-24 17:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm Not In Love by 10cc. A song about a guy who refuses to accept that he's i love...someone else did a cover of that song but the original is sung so sincerely that you feel it.
2007-09-24 17:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Offense, but aren't you a little too young to be dating a 19 year old, if you're 16? That makes sex illegal, doesn't it? So scratch out number two...
And love is a little too strong of a word to use after a just a month.
Sorry for being harsh, but..
When you say that "this is different"
it's not really different at all.
You probably like him, unless you've got that one in a million chance that you both do (and undoubtedly you will say you are this one in a million, that's what they all say, isn't it?) or this isn't love, hon.
2007-09-24 17:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by Laurisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why are you an underage girl, having sex with a boy that old?
2. "I love you" said before, during or after sex doesn't count, everyone knows that.
3. You tell him in person, although after a month I don't think you really love him. You've not had time to really get to know him.
2007-09-24 17:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him a mix CD :D
That works well.
And don't be his toy... Don't let him have sex with you then leave you.
Alot of guys tend to do that and I hate it cuz I'm friends with alot of girls and they all come to me crying...
Geez... Just be careful with that.
2 good love songs I like are:
Lost Cause by Beck
And
On Your Own by The Verve
Cheers :D
2007-09-24 17:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it when you feel it! Blurt it out! Randomly! He will love it!!!
2007-09-24 17:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Soo Hurt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋