I do. He does the SAME THING every time....same position, etc. and it's wham, bam, thank you ma'am! Plus, the only time he ever wants sex is first thing in the morning, when I'm half asleep. Most of the time I just give in so he'll leave me the hell alone.
How do you change your sex life when the other party involved refuses to change AT ALL??
2007-09-29 12:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I don't think it's become a chore. What I've done is to spice it up a bit. Try buying/renting dirty movies and the two of you try different positions. Rent a hotel with a Jacuzzi tub and light candles and sip wine then go for it. By the two of you sexy night clothes. Role play, he's the Doctor and your the nurse. Try tossing his salad with peanut butter(if you know what I mean) Try doing it in a public place on the beach in a car in the bathroom at KFC. Do the 69 position and enjoy each other at the same time. Call him home from work and have a nooner. Hey I could go on for hours. It's been almost seven years and I'm not bored at all. You change it, don't wait for him!!
2007-09-29 13:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Used to feel that way for quite a few years. Then we resolved some things we had been holding against each other, kind of a long and complicated story, but we were both refusing to change our ways about ANYTHING. Now things are great between us. I don't feel stressed out and angry at him anymore and we actually have a sex live now. Neither one of us could have ever believed it could be this great. We are better friends and partners in every way. Whenever someone complains that their sex life is bad, I can't help but wonder what else is going on in the relationship that isn't working either.
2007-09-29 13:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. I felt that way for a while too. Like the lady who does the dishes and has sex with him. I work full time and go to school so im exahusted and don't want to have sex at all. It becomes a chore because he doesn't take the time to make you feel special and ask what YOU want. Talk to him and tell him what you are telling us.
2007-09-29 12:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 13:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it, be open with each other about how you're gonna spice up your sex life. You've got to tell him (sweetly) that you are getting bored of doing the same position and the same time. You initiate it.
2007-09-29 13:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be feeling the same as you. Have you tried talking to him about it all. I would not like the same old thing every time; it would be boring. Have you tried to 'spice it up' by being playful and exciting to him at other times? In any even, time to sit this man down and have a serious chat.
2007-09-29 12:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't look at is a chore because my man really really enjoys sex, and I do too. So we both are on the same level. Plus, if you don't give it to him, he will go somewhere else where he can get it without the hassle.
2007-09-29 13:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by ShezFly2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So if he is doing the same thing all of the time then you must be doing the same thing too.
Take initiative and make REAL moves...not just a coy look with a bit of lace on...that's easy. Treat him like you really want him and he will treat you like he really wants you.
2007-09-29 12:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well have you tried telling him what you think and if he just doesnt want to do a different rutine or possitions i would leave him if i was you because you only live once and i would like feeling that sex is a chore because my partner make me feel that way sex should be something you enjoy so like i said if he doesnt change well just leave him
2007-09-29 13:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all. My problem is that I have a much larger libido then my husband, but when we actually do, about once every 2 weeks, it is very good. It is more special when it is not everyday.
2007-09-29 13:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋