is virginity important to all of female ?
2007-09-24 22:49:51 · 22 answers · asked by reygan v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gosh, not this crock of bull again.
Will you guys go and talk about your own insignificant flaps of flesh instead? Because that's all it is. Don't make it something more important than a person's character. Oh, wait, but to you, I'll bet a woman doesn't qualify as a person...
BTW, I'm not waiting 'untill some one will marry' me either.
LOSER!!!
2007-09-24 22:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion, it depends where women live there culture what is done in their country. Each women has their own mind they have rights what they do and how they do it.
If she believes in a religion that says....keep yourself a virgin until marriage then she will want to obey that rule because that is best for her. But, if she does not have these teachings in her heart she might not think this way.
Whatever the choice they can't go back after they decide to have an active sexual life. There are chances you take if you are active...catching diseases or getting pregnant or having a guilty feeling that you should have waited. Plus if you do get pregnant can you take care of the child?
Then there is the talk about abortion some are against it and some think nothing of it like the child is just blood and tissue...so you see this subject of "virginity" brings up many questions...and answers different answers from each woman who would answer this question.
Mentally if a woman remains a virgin until marriage she will be giving her husband a pure gift and honoring him. Medically speaking some woman are not virgins when ready for marriage do to some health reason like injury or they had to have an operation. So in that case a man should not judge a woman if she is not a virgin technically.
In the news you hear about young women being raped is it there fault that it happened....??? then when they are ready for marriage their husband might question them...when they didn't do anything wrong. I hope some of these remarks help answer your question or even makes you ask more questions...this subject has been talked about from the beginning of time I'm sure.
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-09-24 23:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, virginity has been a cultural issue for both men and women since the beginning of time. Now in our culture in the US, most people start having sex when they are in their last years of high school or in college. By the time college is ended, most people have lost their virginity. The exception to this is people who stay virgins due to religious or personal reasons.
So it is important for a lady or gentleman to maintain virginity if those people are in a religious community that requires it, or
if the man or woman simply want to stay virgins for personal reasons.
Being that marriage ends in divorce about 50% of the time in the US, many people have sex without getting married.
2007-09-24 23:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Antonio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Important to whom? To the lady? Well, it's very important for her to realize there's only one "first" and that sex isn't something to be shared casually. Just as it's important for a gentleman to know these same things.
"...until someone will marry her?" You mean "until she marries," right? Not "until some guy agrees to take her." It's important for both men and women to understand the importance of commitment and of waiting until you truly know the person you are going to sleep with BEFORE anything happens. It's important for safety and health reasons, and so that both partners come to the relationship respecting themselves.
2007-09-24 22:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important that she give herself to the right person, or she will feel hurt. A guy that takes a girl's virginity, and knows that he doesn't care about her is evil. The first time is usually very important to a girl.
2007-09-24 22:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it isnt important to most women, and it's becoming less important now that all these skanky little teenage girls think that they need to be having sex so theyre doing so at 13-14 years old. I tell you what, if i were a parent of a teenage girl who decided to have sex that young, my teenage girl would get her *** kicked.
It's important to me, and I've decided to wait until I'm married, but from what I've been hearing, I'm in a minority.
Of course I'd like to find a man who values it as much as I do and that's pretty rare too.
2007-09-24 22:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not important for a lady, its only important for a gents coz he wants a virgin lady to marry but I think 99% of the guys here are not virgin
2007-09-24 22:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL not anymore!!!!
ok maybe that's an over exaggeration but seriously what women worry about now is for it to feel right.
we long since passed that "wait till marriage" phase (though majority women don't wanna tell guys that) because how is it fair that we save ourselves for that but majority of men don't??
we wait for the right time, right man, right moment.-LOL and all that differs from female to female
2007-09-24 23:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very important to me!
I want to wait til marraige.
but for some people its important to the point that they have to love someone first.
and to some people its not important at all.
so it depends on the girl
2007-09-27 05:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl. some girls want to wait for the right guy married or not and others dont care as long as hes hot. just remember to treat all girls as sensitive creatures and be careful where you trod as they say a hell has no fury like a woman scorned
2007-09-24 23:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋