ppl say im beautiful
2007-09-29 23:44:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because guys are sooo difficult. As much as u would think guys like a girls with looks, a good guy likes a girl with personality and heart. So focus on yourself to make yourself the best you want to be and in due time a the right guy will grow the balls to ask you out or you will know when your have met the right guy to ask out yourself.
2007-09-29 23:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by My son is here! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lonely Beauty,
I am sure you are attractive and you have a genuine personality. But to be honest (as I couch guy and girls on getting dates) there could be 101 reasons you are not being asked out.
If you want to chat I maybe able to help. Because without talking to you it's hard to tell what the real issues is. I suspect it is something simple yet elusive or subtle. Often this is the way with beautiful women.
I maybe able to help. I
For Example. I am European guy a Indian female friend who is beauty queen and had the same problem for years she had been having trouble getting dates. Taking all kinds of advise from her friends.
Eventually she talked to me about it. I tweaked her personality and image. Now she is married to a wonderful guy. I have now got three of her friends seeing great, fun, spontaneous guys too.
Now I am suspect you are not looking for a marriage partner, but this give you an idea of what a little straight advice can do.
Drop me a line if you want to get this sorted. jacksonmate at gmail dot com
2007-09-30 07:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jackson Mate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of factors. Assuming you are actually beautiful there are a lot of things that could be happening here. If a woman is a real knock out, really truly good looking this can make them seem unattainable and so men wont bother. Also if you seem cold or unapproachable this can happen. If you dont get out much you may just not be exposed enough. If your looking for a good guy try going places you might meet one. Avoid the bar or clubs though. Try the library, coffee shops, public venues such as parks.
Just get out there and be approachable. Smile and be friendly and you'll get asked out, just give it some time.
2007-09-30 06:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kayle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know, it really has nothing to do entirely with beauty. dont get my wrong, it plays a major role but there other things that real men look at. How do you carry yourself and what do people really say about you behind your back? You maybe beautiful, but if you come off as snobby then your chances to be asked out are what you are getting right now. Most men that see a beautiful woman anyway, thinks that she is already taken.
2007-09-30 07:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by pjackson4@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let someone who you like know that you would be interested... these days, too may guys get into lots of hot water if we let women know we like what we see... so you can ease the concern by letting the fella know...
Also, if you don't look like you will flop into bed, then the guys might not look to you... take this as a complement, as it means you are much more than beautiful... and you will be well rewarded by a very loyal man when the time is right... if you were old enough, I would wish I could be that man -- asuming you to be a woman..
2007-09-30 06:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Vman 2040 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how old you are. If you are, say in lower high school, it is because you are too young. Older than that either you have a very bad personality or you aren't as beautiful as you seem. I know what you mean though, sometimes guys just don't see the light. Pretend you have a boyfriend to get them mad and jealous. Good luck!
2007-09-30 06:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by monicaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You maybe beautiful but if you have a ugly attitude that will go a long way and ppl will go away from you. And you will be along just like now.. Change start speaking and smiling and see how that rocks you. Keep your head up.. My Dear.
2007-09-30 07:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by oneglook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because beautiful doesn't equal smart. Some guys want an intelligent woman that looks good, instead of a self absorbed beauty queen.
2007-09-30 06:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because beauty is not everything and you look like you're waiting to be asked out. Have fun, relax and as soon as you know it, some man will come out of the blue and ask you out.
2007-09-30 06:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Sally Anne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And............ thats exaclty why its hard. The truth is that men are intimidated by you and statistics show that because men are afraid to be turned down they are avoiding asking you. Statistics show that attractive females have just as much of a problem getting dates as not so attractive (physically). You are probably going to have to be more aggressive. Guys are just plain wanting to ask but are figuring you are going to say no. Take it as a compliment.
2007-09-30 06:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kerrick C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋