I'm 27 and I've never worn make-up in public before (too embarrassed). The skin of my face is quite scarred from acne so I'd probably have to wear a very thick foundation and I think it would end up looking silly - besides I don't think I'd look like "me" since nobody has ever seen me with make-up on.
But lots of people say I should because I'll regret it if I don't look stunning in my photos. What do you think? I'd like opinions from both men and women.
2007-09-29 23:59:23 · 43 answers · asked by mozziewozzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Please do wear makeup. One of the reasons being that without it people often look pale and washed out in their wedding photos.
Go to a department store and have several free trials (tell them it is for your wedding. I'll let you know that they will pressure you to buy the products though). Find one that you like and then either see if they can do your makeup on the day, or get them to write down what they did so you can have it duplicated by someone else(you will have to buy the products but thats ok because you will be using them).
Don't worry about not looking like yourself. The idea of makeup is to enhance your good features rather than completely change your face. And I wouldn't worry about the scarring either the right foundation and concealer can make it look like it isn't there are all. Go for a soft natural look and you will be fine. Remember less is more.
2007-09-30 00:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Stiffler 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would say yes. You wouldn't have to wear much. Acne scars are easily hidden by a light reflective powder and a little touch of mascara would give you a very natural look but enhance your looks and be great for the photos. The powder would stop any reflection from the flash of your photographer and your photos would look much better.
I understand you dont usually wear make-up but at the same time i'll bet you dont walk around in a floor length white gown and arent the centre of the attention of all your friends and family at once.
Why not hire a professional for the day and during your practice explain that you want very light make-up and a very natural look.
You wont regret this.
Hope you have a lovely wedding x
2007-09-30 00:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the opinion of a professional would be helpful in your decision. A professional will let you try out different looks to find what you are comfortable with. Im sure you can look stunning for your wedding without having layers of foundation. A powder foundation can even out the tone without having that spackled look.
I think most women can become stunning with just a little eyeliner and some lipgloss. I say try different things to see what you think looks good AND makes your comfortable. Whats the point of looking AMAZING on your wedding, if no one recognizes you.
2007-09-30 03:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by loki_only1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you get a professional opinion? There are tonnes of options now for skin like you've described. Although I don't have that problem, I got a makeup/hair artist to do a trial and the actual day for me, my mum and bridesmaids. She is a makeup/hair artist for fashion designers and magazines like Cheshire Bridal and she was fantastic. Photographs would look great if you had makeup on as it would 'pick out' eg.. your eyes.
Whether you decide to or not obviously depends on what you feel comfy with, I didn't wear lip colour, just gloss 'cos I've never worn colour. You'll have a fantastic day and look gorgeous whatever you decide to do!
2007-09-30 22:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to wear make up then don't wear it, there are no rules that say you have to. You definitely do not need heavy make-up to cover scarring, that will just make it look worse. If I were you I would go and have some make up trials with a make-up artist and try out some different looks, say you want to keep it natural and light and fresh looking. Make-up can make a world of difference, some plain girls turn into stunning girls with a little bit of colour on their face, if done well it can look amazing, and it can look like you have virtually nothing on at all.
2007-09-30 19:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
I don't think you should wear make-up on your wedding day if you never normally wear make-up. The reason I say this is I had a friend in the same situation as you. She also has acne scars over most of her face and neck.
She decided to have make-up professionally applied, and I have to admit, she did look amazing - the make-up was professionally done, and she did look wonderful in her photos.
However, her confidence took an utter knocking when more than a few of her friends and relations asked what she had applied to her face, rather on how beautiful she looked - it made her feel as if her scars were the only thing people noticed, and certainly upset her on a day where she should have been very happy.
If I were you, perhaps consider wearing a little mascara or lipstick to bring out your eyes or lips, but don't over-do it. Your friends and future husband love you just the way you are - don't change it too much.
Best wishes
abdotzed
2007-09-30 00:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, if I were you, I'd get a professional to apply a really light make-up to emphasise your eyes and lips a little. If you pile on a heap of foundation, in photos it might look ok from a distance, but close up, it will look unnatural and unattractive. Also, you will feel uncomfortable and I would imagine your fiance who obviously loves you just the way you are, might not like this "new" you. This is your big day and you want to feel great - all brides look lovely, and most of that is due to them looking so happy - if you feel awkward, you'll look awkward and this is one day you don't want to have any regrets. Ignore people telling you what you should do for your own wedding and do what makes you feel good about yourself. If your hair and dress are lovely, believe me, your skin really isn't going to be the focus. Have a great day and hold your head up. I bet you'll look wonderful.
2007-09-30 00:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be very helpful for you to go to a makeup person at either a department store or a salon and ask for help in applying makeup. You shouldn't try it for the first time on your wedding day, but if you get some help beforehand, you might actually find it looks quite nice, and it might become a habit for you. I must say, I've seen very very few women who don't look better with some subtle makeup properly applied...while you may not wish to wear makeup for an ordinary day, your wedding is surely no ordinary day!
2007-09-30 02:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try going to a stylist and having them try out a few looks on you. Take pictures and take them home and put them on your mirror for a few days. If you find after seeing them for a while that you enjoy them and it does make you feel beautiful and like a highlighted version of yourself, not "someone else" than go ahead and wear make up on the big day. The makeup artist could probably even give you some simple played down tips if you decide you want to have the option in daily life. If you find you are still uncomfortable with the idea, than scrap it. You want to feel beautiful AND comfortable on your big day, so go with what makes you feel both.
2007-09-30 03:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wear make-up. If done correctly, it won't look silly. I would recommend having it done by a professional, if the budget doesn't allow for that, the cosmetic counters at the mall and make-up stores, like Merl Norman, will do it for free. You may actually like the way you look. Make-up does not have to be applied heavily to "hide" your scars. I suggest Bare Minerals foundations, it provides coverage without being caked-on or too heavy.
2007-09-30 04:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Sugarcookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋