Family & Relationships - 29 September 2007

I do. He does the SAME THING every time....same position, etc. and it's wham, bam, thank you ma'am! Plus, the only time he ever wants sex is first thing in the morning, when I'm half asleep. Most of the time I just give in so he'll leave me the hell alone.
How do you change your sex life when the other party involved refuses to change AT ALL??

2007-09-29 12:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 12:47:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That person if you found out if their stats exceeded what you constitute as normal? What is that maximum number for you? For me, twenty is pushing it.

2007-09-29 12:41:03 · 15 answers · asked by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 in Singles & Dating

So, I have been with my fiancee now for eight years, enagaged for two years. We are now both 25, living together since we were 20. He works full time, im in school full time, I start medical school in 2009. We want to get married the end of next year (Dec. 08). We have postponed the wedding once due to my graduation status, and now we have pressure from one side of the family to postpone it again. This side think because we don't make enough money and tend to stuggle finacially sometimes we should wait. The thing is we have yet to have a fight over money. We have shared bank accounts since we were 19 and money has never been an issue. We love each other very much, trust each other and are incredibly supportive of each other. We barely argue and if we do, its usually becuase I'm personally looking for a fight. Why should we postpone it? Is it a good reason to pospone because well were kind poor?What do I do? Get married without parents support? Thanks for your imput.

2007-09-29 12:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it thrown when they walk down the aisle, already as husband and wife?

2007-09-29 12:36:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister’s husband flirts and makes me feel really uncomfortable. He always wants to kiss me on the lips, and Yuk, he has a really wiry moustache, Yuk. I would prefer to kiss him on the cheek!.
He always wants to talk to me on the net, chat. When he does find me on the net he talks dirt to me and I hate it. If I don't let him talk to me naughty then doesn't talk to me. He just can't have a nice convo it has to be flirty and naughty. Yuk!
What would you do in a situation like this? I don't want my sister to hate me because of this?
He told me he lays awake salivating about me sometimes. YUK!
Thanks!

2007-09-29 12:34:34 · 27 answers · asked by Purity 4 in Singles & Dating

hi im 14 at a small middle school. this boy i went out with over the summer dumped me and i didnt really care because i never saw him because he was out of state with his dad but we talked on yahoo though the summer. i went to the first dance this year but he didnt. i didnt really but you no. well not really. so i told him id would be nice and go to the next dance with him. he said thankx and okay. i flirt with him a lot and he flirts back and i no he still likes me. but the question is do i still like him because without thinking i said i would go with him.

2007-09-29 12:34:31 · 6 answers · asked by I Heart Jared Millard!!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy. She's the hottest girl on earth. She has it ALL: Body, Brains, Hair - yowza!

And I think she may actually like me. Lately, she's been asking me to go to places with her and she's always sending me funny text messages. Sometimes I think she's staring at me when I'm not looking. But she's says she's a lesbian. Is she teasing me or should ask her out?

Please help. I think about this girl day and night. No joke.

2007-09-29 12:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by LolliaBlack 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so my friend has an abusive mom...she shut her thumb in the car door...pulls her across the room by her hair....locks her in the closet and baracades it...she finally wanted to get emancipated and started to live at her cousins house who lives far away from the school....and now the school system found out that she wasnt living in the same town as the school (her mom called the school)and they keep saying that she has to leave the school and now she has to live with her dad who still lives far away and she cant go to school here anymore and now she has a stepbrother who gets drunk and starts to feel her up while shes sleeping....please can you give me some advice to give her because i just cant think of anything...her last day is on monday :'(

2007-09-29 12:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by courtney 2 in Family

I am in a relationship with a married man and I need advice I love him.

2007-09-29 12:24:28 · 21 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-29 12:19:07 · 10 answers · asked by tpahhriderxox3 1 in Singles & Dating

how was ur day?

2007-09-29 12:16:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding is in 6 weeks...i feel like I'm just DONE with all the planning...and i just want it to be either over or the day of the wedding so i can just be done!!! Anyone else feel like this??

2007-09-29 12:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by chloe1995 3 in Weddings

is it true that wen ur talking to someone and u can tell if they like u by the little black part of the eye getting bigger.. i heard if it gets bigger that means they are attracted 2 u or ave feelings 4 u nd if they don't then they don't well plz help.. thnx

2007-09-29 12:13:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 22 years old
I play video games and get high and drunk all day
I spend my time with my family who also does the same thing and put me through hell in my life. They’re bad people. And I know theyre a bad influence on me
I lie about everything small and big (well I did to my when I was with her and I still lie about everything to her)
I live with my brother who isnt much older and his girl who he also cheats on all the time
I let my family put my ex through hell when she didn’t do anything either
I never finished school (high school)
I don’t have a job (I sell drugs)
I claim I want my ex back to HER and lie about it when other people ask
I sleep with different girls all the time

My ex says she broke up with me for these, among many other reasons
Do you think I at least sound normal though? Like the problem could be her even though she never did anything?

2007-09-29 12:11:19 · 20 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You have to pick one of the options in the headline, you can't pick both, and you can't make up your own option. It would also be great if you explained why you chose the option that you chose.Thanks!

2007-09-29 12:11:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was dating a guy whom I met online. We messaged each other on a dating site for 2 months before we met in person. The chemistry came out 2 be wonderful between us and we spent the next 3 weekends together (they were all day weekends) and he would visit me sometimes in between. After the 3rd week, I finally felt like it was time for me 2 have sex with him. I couldn't hold off any longer and I felt it was time . The day after, everything seemed fine w/ him and seemed the same. But the next day, he seemed sad & slowly as the days went by, he wasn't offering to pay for our dates & didn't seemed as enthused 2 see me anymore. I then asked him what he wanted out of "us" & he told me that he takes things slow & that he was confused about us. We decided to still see each other for the next 4 days, but I broke it off because I felt weird knowing we weren't together. He said that was fine. I called him the next day &told him I didn't mean it, but then he said this is best anyway. What happened?

2007-09-29 12:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Jenna 1 in Singles & Dating

We go to the same highschool and I really don't want to make it weird when I see him. I just want to stay friends because he seems like he's loosing intrest. We don't really hang out anymore, all we do really is hug and kiss. Like at school in the morning we hug and kiss, and do the same after school to. But he really doesn't seem very intrested in hanging out. I need help!!! :(

2007-09-29 12:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

this is something i just have no idea what to say, i usually just snuggle up 2 him nd hug 4 a wile...

2007-09-29 11:56:36 · 12 answers · asked by La P 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy had talked alot over the summer but then we stoped we didn't really hang excpt once and we fooled around he called me a tease because i wouldent **** him& we didn't talk for the rest of the summer i called him a few times after that but he iggnored my calls.at the begening of this year i txted him and told him i was really horny(i was) he said he was busy. well later that week he asked me if i wanted to hang out and if i was still horny and i said sure me and 2 of my friends went over to his older brothers house and one of my friends started to have sex with his older brother. she didn't even know this guy well then me and my guy started to fool around it lead to sex. i didn't want to he couldent really get it in because my hole was too small. afterwords i txted him and told him we would of doen it if my hole wasnt so small. he told me he wont try anymore and pritty much that he is tired of me being a tease now i feel so unpure and grose.

2007-09-29 11:56:09 · 17 answers · asked by Chan X 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm only 5 feet and i like a guy who is around 5'8". Do you think he'll be interested or just won't consider it because of my height? One of my guy friends told me that tall guys usually don't go for short girls. This really let me down. I want to know if it's true. Please help me!

2007-09-29 11:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LOL!!! This guy has only called me once since a month ago when I gave him my number right? So when I asked hm why he says because its because I put too many restrictions on when he can call (I have kids). Anyway its a long story. Then he says "why don't you call me?" cause I've never called him, EVER. So I called because I sent him this really hott email, but he never emailed me back with an equally hott email and wft I call him and he's playing video games with his buddy and asks if he can call me back! What 37 yr old man plays video games with his friend every other ****ing Saturday? He's the one who asked me to have a relationship with him. Right?

2007-09-29 11:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a married is flirting innocently or not? What are some behaviors that indicate wanting an affair, versus just finding someone attractive?

2007-09-29 11:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this 7:30 am would be my first time to have an outing with my bf's uncle and relatives.. i really have no idea of who that persons are.. can you suggest what will be the best thing to do in order for me to hide my nervousness?

2007-09-29 11:47:57 · 2 answers · asked by baby=) 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please rate in order of preference in a relationship?
1)love
2)sex
3)money
4)good looks
5)personallity

2007-09-29 11:47:41 · 7 answers · asked by andy4u 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has cheated on me b4 and he told me stright up with the whole tears and im sorries. But recently I have had this gut feeling that he is hiding something from me.. Now he is working latew, or coming home smelling like perfume or whatever but he tends to sneak online after i fall asleep and just finds little things to argue about to get on the computer. Everytime I question him he turns it back on me like im doing something wrong "too" but he never is specific. He never cuddles with me unless it leads into having sex; im pregnant and i mean im so close to the end where im not in the mood to have sex, and he blows his top over that. He isnt affectionate anymore and he always wants to go somewhere by himself for 12 hours or more...like to the city his brother lives in...but i mean for 12 hours????? As soon as he comes from work he hops online; no kiss, no hug and always short toned with me when i talk to him!! HELP>!?!? am i insecure or are those some signs of him cheating again

2007-09-29 11:47:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

10 years ago, I fell in love with a friend. We became very close and I knew he was my soul mate. Because he was accepted into an academic program, he moved thousands of miles away and we never had a chance to be more . We have kept in constant contact since then, and the feelings have only grown. I have been involved in another relationship off and on for the last 4 years. The new relationship started off with many problems due to a drinking problem. 2x I left my partner because of problems, and both times visited my friend/soul mate. My friend/soul mate still wasn't ready for a commitment and wasn't sure he wanted children. My partner dealt with his addiction, and we got back together. Soul mate has since come to a place where he's ready to be married and says he is grieving the missed opportunity with me. Things with partner are million times better than in past, but the feelings have never matched those had for soul mate. Tried cutting ties with soul mate. Feelings persist. Do I go?

2007-09-29 11:47:26 · 15 answers · asked by Heidi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hear this a lot... sometimes when someone hates someone with such a passion... they may secretly love them but can't do anything about it? or something? I read this a lot.. thin line between love and hate.

Well what do you think?

2007-09-29 11:41:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ppl on here replied to some of my other questions and said a guy i liked seemed to like me back...if he likes me back and has my myspace why doesn't he add me on messenger (my screenname is visible) it's not as if he doesn't have messenger himself because i know his s/n but can't add him because i kinda found it out in a stalkerish way lolz
also he never really replies to my comments (he doesn't reply to other ppls either, only if its a question...)
i always see him looking at me and my friend sees him looking at me too sometimes, he also sees me looking at him so doesn't he get the hint that i'm interested?!

He isn't shy, i am! although i've noticed him being 'quieter' around me.....

2007-09-29 11:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ask him to a dance!
He said yes
we cant talk to each other
its so awkard!!
I need advice and fast!!!

2007-09-29 11:37:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating