Im 22 years old
I play video games and get high and drunk all day
I spend my time with my family who also does the same thing and put me through hell in my life. They’re bad people. And I know theyre a bad influence on me
I lie about everything small and big (well I did to my when I was with her and I still lie about everything to her)
I live with my brother who isnt much older and his girl who he also cheats on all the time
I let my family put my ex through hell when she didn’t do anything either
I never finished school (high school)
I don’t have a job (I sell drugs)
I claim I want my ex back to HER and lie about it when other people ask
I sleep with different girls all the time
My ex says she broke up with me for these, among many other reasons
Do you think I at least sound normal though? Like the problem could be her even though she never did anything?
2007-09-29 12:11:19 · 20 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah my ex wanted me to get away from them too....but I wouldnt leave no matter how bad they treated us (and her son)
2007-09-29 12:25:03 · update #1
And I do go to church. I feel the love when Im there but then I walk out and go back to normal...last time I went to church with my ex, I gave the church some of my drug money but smoked weed right after at dinner.
2007-09-29 12:26:38 · update #2
Oh i know I could go to prison but I still hate the cops. My oldest brother is in jail for life. I told my ex I wanted to make him and my dead cousin proud and she said then change my life...but I couldnt. I needed and still need my brothers to accept me and this is what I have to do
2007-09-29 12:28:35 · update #3
Im not in college
2007-09-29 12:32:10 · update #4
look you are 22. i think that its time for you to wake up . you are not a child and you need to start acting like an adult. if your parents are bad unfluences than maybe you shoudl ge away from that enviro ment when i was little i was born my mother tried to kill herself many times when i was in her stomache my real father beat me and sexually mollested me because they did what your doing. i dont live with my real parents and i have been put through hell and im still there.i have promblems in my life i lie and idk why i lie about everything !(yeah i know everyone makes mistake)and about the drugs i have family issues with that my aunt and uncle(i live with them)because of drugs, wheb u do drugs imagine what your doind to yourself and other people.when you sell drugs do you care??about those peoples familys?the chidlren who are in those peoples lives?those people can very well die because of YOU!! i dont mean to be mean but i hate it when people do that.you are ruining your life! and what sad is most people are like you so yeah i guess its normal its a bad normal! now for the getting drunk part my real father is an alcohalic hes done a lot hes not supose to hesin jail right now!!you are gonna hurt yourself half of my family is messed up and i hate it when i see aomeone as younge as you who still has a life ahead of them who can still do something to fix it,you are an adult and you are alowwed to drink,but i think you shouldnt get drunk all day everyday. but im sorry because i see people in my life doing exaclty what your doing and your not gonna like whats gonna happen. i think you can make your own desisions but you asked a question so i answered i thinnk u need to stop sleeping with so many dif women and stick to your gf even if shes your ex dont you love her?? do u care about her?? i mean seriusly i think u need to stop while you still have a chance.
2007-09-29 15:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♥RaWR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's normal nowa days anyway.
I would say you where the typical high school head who won't amount to anything till it's too late.( dead or prison ) BUT You have already realized that the life you are living right now is not the thing that normal 22 yrs old live. Or you wouldn't have asked.
Oops ! Well kinda. You do you sound like your in collage. Only difference is when he graduates he'll have a job. and you won't.
Your problems are yours and no one Else's. You should be ashamed of yourself too try too blame a girlfriend. You, are your own man. You do things because YOU want to do them.
I do see you didn't have the best role models growing up. You have to over come that area in your life, But your still young and you can do anything you set your mind too. You just have too do it.
2007-09-29 19:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by thebaked 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think by asking the question you kind of realize you are not "normal". But I also think that you could easily change your situation by doing a few little things, getting your GED, a job, your own place, putting down the pipe and drinking socially. And if you know your family is a bad influence on you, why do you stay?!?!
I was engaged to a guy like you when I was 20. I broke up with him for those reasons!! BTW, I'm now 29 and getting married. The loser I was engaged to is still a loser and hasn't had a girlfriend since...
2007-09-29 19:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Angela O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex was retarded to get with you in the first place. Reality check - you are a loser. As for being normal, i think you might be normal as it doesn't appear (from your list here) that you do anything crazy/insane. If i were you, i'd pack up one day and leave where ever you live, catch a bus and head out to whichever coastline is furthest from where you live. Start a new life away from the bad influences. Otherwise..you will just keep living a miserable life surrounded by everything you dislike about other people and yourself. Don't bother with getting your ex back, she totally over you by now I'm sure. So, justhead out to somewhere new, start over and go back to school.
2007-09-29 19:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Gobi K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this is a serious question, that you need to do some heavy changing and deep thinking. You need to get it together, thats no way to live and you are way too young to be the way you are. Get away from your family and be on your own, get a job, go back to school, do something positive with your life.....
2007-09-29 19:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg dude, you are just my type!! lol Umh, all of these 'great' qualities you've listed really need to be worked on. You need to quit the drugs, quit lying, get a job, and try to make a respectable life for yourself. Your never going to be truly happy if you continue down this path of destruction.
2007-09-29 19:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, son this is not normal . You need to get help. And get away from all the bad influences in your life.
2007-09-29 21:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have or have had a girlfriend. It means that, despite your somewhat treacherous life, you are able to appeal to someone.
I've never had a girlfriend. Perhaps others consider that creepy. It means you make people want to distance themselves from you. So, between you and I, you are more normal. Friends and romance are the defining factors of normality, not money, academic achievement, or anything else.
2007-09-29 19:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
uh no not really It sounds like u need to get a reel job , lay off tha dope an go to to church an find out how too get your prioraties straight good luck an god be with u
2007-09-29 19:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by BOSSMAN 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm HELLO!!! Pshh I don't blame here for dumping a low life loser like u! That's just f*ucked up dude. You got some problems but I ain't gonna stay here all night typing to you telling you how to live your life so whatever, peace
-âSophia**
2007-09-29 19:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋