a good friend of mine is happily married but she said she always dreams of being with other men. she cant understand y she has sexual dreams about other men when she totally loves her husband and would never cheat! has anyone else have this problem?
2007-09-28 10:11:56 · 14 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not married, but I have a boyfriend of two years. I love him very much and want no one else. But we both admit to having weird dreams with other people. I know he wants no one but me, and he knows i only want him. It's natural to want someone else because you are so used to what you have... It's nothing to worry about.
2007-09-28 10:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The commitment of marriage is always challenged by the flesh. No matter what anyone says, we ALL experience thinking about being with someone other than our spouse. No matter how large or small a scale of the thought we've all been there. The thing is some are on a larger scale than other. So the best thing to do is to start controlling those thoughts. 2 Corinthians 10:5 KJV says," Casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ." So capture those thoughts and tell your mind and body that those thoughts are sinful and dangerous to the happy marriage that you have.
2007-09-28 10:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Calvin F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These guys in her dream are prolly doing something that her husband isnt. Maybe she wants to have the same feeling she got when her n her husband had sex for the first time. Her dreams may not mean that she wants another man but there may be something lacking in their sex life. I know I have dreams about having sex with my boyfriend every nite but i think its cuz Im its long distance.
2007-09-28 10:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
It happens even to me. I love my boyfriend but sometimes it happens that I dream about other men.
Of course it doesn't mean that I don't love my boyfriend.
Dreams are something you just can't control.
Maybe we are dreaming other guys just because deep down inside we are afraid not to cheat, or the guy in our dreams represents just the object of attraction...it can mean anything. But it is certanly not the red alert for the relationship.
2007-09-28 10:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by kristinakiki777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because secretly - in that deep dark spot inside her (like most women) - she yearns to be sexually aggressive and promiscuous. It has NOTHING to do with the love for her husband. Even if she's eating prime rib every night for dinner, her sub-conscious is longing for a fast food double cheeseburger every once in awhile.
Its normal and healthy, too.
So go ahead and enjoy your dreams - ooops - I mean tell your "friend" its O.K. (wink, wink)
Better yet - let the dream get you all hot and bothered - then take in out on your man when you wake up !!!! That's a win-win if I ever saw one !
2007-09-28 10:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by aa889d 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My question is why does she focus on those dreams about other men. Dreams are dreams, we all have them. It's not a big deal. She needs to spend more time living in real life.
2007-09-28 10:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is a man-made institution. It was designed to check us, so we could create proper family units.
However, sex is completely different. Anyone can dream of having sex with anyone. It doesn't make them any less faithful. What it does show, though, is that the sexual needs are not being fulfilled. Realistically, everyone shouldn't have all of their sexual desires fulfilled, but that won't stop them from wanting.
2007-09-28 10:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Rothwyn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would possibly imply the movement "dream of being with different guys" suggests image of discontent in her unconscious brain. In different phrases, subconsciously she demands extra. Also, it would additionally imply she has a few proud ego in her brain. Her existence is also too ultimate. Projecting dishonest suggests image of dissatisfaction of ultimate existence. That in translations approach she has been too glad virtually and in her brain, in general a few revel in by way of peers or TV media, existence will have to now not be like that. Therefore, subconsciously she created a situation of dishonest. That in general will fulfill her wish of being spotted. In different phrases, she is also looking for concentration from her husband greater than she is aware of.
2016-09-05 10:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not sexualy satisfied with her husband So when she sleeps her subconcious isgiving her the pleasure she needs with other man And I am sure she is sincere when she said she love her husband
2007-09-28 10:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural for a person to think about such things, after all your human. It is another thing to act out on those things when you are married.
2007-09-28 10:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋