and am i ever going to love him truly ever again?
2007-09-24 22:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's probably all it was to begin with
2007-09-24 23:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were concentrating on him as a person before. Lust is natural when you first start having sex with someone. Start taking time for things other than sex again, and you may find that love again.
2007-09-25 06:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love stays, no matter what. If it's gone, it really never was love. It's gotta be lust wearing the cover of love. It tends to do that sometimes... lust is sneaky on the mind... careful...
2007-09-25 06:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by tenZ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust often disguises itself as love. You will probably never truly love him. Enjoy the lust part while it lasts though!
2007-09-25 06:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omigosh! i feel so sorry about that, it seems it is just LUST and not LOVE...it is not easy to walk away from him but it is good for both of you....stop wasting time with him and find another guy that you have a feeling, never mind the sex from the beginning of meeting up, just focus on your heart/mind okay? God bless!
2007-09-25 06:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens!
thats the way things go!
u shud actually not have sex for some time and space ur relatisonhip
try different things, go to a movie, picnic, u knw the fun stuff, but keep your hands off each other,as in sex moves.
jus play it safe and see all the reasons y u fell in love with him in the first place!
jus keep ur calm and dont tink about ur sexual feelings when u both are together
2007-09-25 06:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by glen_music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were in "lust" not in love. Now that you've got it out of your system that urge for him is no longer there.
2007-09-25 06:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not old enough to deal with it. Maybe before you had a dreamy idea of what sleeping together was and now you see the truth.
2007-09-25 06:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you had this great fantasy and when it came down to it he didn't fulfill what you truly wanted.
2007-09-25 06:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by ltcypress_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you probably weren't in love with him in the first place. What's more, sex should be saved for marriage.
2007-09-25 06:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋