Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

I'm 27 and I've never worn make-up in public before (too embarrassed). The skin of my face is quite scarred from acne so I'd probably have to wear a very thick foundation and I think it would end up looking silly - besides I don't think I'd look like "me" since nobody has ever seen me with make-up on.

But lots of people say I should because I'll regret it if I don't look stunning in my photos. What do you think? I'd like opinions from both men and women.

2007-09-29 23:59:23 · 43 answers · asked by mozziewozzie 1 in Weddings

ppl say im beautiful

2007-09-29 23:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-29 23:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she claims to have had a 'different' kind of night. Called me complaining of how her a-hole is swollen. So not my style but what advice should i give her?????

2007-09-29 22:30:04 · 5 answers · asked by La-La 2 in Singles & Dating

the wo.re that let him cheat is being abusive to me through emaill. I now have access to his account and he let her know he was ina relationship & she still met with him & did it with her. He has used Yahoo Answers to meet her and she will not even say sorry . i bet she is a desperate housewife that couldn't keep a husband for herself.

how can i get back at them both? i am so angry

2007-09-29 22:12:22 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my x husband are in the middle of a custody battle. I have caught him several times video taping me at my home, job and when I bring the kids for vistation. What can I do to stop this. I consider it harassment.

2007-09-29 22:10:09 · 10 answers · asked by Tiesa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

want to know about the behiouver when a lady need sex

2007-09-29 21:56:49 · 17 answers · asked by Vishal A 2 in Family

i am wondering to know,you ,my friends,are living in your flat.

2007-09-29 21:45:08 · 1 answers · asked by zi w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the rest of my plans for the evening, are sitting alone at home eating popcorn and watching sex and the city re runs and if so what else should a single girl do on a normal night?

2007-09-29 21:44:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially when in the interne..i mean webcam?they invite us to watch them..very bad..

2007-09-29 21:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am speaking of a casual approach here. Plain English. Simple. Upbeat. And yet ....an about face and flee.....bummer

2007-09-29 21:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is about to marry this chap, but has been unfaithful to her on many occasions. I myself, have just found how unfaithful when I started asking about. The problem is she has this idea in her head that he is prince charming and he cannot do no wrong.
Last week he told her, that he was going on a fishing trip with the lads, but he was spotted in a nightclub by a friend of mine, who said he was 'reeling' somthing other than a fish.
I don't know if I should tell her as I don't know how she will respond, or should i let her get married and then find out for herself. But what kind of friend would i be if i did that ! advice me, this is doing my head in !

2007-09-29 21:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by dangermouse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How much say is your partner getting?
Does he or she want to be involved?
How much time do you spend planning every week?
And, if it's not obvious from your Avatar or name, are you the bride or the groom?

2007-09-29 21:27:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I suppose not to care about her and her life but the problem is she is staying with me in my house because we are working at the same company. In this case you really hear all her lies and she even makes stories out of stories just to clean herself up. You can hear all the lies because she stays with me. During the night i couldn't have a very good sleep because i'm worrying that somebody might enter the house. There are a lot of things that i need to worry about, my safety and so on. If only she's not my housemate i don't care. What is the good way to tell her?

2007-09-29 21:23:20 · 10 answers · asked by trz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The medical problems have to deal with him being diagnosed with multiple blood clots being found in his left leg. He has been taking Coumadin for treatment, but he is still trying to quit smoking. He tells me he still feels pain in his leg, and that it hurts to stand...but I don't know whether to believe him or not. This is because, we just moved to a new town and have been here a month and he has not even tried to search for a job. To complicate matters, his ex filed for child support in December, so I have had to get a second job to pay for it, because he can't work.

My question is...is he procrastinating, or does he truly have a medical problem the Coumadin still hasn't fixed? I know that others who have had blood clots in their legs have still experienced pain, for example his father(who's in his 50's) has been hospitalized twice for clots in his legs, too. Yet, he is still able to work. Is my husband being a slacker for not even looking, while waiting for answers from our doctor?

2007-09-29 21:19:11 · 12 answers · asked by prekteacher 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like he/she just couldn't keep their hands off you, even while you're talking to someone - they rub your back, touch your hair...you know what i'm saying? like they just couldn't resist touching you?

2007-09-29 21:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just trying to figure out something ...

2007-09-29 21:17:04 · 3 answers · asked by ad\ 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 7 months ago. It was so painful and so hurtful. After the break up, I wanted to cut all communication so I can move on but he was calling me for the last 6 moths not to do it that it's too hard and we'll loose each other He emailed me a month ago when I was saying good bye that he is so scared to loose me, he is too scared that he is making a mistake, he was very sad to say good bye, he was begging me not to forget him and he was even telling me that he needs to find himself and he can see himself with me in the future. But when I called him last week he didn't have time, he sounded bothered when I called him, he told me he didn't want to spend his time on the phone and he basically finished the conversation in a fast way without giving me the chance to talk to him. and since then he has not called. That's why I don't understand. He basically walked away and didn't call me back when a month ago, he was sending me such email. I just cannot understand?

2007-09-29 21:12:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in the AirForce and I think I am a pretty good wife. I cook and clean every day and take care of our kid. I always go out of my way to make his day easier. I love doing all the little things for him to make his day better. My husbands happiness means so much to me so I bring him snacks that I make for all the people he works with almost every day along with his lunch and usually plenty for anyone who didnt bring lunch and he says that all the other guys have nothing to say but good stuff about me. Everyone is very nice to me down there but heres the problem...I am not exactly skinny. I have some weight to lose and I cant help but wonder if they actually think I am a good wife and that my husband is lucky to have me or if they just see me as the fat housewife? I know my husband is happy with me but I wonder if they talk behind our backs about my weight. What do you guys think?

2007-09-29 21:07:42 · 27 answers · asked by ilovemyssgt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 and everyone says i'm a really nice guy,but i think i'm to nice but my question is why do nice guys finish last? all my life its the same thing i try talking to this wonderful girl and out of nowhere this so called "bad boy" comes and she falls in love with him it makes me mad but i can't show it b/c everyone knows me as a "good guy" and girls will avoid me.what should i do?

2007-09-29 20:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by g.f. 1 in Singles & Dating

just having sex with you? Is it the kissing part, touching or vibes? What happens before or after? Actions, words or what?

2007-09-29 20:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For years women have not always been honest about being on the "pill". Now a male birth control option will soon be available to men. So is it ok if the guy lies about it? Is it ok if the guy says he's not on male birth control but all along is? Is it ok if the woman or wife really doesn't get to know his true intentions?

Source on Birth Conrol for Men: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21038295/wid...

Check out my YA question "Ladies--Ever lie about being on or not being on the pill".

"That's Life" conducted the "National Scruples and Lies" study surveyed 5000 women and you can read an article on lying about BC and other things such as parentage at
http://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/n...

For those of you who want an opinion from Feminists.com about women lying and this whole issue with male BC go to http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2005/0420sacks.html

2007-09-29 20:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15, my boyfriend is 17. we've been dating for abt 8months now. the problem is, he seems like he doenst care abt me! he doesnt care abt how i feel or how he hurt me. i dnt know why he does dis! and when i ask him whts the problem, he would just say 'nothing' and when i ask him whether he wants to break up with me, he says 'no' help me! wht is wrong with him?? i want to break up with him.. but i cant stand the taught of him being with somebdy else and i cant break up with him! long storyy! aaaaaaaaaaaaggggggg seriously going craazy! i cnt break up with him cuz he has dis crazy ex gf who is still crazy abt him and would do anything to make me break up with him! she did a lot of stuff. but it didnt work. im afraid that if i break up with my bf, hiscrazy ex gf would do smtg to me cz she kns theres noone to back me up now. help! i have this enemy who likes my bf too. and she's kinda pretty. i dont want my ex to be with my enemy! that would be tragic! help!! wht should i do?

2007-09-29 20:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by thereshegoes 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has just found out that her dad isn't her biological father. Her mum had IVF or IUI. This was 13 years ago. Is there anyway she could trace him if she wanted to?
xxx

2007-09-29 20:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is this normal because he says im crazy.

2007-09-29 20:36:14 · 13 answers · asked by oneandonlyness 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well I believe in always being honest so I gave her an honest answer, I told her it wouldnt hurt her to lose a few pounds. Then she accused me of "putting her husband up to calling her a fat ***". (her husband is my ex). Should I have just lied to her?

2007-09-29 20:25:39 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Nobody 5 in Friends

Hi!!! theres this item in ebay I SO WANT IT!!!! But im new in ebay, i know in ends in couple of hours, theres only one bidder so far, I NEED IT!!! I so want to win, but I have never used ebay before, I know how to bid, but is there anything else I can do? how can I win this auction? (besides offering a so expensive price)

Any tips?? what do I need to know and how could I win?

*I havent bidded yet because I dont want to push the other to start raising the price ....

2007-09-29 20:15:41 · 4 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi!!! theres this item in ebay I SO WANT IT!!!! But im new in ebay, i know in ends in couple of hours, theres only one bidder so far, I NEED IT!!! I so want to win, but I have never used ebay before, I know how to bid, but is there anything else I can do? how can I win this auction? (besides offering a so expensive price)

Any tips?? what do I need to know and how could I win?

*I havent bidded yet because I dont want to push the other to start raising the price ....

2007-09-29 20:14:54 · 6 answers · asked by Aija 4 in Friends

My 2 daughters and I was desereted my husband last year. My daughters are now age 16 & 18. Also, since my 18 year old daugher is in school full time can she still qualify for child support?

2007-09-29 20:11:23 · 1 answers · asked by Ann_T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A family member just died and we're all having a hard time. My mom and I got into an argument when I was really upset and not really thinking. I said things that I didn't actually mean but I said them just out of unhappiness, and I told my mom I thought she was being apathetic because she had said she couldn't miss work, etc. I realized I was totally wrong when I started to calm down, and I'm pretty sure I made her feel bad by calling her apathetic. I don't really know how to say how sorry I am to her, so what are some good ways to apologize in a situation like this???

2007-09-29 20:10:11 · 6 answers · asked by kuronekosama_3 1 in Family