My most of my close-knit friends started acting kinda fony towards me for no reason. Now, one of them got mad at me for not selling them a ticket to a show, and now they're all freezing me out. They got 2gether over da weekend and took pics, put 'em online, and when I got to school 2day, they all still ignored me and the ones that would say something to me acted like that didn't even happen. Why is she so mad over a ticket that she did'n't pay for or have to drive around the city to find?! This isn't fair nor right. I got a job and PLENTY of other friends but it still hurts they're doing this to me. How do I deal?
2007-09-24 17:23:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you can do is move on, and try not to let it bother you.
2007-09-24 17:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah S 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go. Even the ones you think are built to last sometimes split. It can take some time to deal with, but it gets easier. Having lost friends to what seems as trivial as a concert ticket, you might want to have a look at your relationship with this person (or people) in the recent months. It's likely that there were events leading up to this and this became the final straw. Take it as a learning experience and enjoy the friends you do have.
I also recommend not holding a grudge. let your feelings run their course and then let go. You never know if you are going to cross paths with these people again under different circumstances.
2007-09-25 00:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, that ticket must have been really important to your friend. But like you said, she didn't pay for it. Your friend got her feelings hurt and she also (very important) didn't get what she wanted; your ticket! She must have changed some of the facts and convinced your other friends what a mean and rotten person you are. We have all been victims of untruths and nasty gossip! People are not perfect and sometimes we all behave in stupid ways. Although it might be a little lonely, be strong and hold your head up high. When opportunity allows, tell your other friends what really happened and ask them if THEY think you acted unfair. Remember, try not to be angry with your friend, because we all behave badly at times. Let it go. Move on. Life is way too short to be concerned with other people's tantrums and petty behavior. Seek those who see you for your beautiful self, and remember, judge less and love more. Good Luck
2007-09-25 00:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by reilly9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, as life moves forward for you, many life lessons are learned. Many things are not fair. Character in a person is a good quality. It is not about why they did it, the fact is they ganged up on you and did it. Do not feel hurt as you did nothing to feel hurt about, meaning they are not worth your time of day. Stick with your other friends. When you see those losers in school, hold your head up, smile,say hi, then walk on. You will be just fine. time does take care of that...Good luck!
2007-09-25 00:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be slow to make friends
be slow to lose them
maybe give em ranks or something
remember who is the privates and who is the generals
then maybe down rank if they break trust
I think I might be in love with somebody I never even had a conversation with. Its like an animal attraction thing. I love her very very much. I hope I see her sometimes.
2007-09-25 00:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have asked this same question many times and have come to the conclusion that no one is your true friend! Everyone looks out for them self and that's what separates the weak from the strong.
2007-09-25 00:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, those are sucky friends. Don't feel bad cuz they were probably never your friends. Best buds argue sometimes but always get back together. Better people will come along and you will be just fine.
2007-09-25 00:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by queensruleall 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You got get them together and talk to them, tell them there are other shows to see and not to hold this against you.
If they remain stubborn and gang up on you...I guess you gotta hang with other people.
Friends are supposed to be there when you're stressed...they are not supposed to be the cause of your stress.
2007-09-25 00:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by ~Tiffany~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ignore them because they was probaly only your friends because of the free tickets!! Let them go an hang out with other friends who don't use you!!
2007-09-25 00:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by ajjsdj4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how it feals. it has been happening to me since 3rd grade and i still get it. all you do is hang out with knew friends and forget that other girl. have fun with new ones and when your old friend relizes that she needs you she'll come back to you. be nice to her and dont be mean our she will do it some more. i hope my advise helps you. good luck =]
AmandaLynn
2007-09-25 00:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by AmandaLynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are treating you like that, then they aren't really your friends babe. Time to find some new friends. Show them that they arent bothering you by ignoring you, because thats exactly what they are trying to do. Trust me, it will bother them if you dont react to it.
2007-09-25 00:28:00 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋