Ok i had sex with my ex girlfriend today, and i have a Gf and she has a boyfriend, It was weird but she said that it didnt mean anything but i dont know how i feel. Should i tell my GF idk no what to do i dont even no how it happend omg help
2007-09-24 17:25:51 · 18 answers · asked by Andrew V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok y did u have sex with ur EX-gf in the first place? and yes this is a HUGE mistake, but u should tell ur gf because she has the right to know and its better if u tell her than her hearin it from other ppl
2007-09-24 17:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is not an easy one.
My first instinct is to tell you not to confess. Just accept that you have done a pretty evil thing, and use it to make yourself a better person. You won't be forgiven for something like this.
However, if you asked any girl what she would want if she was in the position of your g/f, I guess they would expect and want to be told. Imagine if you stayed together and decided to get married or whatever and this was still hidden in your past. Not good.
What do other people think? Anyone?
The only other choice is to tell her, but in the sense of "I made a really bad mistake and because of it I don't think we should see each other for a while and when I tell you, you will feel the same." and then tell her. At least it is out in the open and if you do decide to get back together in the future, then there are no secrets.
That doesn't sound like a very easy thing to do, however.
Good luck.
2007-09-24 17:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you "don't even know how it happened"? Of course you do! It was a pretty lame thing to do, wasn't it! And now you feel like a fool and you're afraid your girlfriend will find out and your relationship will go down the drain. I don't think you need to tell what you did but I do think you need to clean up your act and be faithful to ONE girl at a time. If you can't do this, (or don't want to) just break up with your girlfriend. She deserves better than to be with a cheater!!
2007-09-24 17:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you may have some unresolved feelings for your ex-gf. you should tell your gf and then you need to take time to figure why this happened in the first place. as should your ex-gf. you need time alone to figure this out, don't make promises to your gf that this will never happen again until you are sure it won't until you evaluate your true feelings for your gf and your ex-gf. and your life in general. good luck and best wishes.
2007-09-24 17:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Gladys C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you're right... big mistake. You can't keep a secret, you should tell your gf, before she finds out, then you're in deep trouble. Tell her what you wrote here.... not sure how she'll respond, but apologize, promise it'll never happen again, and you better keep your promise. Stay way from your ex!
2007-09-24 17:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all and sundry makes errors. that is not like the errors you made fee your team the sport. you already know what you probably did incorrect so now you will not make the comparable mistake lower back. soccer is like existence you learn out of your errors and you progression on. Judging from the score you weren't the only one on your team that made a mistake. placed it in the back of you and circulate directly to the sport next week and what you're able to do to win it.
2016-11-06 07:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by goerdt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your current girlfriend. Whatever happens happens, but she does deserve to know the truth. Wouldn't you want to know if she had done the same thing? Take her feelings into consideration. If she finds out later on down the road and you hadn't told her... it's going to be all bad.
2007-09-24 17:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you still have feelings for your ex??
oh my for sure... your gf will get mad at you any way... if you tell her the truth, shell get angry... but if not and she finds out about i from others ,she'll get angry too...
well.. if im in the situation of your girlfriend...i would rather
NOT know because it will be hard to accept (if it does not mean any to you) and the trust will be break as well.. but i found out about it next time.. it will be twice as hard...
so if you intend not to tell... dont ever ever allow her to know it... but i know-conscience will bother you forever, so just tell it and i guess she will later on understand if she really loves you
confusing huh..
2007-09-24 17:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by camed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL YEAH,U MADE A MISAKE!!!!!U HAD SEX WITH A X-GF WHEN U HAVE A GF,WHY DID U BRAKE UP IF UR GONNA DO THAT?????listin,nothin bad towards you............u have to make things right,tel ur GF it's better to be honst then to keep thing from her,im nt gonna garantee she'll be ok with it,she'll be mad!!!but she'll be kinda happy u were honest with it!
(by the way wut u did was kinda cheating)
2007-09-24 17:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were thinking, boy?
Well, honesty is the best policy, but she's gonna be ticked, so you ha better be prepared for it.
Good luck--you're gonna need it.
Cheating is NOT ok.
P.S. I agree with scouthern times six.
2007-09-24 17:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Flower_Girl3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋